Break Free From Toxic Relationship Patterns of Neglect, Manipulation and Coercive Control

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“Before the this program I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me to see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, know that yes I do play a part in the dance and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn’t work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward.” L.G

Can Identify With The Following In Your Relationship?

  • Your partner turns every conversation about the relationship around on to you or blames you for their behaviour
  • Your partner tells you you're crazy, irrational, always complaining, or too sensitive all the time when you share with him how he's hurting you
  • You argue about the same issues over and over again, and nothing changes (and he arguments are always started by his behaviour)
  • You feel like you're always trying to put into words and explain perfectly how you feel, but your partner is never actually listening to you, so you go around and around in circles until you collapse from emotional exhaustion
  • You continually feel invalidated, rejected, and like your partner doesn't care about you or how you feel, it feels like he has no concern or empathy for how you're hurting (due to his behavior)
  • You constantly second guess yourself and wonder if you're making too much of things, or if you are misunderstanding his behaviour
  • Your partner constantly minimizes and makes excuses for his bad behavior
  • You often find yourself swinging from feeling you want to leave because the behavior is so intolerable, to feeling hope when he’s “being nice” and promising to change, to wondering if you've tried hard enough to questioning if he really is a narcissist, back to self blame, back into the cycle
  • You often feel confused after interactions with your partner that leave you questioning yourself, and wondering if you really are going crazy
  • When you raise an issue they respond with "you did the same thing when"...to divert the topic away from the issue you want to discuss

How it Works

Once you register you’ll have instant access to the program education area and receive an invite to join our community. You can dive it right away and get started! 

You begin by doing the 30 Day Take Space relationship reset, and once you do this you will have the opportunity to deepen your growth, healing, and transformation over the additional modules in the program.

This reset is part relationship focused, but the basis is focus on you, your wellness, health and life goals as you put your partner on a ‘shelf’ to work on yourself

The curriculum is self paced, so you can take the modules at your own pace.

Once you register you’ll receive an email from me with your next steps, instructions for how to get started, and strategies for how to set yourself up for success.

You’ll also receive weekly emails from me to help keep you on track.


You can post any questions in the community and I will answer them, and coach you around your challenges in the group Monday- Friday. This is a group off of social media to help you stay focused on your work.

My promise: If the only thing you do right now is dive in and commit to doing the work in this program, you will not recognize yourself by the end. In 90 days, if you complete and follow the process laid out step by step, your life will be transformed. Whether you stay or leave, you will not be the same. This program radically and permanently changes women’s lives in ways years of therapy never could!

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Real Feedback And Testimonials From Students:

"I came across this course at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn't make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. Suddenly my needs and the beginnings of some real boundaries were right in front of me, in my own handwriting! I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne, and this incredible course!
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Lynn Course Student
Take Space lifted the veil on what is going on in my marriage. I have been unhappy almost my whole marriage and I felt so much guilt and shame that I was unhappy. Seeing behind the scenes and understanding covert abuse dramatically elevated the feeling that I was a “bad wife” for not liking my husband. It radically opened my eyes to MY POWER. I am SO much stronger than I thought. I am SO much more divinely powerful than I EVER thought. Radically shifting my view from victim to empowered! THANK YOU! ETC helped me see that I am not alone!! For years the dark fog of abuse had me confused and believing the illusion that I was the only one living this way. I thought I was broken, I believed my marriage was shit because I was too sensitive. I am WORTHY of healthy love and connection". J.K
Jennifer
JenniferCourse Student
It was very reassuring to confirm that the cycle is happening and I’m not crazy. I’ve been stuck in this questioning for years and I’m ready to move past it. Why have I never considered “but do I like this” ? Instead of swirling in the unknown. With clarity comes confidence however!
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JaniceCourse Student
My biggest takeaway: I'm not responsible for his words or actions, I can only control me. Love me, focus on me. I'm done sacrificing for his benefit and none of my own. I've got me now, I'm good over here.
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JessicaCourse Student
I hardly ever operate in my logical side! I’m putting off things on purpose and swirl in an emotional tornado. My boundaries are trash and have only been repeated words with no action. I absolutely need 2 journals!
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SherrieCourse Student
I enjoy the phrases you give out. When this is brand new for someone it feels like you need those "training wheels." This is something that is a basic self-care, as a good girl I was never taught. What is in my power to shift? To have a boundary to not play the victim. I am going to have to listen to this module a few times!
KarleyCourse Student
I appreciated the focus being on me first (this has not been this way for a very long time) and put the relationship on the back shelf for a little while. This has allowed me to breathe and come out of the fog so that I may learn more about myself and how I can take control of the things that are in my power and grow into the person I want to become. I'm nervous but also excited for what the future has in store...i couldn't have said that 30 days ago!
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HollyCourse Student
Joining the program has made so many positive changes in my life...how I feel about myself, gained knowledge of myself and patterns that have caused me to have a repeated string of narcissist. Creating boundaries for myself has always been difficult, but after doing the activities I'm better able to make them. Now I'm able to stand firm on the boundaries I've created for myself.
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What You Get Immediate Access To:

  • The Step by Step End The Cycle Curriculum to study at your own pace including videos, MP3 audios, PDF’s and journal exercises to help you go deeper into your truth and get clarity on what you want
  • 1 year,  24/7 access to the course materials 
  • 30 + hours of previously recorded group coaching calls in MP3 format. Listen in and learn as I coach women through every phase of the program. No matter where you are on the path, you will get your burning questions answered, including questions you didn’t know you had, from listening to former students get coached by me. Past members of the program paid thousands of dollars to get coached by me, and you get the recordings at no extra charge to listen to on the go  (over a $10,000 value at my typical hourly coaching rate)
 

Ready for YOUR Big Awakening? Here's a Quick Peak at What You'll Be Doing Inside:

 

  • Take a 30 Day Relationship Break – Get clarity on the patterns by focusing on yourself, and shifting your behaviours in the dynamic
  • Learn how to set new boundaries (for yourself, not to change him) and cultivate a new sense of inner-strength and confidence through developing and standing strong in these new realizations of where your boundaries have been continually crossed – if you’re still not sure if he can change, or if he is a narcissist, realize that learning how to define and set your new boundaries will not create change in your partner, but it will create change within you and how you see yourself. 
  • Define your relationship needs and determine if this relationship has any change of meeting those needs, and clarify your dealbreakers  
  • Stop Trying to Change Him Devote to your inner transformation so that you stop giving in to control and manipulation tactics and start standing up for your rights (instead of trying to please him or keep the peace)
  • Understanding your traits and history and why you have accepted what you have tolerated in this relationship that keep you in the drama and chaos cycles. In order to not repeat this pattern in future relationships you must understand your part in the dynamics
  • Break Your Codependent, People Pleasing Patterns and start doing what it right for you 
  • Class: Begin healing on a mind-body level. An intro to holistic healing, my top resources and book recommendations to help you get to the root of any health issues you may be experiencing with an emotional / trauma root cause
  • Emotional clearing rituals and stress release practices to help you move the energy of neglect, manipulation and control going on in your relationship starting with your own transformation
  • Understanding personality disorders, their impact on relationship and learn when a relationship can and cannot be changed. Learn how the minds of abusive men work, and what he would really need to do to demonstrate his desire and comittment to change 
  • Get Your Money Sh*t Together: 10 Day Money Audio Course – take steps to become more financially minded and change your relationship with money

Here's What Awaits You On The Other Side of Completing The 30 Day Take Space Method:

  • You have more internal peace – even if he is not changing
  • You’ll be able to clearly see the patterns and behaviors (and label them)
  • You’ll have a new  awareness of the cycle and your part in it
  • You feel your energy returning
  • You’ll stop with the incessant obsessing over your partner
  • You’ll feel better overall by filling your own cup and taking better care of yourself
  • You’ll feel more in control of your emotions, and experience less reactivity

Enroll for only $497

Get started today on your transformation journey!
ENROLL FOR ONLY $497

How this program rapidly and permanently changes women's lives in a way that years of therapy could not

Women Answer:

"How did the the Take Space program (formerly End The Cycle) program most help you?"

(Identity is omitted to protect confidentiality)
"ETC helped me recognize the cycle and learn not to emotionally react. Having online support for insight into personal situations so I could relate it to the material".
"Receiving validation, support, and the tools that I need to move forward in whichever way I decide".
"I familiarized myself with gaslighting stone walling etc . Gaining clarity. And having a supportive group behind me".
"I'm in the ETC program and learning so much I wish I knew prior to leaving my ex!" K.R
"I have learned self care/self love/boundaries how to use and practice them. In setting myself routines, and learning about abuse cycles. Knowledge is power and I have learned so much through Leanne's ETC program."
"ETC has helped me to be empowered and know that I am not alone, crazy, or asking for much, learn ways to communicate effectively to not allow myself to self sacrifice all the time and keep boundaries in place, and helped me connect with other women in similar situations and find ways to break the cycle".
Benefits of ETC

How Was This Program More Beneficial Than Going to Therapy?

"The journaling prompts and having some type of “homework” was very helpful. It gave me things to take action on instead of just talking about things."
"ETC made me realize my codependency and my "role" with some of my past relationships with men. ETC dives deep in to narcissism and personality traits that go along with it. ETC reminds me to let go of the "victim mentality"; providing me with an awareness and accountability for myself. I matter."
"ETC offered specific information that helped me understand not only the spectrum of narcissistic behavior but also my own role in the relationship. ETC also hammered home the importance of self-care as a means to place the focus on myself as well as highlight how self-care practices are essential to staying well physically and emotionally."
"The accountability and an outlined directives for self soothing and regulating emotions have been most helpful once aware of codependency patterns."
"ETC is way more actionable and future-focused than therapy."

What Women Like You Are Saying About The Program:

"Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and emotionally abused, daily. I didn't even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne and the ETC program], I empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I'm learning about energy and I am motivated to protect mine. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I've changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C
“If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behavior and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Leanne taught me to set boundaries and take care of me. Thank you for lifting me up”. J.P
"ETC has radically shifted my reality. ETC has transformed my beliefs that I was powerless, unworthy, unseen and unheard. For so long I felt stuck and helpless. ETC is a bright beacon of light shining light on the TRUTH. The truth is I am powerful, worthy, seen and heard! I matter! I am deserving of a healthy relationship and I no longer accept mistreatment in place of love. Thanks Leanne!" A.T
"Before I found Leanne, I had spent a year reading and watching everything I could get my hands on about narcissistic abuse. I went from simply being educated about it to being supported and coached in such a caring and understanding way that gave me the strength and validation to leave. If I wanted to stay, she would have certainly helped me with that too. That’s what is different with Leanne. She supports you with whatever you decide to do."
"Before ETC I was still trying to figure out both me and my husband. ETC helped me to focus solely on me and what I need and want in a relationship. I was able to let go of some things that were not helping me and had actually been hurting me. I gained a lot of confidence about myself and my own abilities. I feel like a capable and empowered woman now. I don’t know exactly what my future looks like but I know I can handle it."
"Before ETC, I was leaning toward leaving the relationship--and that's where I am now, except I feel much more "prepared" mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life -- and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I've shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I'm showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me--and was one of several "aha" moments."
"Before joining ETC, I knew my relationship was toxic but my coping was not getting me the change or feeling of stability and inner calm I desperately was seeking from others (friends, doctor, therapist.) Two plus years of personal therapy seemed lacking in the understanding of emotional abuse and how to help myself. An attempt to leave without support was unsuccessful. ETC has given me a clearer understanding on the cycle of abuse, tactics used to keep me in fear and under control in this relationship for years. I am now aware of how my silence, over-functioning, almost nonexistent boundaries and victim mentality contribute to abandonment of myself, codependency, reactive behaviours and avoidance of conflict. Unresolved childhood trauma and buried emotions added to my inner turmoil and inability to self regulate my moods. Learning to detach from negative interactions and conversation has been a huge positive shift in my self healing. The many layers of trauma need my attention for ongoing healing. Increasing selfcare, keeping routine while reinforcing my boundaries and SPEAKING my truth (and improving what and how I say it and positive self talk)is building my self confidence. Although I know I no longer wish to remain in this relationship, I am staying, for now, to work on myself in preparation. I feel prepared with a self care routine for my emotional and physical health; along with an exit strategy. Being aware of old ways of avoidance and fear; how to return to myself and seek support when taking the next steps is crucial for my success and growth. With divine gratitude, S.R."
"My partner and I have been inching toward separating for years, but we have a young daughter and separation would likely mean she and I moving to another town to be near my family. Over the past few months the discussions were getting more serious and there were a number of times where we decided to move forward with separating. My partner would have an overnight change of heart and the pattern would begin again. I was burned out, completely dissociated from myself and at a loss about how to proceed. Now I have taken ownership of my decision to stay in this relationship for now. I have always felt like I wouldn't leave without knowing I had tried everything, but couldn't accept that the thing I needed to try was prioritizing myself and my needs. I understand that, while I was not the cause of it, my codependency and lack of boundaries were enabling his emotionally abusive behaviour. Working on myself has given me clarity on what my boundaries are and I find myself setting them more consistently every day. I'm learning to trust myself more and worry about the future less."
"I was lost in the fog because I had not been true to myself due to strong codependent patterns. I learned that I need to practice self care. I understood that setting boundaries and enforcing them is a skill - it needs to be practiced consistently. And most importantly, I learned to take radical self responsibility and own my power. I am not a victim."
Have questions?

Frequently asked questions

This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world! 

I have a background as a Registered Counsellor specializing in counselling psychology. While not a substitute for therapy, ETC will provide you with in-depth transformation, community support, responsive answers to your questions as they arise, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in regular therapy. You can take this program along with therapy. It’s your choice.

While not a substitute for therapy, this program contains within it everything I have ever learned through my personal experience with narcissistic abuse, as well as the 11 years I have counselled and coached women. Over the past 6 years, I have specialized in helping women break free from narcissistic marriages, and this program is the process I have lead groups of women through to help them find freedom

 I am no longer practicing as a registered counsellor (by choice). My courses and services are not covered by insurance.

There are no cancellations or refunds.

Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file. 

The End The Cycle process is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. The process you are guided through will give you clarity and step by step guidance to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.

Many women leave a relationship like this and return, statistics say 7 times, before leaving for good. It is also common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in ETC  as you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good. Based on my work with hundreds of women in this program, having support as you leave and after you exit is invaluable. Leaving and staying no contact is the hardest thing you will have to do. 

You get out of anything that you put into it. I recommend dedicating a set time to do your personal growth and study. Part of change is creating time to do this work.  Also, keep in mind, clients report this process and the tools within it have done more for them in 30 days than years spent in therapy getting nowhere.  transformation.

We do not make currency adjustments. Adjusting the currency for every person that requests it would be extremely time consuming, and an admin nightmare. USD is a standard and universal currency for global businesses, and 90% of our business expenses, including software and tools to house our online programs, are paid for in US dollars

 ETC is designed to get you out of overwhelm by taking very specific and focused ACTIONS. Right – action is the cure to overwhelm.

Leanne

Your Guide

Who Am I?

For the past 11 years I have practiced as a professional counsellor and coach. I have an educational background in fitness training, Reiki Levels 1 & 2, Counselling Psychology and Mindfulness based coaching. I have specialized in the areas of women’s holistic healing, and more recently, over the past 6 years have specialized in helping women break free from toxic and narcissistic relationships. 

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