Leanne Oaten – Relationship Mentor for Women

Who Am I, And How Can I Help You Uplevel Your Life?

Hi, I’m Leanne Oaten, and I’m a former registered professional counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology.

If you’re like most women in my community, you are an action taker who wants a fast track solution to elevate your life to the next level, but your relationship or other areas of your life are holding you back from true happiness and fulfillment, vibrant health and as well as the success you want in your career and business.

I support successful, ambitious career women in overcoming the unconscious patterns that keep them reliving the same experiences and circumstances in dating and relationships by doing the inner healing work.

I have over 13+ years of combined experience working with women in my private counselling practice, and running online group programs for women all over the world.

If you know you’re ready to heal from the inside out, and you want a solution to grow and become empowered to change your life, you’re invited to take the step today and get started below with the many resources I have available.

You may not know what your next steps are, or if leaving your relationship is the right thing to do, but it starts with committing to living life for yourself and becoming who you are meant to be as a powerful, wild, awakened woman.

Take the next step below to begin your journey…

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You know the conversation isn’t going anywhere within the first ten minutes — and you keep having it anyway. Or, you may have found yourself not speaking up and going further into denial. This episode looks at what actually happens when you stop talking because he can’t hear you: you don’t just lose the conversation, you lose yourself in it. We break down why long, winding, unresolved conversations feel so hard to walk away from, the addictive pull underneath them, and what to do instead.

What You’ll Learn

Why you keep having the same unresolved conversation over and over, even when you know how it ends
The addictive component of long, winding conversations — what you’re actually chasing when you keep talking
What “losing yourself” in a conversation looks like in real time, and how to catch it before it happens
What to do instead of the long, winding conversation that goes nowhere
How to recognize emotional quicksand before you’re in it

Key Ideas Covered

The moment you lose yourself — talking stops being communication and becomes a bid for a response that isn’t coming. That’s the moment self-abandonment starts.
The addictive pull— why the conversation feels compulsive, not optional. The near-miss of almost being heard keeps you coming back for one more round.
Emotional quicksand — the more you explain, defend, and re-explain, the deeper you sink. Struggling harder doesn’t get you out; it’s what keeps you in.
Unhealthy vs. healthy man — what actually changes when the man across from you is capable of hearing you: how he responds to being told something hard, whether the conversation resolves or repeats, and whether you leave the conversation more grounded or less.
What to do instead — the alternative to over-explaining and re-litigating: naming the pattern, stating what you need once, and letting his response (or lack of one) be the information.

Who This Episode Is For

Women who find themselves having the same conversation on repeat, women who leave conversations with their partner feeling more depleted than resolved, and anyone trying to tell the difference between a man who’s struggling to communicate and a man who simply isn’t going to.

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