Formerly End The Cycle, this is my tried and true proven process that empowers women to break free from the chaos and pain of a narcissistic marriage by reclaiming their power and mental clarity to plan their next steps

“Before the this program I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me to see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, know that yes I do play a part in the dance and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn’t work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward.” L.G

In many toxic relationships, there is a cycle of abuse characterized by periods of tension, followed by explosive incidents, and then reconciliation or a temporary calm. This cycle can create a sense of hope that things will improve or that the abusive partner will change, leading women to stay in the relationship despite the harm it causes.

Is The Toxic Love Rehab Right For You?

If You Can Relate to Any Of the Following, This Program IS Definitely For You!

You're ready to take back your power and stop wondering "is he really a narcissist? Or am I reading too much into things?"

“End The Cycle lifted the veil on what is going on in my marriage. I have been unhappy almost my whole marriage and I felt so much guilt and shame that I was unhappy. Seeing behind the scenes and understanding covert abuse dramatically elevated the feeling that I was a “bad wife” for not liking my husband. ETC radically opened my eyes to MY POWER. I am SO much stronger than I thought. I am SO much more divinely powerful than I EVER thought. Radically shifting my view from victim to empowered! THANK YOU! ETC helped me see that I am not alone!! For years the dark fog of abuse had me confused and believing the illusion that I was the only one living this way. I thought I was broken, I believed my marriage was shit because I was too sensitive. I am WORTHY of healthy love and connection”. J.K

Inside, you'll be walked through my specialized process I have taken countless women though over the years, using my End The Cycle Method

Here's What You'll Be Doing Inside:

Module 1: Get Clarity And A Definitive Diagnosis of Narcissistic Abuse and Stop Your Patterns In The Dynamic:

Walk away with a clear understanding of narcissistic abuse, the behaviours, tactics and manipulation they ALL have in common, and how to remain in your power and no longer feel powerless over your life. No more second guessing yourself. Once you have this clarity, it is much easier to move into phase 2. Lean back!

Module 2: Take Space To Get Clarity, Focus On Yourself

Walk away with the ONE and only solution to disentangle from the web of narcissistic abuse and control. You can implement this no matter where you are with your decision to stay or leave. This one method I teach you will serve you for life, and you will no longer feel controlled by how they are behaving. And this sets you up perfectly to move into setting your new dealbreakers, needs, and non-negotiables. This will make it crystal clear whether you can actually stay in the relationship and thrive.

Module 3: Stop Abandoning Yourself |Define Your Boundaries, Dealbreakers and Nonnegotiable Needs

Walk away with the foundational understanding of how to set boundaries with people and partners who disrespect you. Learn the types of boundaries and how to enforce them without repeating yourself over and over. Learn the secret to setting powerful boundaries without more ineffective communication and conflict.

Module 4: The Self Reclamation Process |
Coming Back In To Relationship With YOU

Walk away from this module with a solid self care foundation that embraces your whole being. Implementing this inner work will serve you as you navigate your next steps, and help you reach your vision faster once you leave, with your wellbeing at the forefront. 

Module 5: Should You Stay Or Should You Go? Getting Clarity + Planning Your Next Steps

Walk away with your first clearly defined steps to move out of the relationship based on your goals, situation and current circumstances. You may not be able to leave right away, but you will be equipped with the plan, mindset and strategy to carry out your exit within even the most difficult, complex situations 

Maybe right about now, you're feeling terrified that by joining you'll have to make a quick decision to leave your partner, and you don't feel ready to leave

The advice to ‘just leave’ isn’t always wise guidance. Some women need a plan for getting to a place where they can leave and feel more prepared to take that final step.

This program is not about forcing you to make a hasty decision about whether to stay or go. And, I know you may still have doubts that leaving is the right choice. It makes sense you’d give this careful thought, and this is why the program is a step-by-step process specifically for women who are still unsure if they should leave.

ETC is about giving you the process and tools (backed by a therapeutic approach) guiding you to make your own decisions by doing the inner work necessary to change your unhealthy patterns… because in the end, nobody knows better about what to do about your life and relationship than you do. 

How Is Your End The Cycle Process Different Than Anything I've Tried So Far?

For starters, I have an 11+ year background in Counselling Psychology,  and Mindfulness Based Coaching which I obtained at the time of my training. I combine coaching methodologies with holistic principles, and psychology, to bring you a powerful combination of both modalities. 

I have also lived my own experience with narcissistic abuse, so I have the advantage  of understanding exactly what you’re going through.  I combine this learned wisdom with my professional training, and 11+ years experience working with clients. 

I created this program so women could study and implement the modules around their busy lives, without having to leave their home, and I am guarantee, there is no program like this out there. 


My promise: If the only thing you do right now is dive in and commit to doing the work in this program, and follow it step by step, you will not recognize yourself by the end. This is not a quick fix, but your life will be transformed. Whether you stay or leave your marriage, you will not be the same. This program radically and permanently changes women’s lives in ways years of therapy never could!

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This is what awaits you on the other side...

“I came across this course at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn’t make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. Suddenly my needs and the beginnings of some real boundaries were right in front of me, in my own handwriting! I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne, and this incredible course. Thank you so, so much.” J.P

Inside You Get INSTANT Access TO:

  • Is He Really That Bad? Or Am I Just Too Sensitive ($39) Subtle ways you are being manipulated if you always think you’re being too sensitive and what to do about it 
  • Take Space Course ($497): How to stop your toxic relationship patterns that are keeping the cycle going, learn your part in the dynamics, get clarity on your next steps 
  • When You Know You Need to Go ($97): Plan Your Exit Strategy including an in-house separation if need be
  • Awakened And Energized Program ($297): Heal from Burnout and Adrenal Imbalances, Emotional Eating and Body Image 
  • Become a Boundary Badass Course ($297): Learn how to set boundaries without allowing guilt to take over
  • Ask Leanne Q & A Archive: Over 30 hours of on-air coaching call MP3 recordings ($5,000) of women who are working toward leaving a narcissistic relationship. Women pay thousands to get these live coaching calls with me, and you benefit from them as part of your All Access Pass.
  • Parenting with a Narcissistic Partner class ($97)
  • Intro to Somatic Healing Class ($97)
  • The Narcissistic Abuse Effect class ($97) – What Trauma Does to The Body and Mind 
  • Empath’s HSP’s and Attracting Toxic Relationships class ($47)

Total Value is OVER $5,000, But You Get Instant Access To It All Today For Only $897

The End The Cycle Method rapidly and permanently changes women's lives in a way that years of therapy could not

Women Answer:

"How did the program most help you?"

(Identity is omitted to protect confidentiality)
"ETC helped me recognize the cycle and learn not to emotionally react. Having online support for insight into personal situations so I could relate it to the material".
"Receiving validation, support, and the tools that I need to move forward in whichever way I decide".
"I familiarized myself with gaslighting stone walling etc . Gaining clarity. And having a supportive group behind me".
"I'm in the ETC program and learning so much I wish I knew prior to leaving my ex!" K.R
"I have learned self care/self love/boundaries how to use and practice them. In setting myself routines, and learning about abuse cycles. Knowledge is power and I have learned so much through Leanne's ETC program."
"ETC has helped me to be empowered and know that I am not alone, crazy, or asking for much, learn ways to communicate effectively to not allow myself to self sacrifice all the time and keep boundaries in place, and helped me connect with other women in similar situations and find ways to break the cycle".
Benefits of ETC

How Was Applying The End The Cycle Method More Beneficial Than Going to Therapy?

"The journaling prompts and having some type of “homework” was very helpful. It gave me things to take action on instead of just talking about things."
"ETC made me realize my codependency and my "role" with some of my past relationships with men. ETC dives deep in to narcissism and personality traits that go along with it. ETC reminds me to let go of the "victim mentality"; providing me with an awareness and accountability for myself. I matter."
"ETC offered specific information that helped me understand not only the spectrum of narcissistic behavior but also my own role in the relationship. ETC also hammered home the importance of self-care as a means to place the focus on myself as well as highlight how self-care practices are essential to staying well physically and emotionally."
"The accountability and an outlined directives for self soothing and regulating emotions have been most helpful once aware of codependency patterns."
"ETC is way more actionable and future-focused than therapy."

What Women Like You Are Saying About The Program:

"Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and emotionally abused, daily. I didn't even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne and the ETC program], I empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I'm learning about energy and I am motivated to protect mine. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I've changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C
“If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behavior and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Leanne taught me to set boundaries and take care of me. Thank you for lifting me up”. J.P
"ETC has radically shifted my reality. ETC has transformed my beliefs that I was powerless, unworthy, unseen and unheard. For so long I felt stuck and helpless. ETC is a bright beacon of light shining light on the TRUTH. The truth is I am powerful, worthy, seen and heard! I matter! I am deserving of a healthy relationship and I no longer accept mistreatment in place of love. Thanks Leanne!" A.T
"Before I found Leanne, I had spent a year reading and watching everything I could get my hands on about narcissistic abuse. I went from simply being educated about it to being supported and coached in such a caring and understanding way that gave me the strength and validation to leave. If I wanted to stay, she would have certainly helped me with that too. That’s what is different with Leanne. She supports you with whatever you decide to do."
"Before ETC I was still trying to figure out both me and my husband. ETC helped me to focus solely on me and what I need and want in a relationship. I was able to let go of some things that were not helping me and had actually been hurting me. I gained a lot of confidence about myself and my own abilities. I feel like a capable and empowered woman now. I don’t know exactly what my future looks like but I know I can handle it."
"Before ETC, I was leaning toward leaving the relationship--and that's where I am now, except I feel much more "prepared" mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life -- and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I've shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I'm showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me--and was one of several "aha" moments."
"Before joining ETC, I knew my relationship was toxic but my coping was not getting me the change or feeling of stability and inner calm I desperately was seeking from others (friends, doctor, therapist.) Two plus years of personal therapy seemed lacking in the understanding of emotional abuse and how to help myself. An attempt to leave without support was unsuccessful. ETC has given me a clearer understanding on the cycle of abuse, tactics used to keep me in fear and under control in this relationship for years. I am now aware of how my silence, over-functioning, almost nonexistent boundaries and victim mentality contribute to abandonment of myself, codependency, reactive behaviours and avoidance of conflict. Unresolved childhood trauma and buried emotions added to my inner turmoil and inability to self regulate my moods. Learning to detach from negative interactions and conversation has been a huge positive shift in my self healing. The many layers of trauma need my attention for ongoing healing. Increasing selfcare, keeping routine while reinforcing my boundaries and SPEAKING my truth (and improving what and how I say it and positive self talk)is building my self confidence. Although I know I no longer wish to remain in this relationship, I am staying, for now, to work on myself in preparation. I feel prepared with a self care routine for my emotional and physical health; along with an exit strategy. Being aware of old ways of avoidance and fear; how to return to myself and seek support when taking the next steps is crucial for my success and growth. With divine gratitude, S.R."
"My partner and I have been inching toward separating for years, but we have a young daughter and separation would likely mean she and I moving to another town to be near my family. Over the past few months the discussions were getting more serious and there were a number of times where we decided to move forward with separating. My partner would have an overnight change of heart and the pattern would begin again. I was burned out, completely dissociated from myself and at a loss about how to proceed. Now I have taken ownership of my decision to stay in this relationship for now. I have always felt like I wouldn't leave without knowing I had tried everything, but couldn't accept that the thing I needed to try was prioritizing myself and my needs. I understand that, while I was not the cause of it, my codependency and lack of boundaries were enabling his emotionally abusive behaviour. Working on myself has given me clarity on what my boundaries are and I find myself setting them more consistently every day. I'm learning to trust myself more and worry about the future less."
"I was lost in the fog because I had not been true to myself due to strong codependent patterns. I learned that I need to practice self care. I understood that setting boundaries and enforcing them is a skill - it needs to be practiced consistently. And most importantly, I learned to take radical self responsibility and own my power. I am not a victim."

Frequently asked questions

This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world! 

While not a substitute for therapy, TLR will provide you with in-depth transformation, community support, responsive answers to your questions as they arise, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in regular therapy. You can take this program along with therapy. It’s your choice.

There are no cancellations or refunds.

Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file. 

The TLR Method is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. This method will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.

Many women leave a relationship like this and return, statistics say 7 times, before leaving for good. It is also common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in this program will help you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good. 

You get out of anything that you put into it, this is an investment in your future self. Plan for 3 hours weekly for watching/listening to the material, study and notes/journalling, or any homework you have to do. Past clients report this program did more for them in 30 days than months spent in therapy getting nowhere. If you focus and stay in the work you will experience profound transformation.

We do not make currency adjustments. Adjusting the currency for every person that requests it would be extremely time consuming, and an admin nightmare. USD is a standard and universal currency for global businesses, and 90% of our business expenses, including software and tools to house our online programs, are paid for in US dollars

This program is designed to get you out of overwhelm by taking very specific and focused ACTIONS. Right – action is the cure to overwhelm.

 I am no longer practicing as a counsellor, and the ETCE program is not counselling, it is a coaching and mentoring program. Therefore, this service is not covered by insurance.

You get 12 months of community access with your program. You can post any questions in this group!

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