Formerly End The Cycle, this is my tried and true proven process that empowers women to break free from the chaos and pain of a narcissistic marriage by reclaiming their power and mental clarity to plan their next steps
“Before the this program I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me to see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, know that yes I do play a part in the dance and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn’t work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward.” L.G
In many toxic relationships, there is a cycle of abuse characterized by periods of tension, followed by explosive incidents, and then reconciliation or a temporary calm. This cycle can create a sense of hope that things will improve or that the abusive partner will change, leading women to stay in the relationship despite the harm it causes.
Is The Toxic Love Rehab Right For You?
If You Can Relate to Any Of the Following, This Program IS Definitely For You!
- You avoid confrontation with your spouse because he he turns every conversation about the relationship around on to you leaving you feeling at fault for the relationship issues and conflict
- You're done trying so hard to explain how you feel and constantly feel shut down and dismissed. You start to feel unworthy of love and connection and wonder if you will ever know what healthier love feels like
- You have fights about the same issues over and over again, and nothing changes. You go to the cupboard for chocolate, or pour a glass of wine to numb yourself from the anxiety and stress you feel
- You crave a loving connection with your partner, but no matter how you try to communicate, or initiate changes you want it always ends up in a fight, and you feel at fault for bringing the issue up in the first place
- You keep doing more to balance your work and career life but your relationship takes up a lot of space in your mind, you can't focus as you ruminate and obsess over him and what he's doing (or not doing).
- You are smart, and have a successful career, and have a close circle of friends that love you, but in your relationship you constantly second guess yourself and wonder if you're making too much of things, or if you are misunderstanding his behaviour
- You often find yourself swinging from feeling you want to leave because the behavior is so intolerable, to feeling hope when he’s “being nice” and promising to change, to wondering if you've tried hard enough to questioning if he really is a narcissist, back to self blame, back into the cycle
- You often feel confused after interactions with your partner that leave you questioning yourself, and wondering if you really are going crazy
- You're doing all the things to feel better, you read books, listen to podcasts, go to therapy, exercise, eat well and take your supplements, and even work with a naturopath, but no matter what you do you're exhausted physically and keep pushing yourself juggling work, home and parenting, you feel like you're failing, so you push harder to do more
You're ready to take back your power and stop wondering "is he really a narcissist? Or am I reading too much into things?"
“End The Cycle lifted the veil on what is going on in my marriage. I have been unhappy almost my whole marriage and I felt so much guilt and shame that I was unhappy. Seeing behind the scenes and understanding covert abuse dramatically elevated the feeling that I was a “bad wife” for not liking my husband. ETC radically opened my eyes to MY POWER. I am SO much stronger than I thought. I am SO much more divinely powerful than I EVER thought. Radically shifting my view from victim to empowered! THANK YOU! ETC helped me see that I am not alone!! For years the dark fog of abuse had me confused and believing the illusion that I was the only one living this way. I thought I was broken, I believed my marriage was shit because I was too sensitive. I am WORTHY of healthy love and connection”. J.K
Inside, you'll be walked through my specialized process I have taken countless women though over the years, using my End The Cycle Method
Here's What You'll Be Doing Inside:
Module 1: Get Clarity And A Definitive Diagnosis of Narcissistic Abuse and Stop Your Patterns In The Dynamic:
- Understand the cycle of abuse and the tactics and behaviours to know for sure if this is what you're experiencing (even if you have doubts or aren't sure)
- Learn how to calm yourself down and so you stop reacting in ways that perpetuate the cycle (that he can use against you later) and you can feel good about how you're showing up no matter what he's doing
- Learn how you're playing into the dynamic, how to stop feeding the cycle, regain your inner peace and stop feeling controlled and powerless in your life
- Unhook yourself from the emotional addiction to the drama which is driving you to keep ending up back in the toxic cycle
Walk away with a clear understanding of narcissistic abuse, the behaviours, tactics and manipulation they ALL have in common, and how to remain in your power and no longer feel powerless over your life. No more second guessing yourself. Once you have this clarity, it is much easier to move into phase 2. Lean back!
Module 2: Take Space To Get Clarity, Focus On Yourself
- Lean back and stop trying to control your partner and relationship. Start redirecting your energy and focus toward yourself and building up your own life. THIS is a total game changer!
- Stop enabling bad behaviours. self sacrificing, overhelping, over-functioning, over-giving and enabling behaviors keep the dynamic alive and actually prevent change from happening
- Detach from the outcome when you start to change your part in the dance and STOP doing all the work to fix the relationship and mange the home, kids, finances and all the things you do to fill the gap for your underfunctioning partner
- Redirect the energy toward yourself rather than on your partner and the toxicity and drama cycles
Walk away with the ONE and only solution to disentangle from the web of narcissistic abuse and control. You can implement this no matter where you are with your decision to stay or leave. This one method I teach you will serve you for life, and you will no longer feel controlled by how they are behaving. And this sets you up perfectly to move into setting your new dealbreakers, needs, and non-negotiables. This will make it crystal clear whether you can actually stay in the relationship and thrive.
Module 3: Stop Abandoning Yourself |Define Your Boundaries, Dealbreakers and Nonnegotiable Needs
- Define what you want and need in your relationship. Know your dealbreakers and ultimatums, while standing firm in the consequences you will act on if they are not met with changed behaviour
- Learn why talking about your boundaries alone doesn't work (and what to do instead when they are not respected)
- Learn how to build embodied boundaries and how to stand in them without guilty, or like a bad person
- Learn the 8 Types of Boundaries And How to Set and Enforce Them
Walk away with the foundational understanding of how to set boundaries with people and partners who disrespect you. Learn the types of boundaries and how to enforce them without repeating yourself over and over. Learn the secret to setting powerful boundaries without more ineffective communication and conflict.
Module 4: The Self Reclamation Process |
Coming Back In To Relationship With YOU
- Lift the veil of confusion and seeing things as they really are. Your confusion is self sabotoge!
- Take 100% ownership for where you are, and learn why it is the only way to change your patterns and life
- Embrace your self reclamation and start becoming the woman you truly are
- Break your codependent, people pleasing patterns of putting everyone else first and start putting your needs at the top of the list
- Create your holistic self healing plan with rituals, and self care practices that embody your mental, emotional, spiritual and physical wellbeing
Walk away from this module with a solid self care foundation that embraces your whole being. Implementing this inner work will serve you as you navigate your next steps, and help you reach your vision faster once you leave, with your wellbeing at the forefront.
Module 5: Should You Stay Or Should You Go? Getting Clarity + Planning Your Next Steps
- Get the essentials in place now, even if you're not ready to leave yet, so that you're prepared when the time comes. Know exactly what you need to get organized BEFORE you actually leave the relationship.
- Preparing for the emotional storm as you take steps to leave and afterwards
- Learn self soothing tools and practices for when you're triggered or experiencing intense emotions
- Things you MUST make sure of when it comes to writing and signing legal agreements (and protecting your children) that if missed, could cost you big money and lost financial support for your kids
- What to do if you decide not to leave or don't feel ready to make that choice
- Identify your personal psychological blocks and limiting beliefs that have kept you stuck in this relationship, learn more empowering ways of thinking and shift your beliefs to ones that support your new life vision
Walk away with your first clearly defined steps to move out of the relationship based on your goals, situation and current circumstances. You may not be able to leave right away, but you will be equipped with the plan, mindset and strategy to carry out your exit within even the most difficult, complex situations
Maybe right about now, you're feeling terrified that by joining you'll have to make a quick decision to leave your partner, and you don't feel ready to leave
The advice to ‘just leave’ isn’t always wise guidance. Some women need a plan for getting to a place where they can leave and feel more prepared to take that final step.
This program is not about forcing you to make a hasty decision about whether to stay or go. And, I know you may still have doubts that leaving is the right choice. It makes sense you’d give this careful thought, and this is why the program is a step-by-step process specifically for women who are still unsure if they should leave.
ETC is about giving you the process and tools (backed by a therapeutic approach) guiding you to make your own decisions by doing the inner work necessary to change your unhealthy patterns… because in the end, nobody knows better about what to do about your life and relationship than you do.
How Is Your End The Cycle Process Different Than Anything I've Tried So Far?
For starters, I have an 11+ year background in Counselling Psychology, and Mindfulness Based Coaching which I obtained at the time of my training. I combine coaching methodologies with holistic principles, and psychology, to bring you a powerful combination of both modalities.
I have also lived my own experience with narcissistic abuse, so I have the advantage of understanding exactly what you’re going through. I combine this learned wisdom with my professional training, and 11+ years experience working with clients.
I created this program so women could study and implement the modules around their busy lives, without having to leave their home, and I am guarantee, there is no program like this out there.
My promise: If the only thing you do right now is dive in and commit to doing the work in this program, and follow it step by step, you will not recognize yourself by the end. This is not a quick fix, but your life will be transformed. Whether you stay or leave your marriage, you will not be the same. This program radically and permanently changes women’s lives in ways years of therapy never could!
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Imagine...
- Feeling free to to whatever you want, whether that's blasting music and dance in the kitchen when the inspiration strikes or making that home improvement, or purchase without worrying about the backlash or his reaction anymore
- Waking up feeling more peaceful, no longer walking on eggshells around your spouse
- Having time and energy to do the things you love, see friends and pursue hobbies and interests you've lost, or plan a trip
- Feeling more like yourself every day and showing your kids what a happy mom looks like
- Creating a sacred space for you and your kids exactly how you want it, and not have to worry about anyone else's opinions
- Your self confidence skyrocketing to new levels, and this allows you to take bold steps to create your new life
- Improved health, more energy, ongoing ailments begin to disappear
- Making more money or excelling in your career because of your renewed energy and mental focus
- Every aspect of you life getting better, clearer and more peaceful. You love yourself and your new life!
- Dating and experiencing being treated well, finding new love and new possibility
- Being more of who you are, and experiencing more joy, peace and freedom to reinvent your life
- Feeling free to make your own decisions and not allowing anyone make you second guess yourself
- Being a better mother because you are at peace and free to be the mother you know you are meant to be
This is what awaits you on the other side...
“I came across this course at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn’t make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. Suddenly my needs and the beginnings of some real boundaries were right in front of me, in my own handwriting! I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne, and this incredible course. Thank you so, so much.” J.P
Inside You Get INSTANT Access TO:
- Is He Really That Bad? Or Am I Just Too Sensitive ($39) Subtle ways you are being manipulated if you always think you’re being too sensitive and what to do about it
- Take Space Course ($497): How to stop your toxic relationship patterns that are keeping the cycle going, learn your part in the dynamics, get clarity on your next steps
- When You Know You Need to Go ($97): Plan Your Exit Strategy including an in-house separation if need be
- Awakened And Energized Program ($297): Heal from Burnout and Adrenal Imbalances, Emotional Eating and Body Image
- Become a Boundary Badass Course ($297): Learn how to set boundaries without allowing guilt to take over
- Ask Leanne Q & A Archive: Over 30 hours of on-air coaching call MP3 recordings ($5,000) of women who are working toward leaving a narcissistic relationship. Women pay thousands to get these live coaching calls with me, and you benefit from them as part of your All Access Pass.
- Parenting with a Narcissistic Partner class ($97)
- Intro to Somatic Healing Class ($97)
- The Narcissistic Abuse Effect class ($97) – What Trauma Does to The Body and Mind
- Empath’s HSP’s and Attracting Toxic Relationships class ($47)
Total Value is OVER $5,000, But You Get Instant Access To It All Today For Only $897
The End The Cycle Method rapidly and permanently changes women's lives in a way that years of therapy could not
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Frequently asked questions
This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world!
While not a substitute for therapy, TLR will provide you with in-depth transformation, community support, responsive answers to your questions as they arise, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in regular therapy. You can take this program along with therapy. It’s your choice.
There are no cancellations or refunds.
Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file.
The TLR Method is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. This method will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.
Many women leave a relationship like this and return, statistics say 7 times, before leaving for good. It is also common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in this program will help you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good.
You get out of anything that you put into it, this is an investment in your future self. Plan for 3 hours weekly for watching/listening to the material, study and notes/journalling, or any homework you have to do. Past clients report this program did more for them in 30 days than months spent in therapy getting nowhere. If you focus and stay in the work you will experience profound transformation.
This program is designed to get you out of overwhelm by taking very specific and focused ACTIONS. Right – action is the cure to overwhelm.
I am no longer practicing as a counsellor, and the ETCE program is not counselling, it is a coaching and mentoring program. Therefore, this service is not covered by insurance.
You get 12 months of community access with your program. You can post any questions in this group!