Break Through The Fear That is Holding You Back From Deciding Whether to Stay or Leave Your Relationship So That You Can Finally Move Forward and Crate the Life You Desire Free From Abuse, Control and Manipulation
“Before the this program I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me to see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, know that yes I do play a part in the dance and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn’t work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward.” L.G
This program is for you if you're experiencing these Patterns in your relationship:
- Everything is ‘fine’ only until you have an issue, express a need, or try to talk about something they did. Your spouse is loyal to a fault, does housework, grocery shops, cooks, and is relatively a kind person. (Note: Some of these men do not do housework and are lazy and unsupportive when they are at home, so it can be extreme in either direction)
- You can’t express yourself without your spouse without him getting defensive. All issues you raise end up in a circular argument and he deflects the issue you brought up back onto you, somehow making it your fault
- You’re not seen or heard -you feel invisible. There is no asking about your day, or how you are. No making special plans on his initiative, and you feel you have to beg for the smallest things. He doesn’t care about your ideas or desires and ignores your needs.
- Nothing is ever resolved. There’s no sitting down and talking through issues calmly. You never feel heard, and it always ends up in a bad argument that leaves you feeling emotionally shattered. There is no resolution, and you feel like all the problems are your fault, he takes no ownership of his behavior.
- He never listens to your concerns, acts busy, or doesn’t act interested in what you’re saying. Often the subject gets changed, or he deflects, minimizes, or belittles your feelings. He will also make you feel as if your ideas are stupid or will go on about how what you’re suggesting will never work.
- There’s no affection, reciprocity, or deep emotional connection. The only affection you get is when they want sex, or you may want it because it’s the only time you get his attention. Many women develop an aversion to intimacy with their narcissistic spouse and don’t want to have sex at all. And, it is not uncommon for sexual abuse to be present in these relationships
- You’re constantly walking on eggshells. You worry about his reactions, or what he will complain about next, what mood he will be in when he gets home, and what criticism you will receive next. You always feel on edge, waiting for something to bad happen, and dread when they are coming home. You brace yourself, even when he is not around.
- He will never apologize. He has a ‘perfect persona’ and can do no wrong (according to him). You’ll hear: I’m sorry you feel that way” “I’m sorry that you think I did that”,” I said I’m sorry, what more do you want?”, or “I’m sorry that hurt your feelings”, I’m sorry if I did that”. These are all non-apologies!
- When you express yourself, you’re met with sighs, eye-rolling, and then stonewalling. This is not an occasional thing, this is every single time. There’s never a good time to talk and you can never do it how they think you should.
- You feel lonely and neglected in your relationship. It’s as if you don’t exist to him. There’s no connection and no emotional intimacy
How it Works
Once you register you’ll have instant access to the program education area where you can access the course.
You can dive it right away and get started!
You begin by doing the 30 Day Take Space relationship reset, and once you do this you will have the opportunity to deepen your growth, healing, and transformation over the additional modules in the program.
This reset is part relationship focused, but the basis is to focus on you, your wellness, health and life goals as you put your partner on a ‘shelf’ to work on yourself
The curriculum is self paced, so you can take the modules at your own pace.
Once you register you’ll receive an email from me with your next steps, instructions for how to get started, and strategies for how to set yourself up for success.
You’ll also receive weekly emails from me to help keep you on track!
My promise: If the only thing you do right now is dive in and commit to doing the work in this program, you will not recognize yourself by the end. In 30 days, if you complete and follow the process laid out step by step, your life will be transformed. Whether you stay or leave, you will not be the same. This program radically and permanently changes women’s lives in ways years of therapy never could!
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What You Get Immediate Access To:
- The Step by Step Curriculum with videos, MP3 audios, PDF’s and journal exercises to help you go deeper into your truth and get clarity on what steps you need to take next
- 24/7 access to the course materials for 90 days
- Weekly emails to keep you on tack and hold yourself accountable
- 6 bi-weekly live implementation calls on Zoom with Leanne based on the work you’ll be doing in the program, plus new teachings that aren’t already part of the curriculum (just like any class you would invest in, this will require planning and it is highly encouraged to attend these sessions. You get out of it what you put in to it)
- Facebook student community to ask questions and get guidance from Leanne
BONUS: Get Your Sh*t Together Course
How to Save Money, Handle Expenses and Prepare Yourself to Leave ($97 value)
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Ready for YOUR Big Awakening?
Here's a Quick Peek at What You'll Be Doing Inside:
- How to identify the root cause issues of the ongoing conflict and chaos in your relationship and the specific behaviors that CONFIRM you are experiencing verbal abuse, emotional abuse
- How to get off the emotional rollercoaster of fighting and getting back together that keep you in a vicious cycle of constant conflict, feeling shocked and hurt by your partner’s words, and making up that leaves you feeling exhausted and walking on eggshells
- How to define and implement new boundaries to protect yourself and start standing up for what you deserve
- How to identify your non-negotiable needs and ultimatums in your relationship to help you get clarity if this relationship is going to work long term. Own your ultimatums and stand firm in what you will no longer tolerate in your relationship.
- How to protect yourself from manipulation and start standing up for yourself – learn how to set boundaries and use your voice to rebuild your self esteem NOT to change him
- How to stop the HERO role behaviours that keep you feeling exhausted and frazzled in your daily life (HERO: Helping, Enabling, Rescuing, Overfunctioning)
- How I determine if a woman is experiencing abuse WITHOUT hearing about her partner’s behaviours – discover if you are experiencing the NAE and how to get out of the trance of mental manipulation
- How to take care of your emotional and mental health, release stress and anxiety, and sleep better with my toolkit of simple and pleasurable practices and tools you can use for daily maintenance as well as in the moment when you’re feeling overwhelmed
- Create your no matter what plan no matter what you decide to do about the relationship
Get the clarity you need to know if your relationship is workable, when it is NOT, and create your exit plan roadmap - in 30 days!
- You have more internal peace instantly when you apply the principles taught in the program
- You’ll be able to clearly see the patterns and behaviors (and label them)
- You’ll have a new awareness of the cycle and your part in it
- You feel your energy returning and have greater mental clarity
- You’ll stop with the incessant obsessing over your partner
- You’ll feel better overall by filling your own cup and taking better care of yourself
- You’ll feel more in control of your emotions, and experience less reactivity
A Recap of the program outline:
- Is He Really That Bad? course: How to define abuse patterns and determine if you are experiencing abuse or narcissistic abuse/personality disordered spouse and if change is possible
- Rewire yourself for calm, be in your body with the guided Theta Mind Body Relaxation Meditation
- Step Back from Your Participation in the Patterns, see where you play a role in feeding the dynamic and learn your own dysfunctional and unhealthy behaviours within the relationship that leave you feeling trapped
- Define and own your boundaries and set them with conviction and confidence
- Get out of confusion and fear and into clarity and action mode
- Define Your Relationship Needs and Own Your Ultimatums and dealbreakers
- Plan your exit strategy (even if you aren’t ready to leave) this is essential to plan ahead with to avoid the biggest mistakes when leaving an abusive relationship
- Bi-weekly live implementation calls for 16 weeks
- Community access exclusive for members of the program – get your questions answered, interact with other women in the program and get feedback from Leanne
How this program rapidly and permanently changes women's lives in a way that years of therapy could not
"How did the the Strong Enough To Leave program (formerly End The Cycle) program most help you?"
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How Was ETC More Beneficial Than Going to Therapy?
What Women Like You Are Saying About The Program:
Still not sure if End The Cycle will work for you?
Frequently asked questions
This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world!
I have a background as a Registered Counsellor specializing in counselling psychology. While not a substitute for therapy, ETC will provide you with in-depth transformation, community support, responsive answers to your questions as they arise, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in regular therapy. You can take this program along with therapy. It’s your choice.
While not a substitute for therapy, this program contains within it everything you need to know about the dynamics of narcissistic abuse, and how to break free. I have a background in Counselling Psychology, and 11 years of experience counselling and coaching women. Over the past 6 years, I have specialized in helping women break free from narcissistic marriages, and this program is the process I have lead groups of women through to help them find freedom
I work with women 1:1, but I don’t practice as a registered counsellor any longer. My methods are a blend of psychology, intuition, and offer a holistic approach. You can learn more about working with privately on my website
I am no longer practicing as a registered counsellor (by choice). My courses and services are not covered by insurance.
There are no cancellations or refunds.
The End The Cycle process is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. The process you are guided through will give you clarity and step by step guidance to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.
Many women leave a relationship like this and return, statistics say 7 times, before leaving for good. It is also common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in the community as you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good. Based on my work of over 6 years with women in this program, having support as you leave and after you exit is invaluable. Leaving and staying no contact is up there with one of the hardest things you will have to do.
You get out of anything that you put into it. I recommend dedicating a set time to do your personal growth and study over the long-term. Part of change is creating time to do this work. Also, keep in mind, members report this process and the tools within it have done more for them in 30 days than years spent in therapy getting nowhere.
You will get out of overwhelm by taking very specific and focused ACTIONS. Right – action is the cure to overwhelm.
This is intended to be a bootcamp intensive. Some women purchase programs and never start or finish them when I’ve given longer access, so to help minimize this, you are able to enrol at a lower price point (my typical group coaching programs start at $997). You will have the option to continue on month- to- month inside the program at a lower monthly subscription rate, if you’d like to continue to have program access, unlock new modules and stay in in the support community.
No, you get to choose the timeline in which to apply the principles and strategies, but the goal is you will have clarity in 30 days so that you can start to think in that direction with confidence, and start taking some actions toward your chosen separation date. Some women also choose to do a temporary in-house separation, which I outline how to do in this type of scenario
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Your Guide
Who Am I?
For the past 11 years I have practiced as a professional counsellor and coach. I have an educational background in fitness training, Reiki Levels 1 & 2, Counselling Psychology and Mindfulness based coaching. I have specialized in the areas of women’s holistic healing, and more recently, over the past 6 years have specialized in helping women break free from toxic and narcissistic relationships.