You raised a family, maybe stayed in a marriage too long, and now, after years of being everything to everyone…
Everything you’ve shoved down and pushed away is beginning to show up in your body and your ability to function at work, in parenting and daily life.
The unprocessed grief, that pit in your stomach, the guilt, aching loneliness and the terror of starting over.
But even within that, there’s a whisper of freedom.
An opening to possibility.
What if this isn’t the end of something… but the real beginning?
The high-functioning, emotionally intelligent woman who has done just enough work to realize she’s stuck in a toxic cycle but hasn’t had the support, clarity, or inner permission to break free.
She’s tired, scared, resentful, but deep down, she’s ready to invest in HER.
You are DONE living in limbo, she wants clarity, power, and a decision that ends the emotional spin cycle
You have already tried therapy, self-help, or trauma research… and knows it hasn’t broken the pattern
You are ready to take radical responsibility for her healing, and is willing to look at herself (with compassion, not shame).
You feel the clock ticking; she knows staying stuck is costing her time, peace, energy, and maybe even her health
She is committed to doing the deep, identity-level work, not just venting, hoping, or staying “confused.”
This is not for you if:
You want me to do the work for you and aren’t ready to take uncomfortable new actions to change your life
You want someone to rescue you, rather than walk beside you while you reclaim your power
You’re stuck in venting about the past, but are resistant to taking action in the now
You’re emotionally unavailable for the investment, not just financially, but energetically
You’re looking for surface-level coaching, generic mindset tips, or a quick fix
You get defensive when challenged or coached. I’m here to help you rise, not enable your patterns
If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Thank you for lifting me up”.
This private container is designed for the high-achieving, awakened woman in her 40s–50s who:
Has divorced or is divorcing and now faces the silence, freedom, and grief of “just me”
Is navigating the identity crisis of an empty nest, perimenopause/menopause body changes, and midlife all colliding at once
Is ready to stop living on autopilot and start living as who she really is – maybe for the first time
Is done people-pleasing, self-betraying, over-functioning, and settling for crumbs and empty relationships
Wants not just healing, but a reinvention
Feel more clear, confident, and empowered in your decisions and new direction
Learn to trust your inner voice more than external opinions, other people’s fears and stop seeking validation
Reconnect with your body, sensuality, intuition and feminine softness
Design a life, home, and rhythm that feeds you instead of drains you (even if you are in a relationship that is not working, you will learn how to protect your energy)
Heal the unprocessed grief and guilt keeping you stuck in the past and unable to move forward
Cultivate new standards for love, money, friendship, and purpose as well as your intimate relationships
Reclaim your identity, tap into joy, and activate your unapologetic power
Detox from self-betrayal, guilt, emotional addiction to your ex and the chaos of the past
Energetic boundary work (cutting energetic and emotional ties to toxic relationship patterns and self betrayal, set boundaries with children, release roles and identities that no longer serve you
Identity shift from “caretaker” to “the reclaimed woman” who knows how to put herself and needs first, even when everyone is trying to get you to betray what you want and need to meet their needs.
Calm your nervous system and create a drama-free, safety-based life that feels amazing to you, on your terms
Design new rituals, routines, and environments to support your transition to your next stage of life.
Develop a healthier relationship to your body using food as fuel, learn how to live in your body, not your head. Heal your adrenals, and master your body and wellness.
Create next level results in your business/career and money
Feminine embodiment, embracing dark feminine (shadow work) pleasure, spiritual connection and creative expression
Put the vision into daily action, do the inner and outer work required to reach this version of you that has what you desire next
Relationships, dating, friendship, and intimacy on your terms – you decide who gets to join you on your new journey
Crafting a legacy and life path rooted in meaning and soulful connections
Making difficult decisions in relationships, work, lifestyle, and finances to set you up for your new aligned life
“I couldn’t have gotten where I am today, happy and in a new thriving life without Leanne’s guidance and support!” ~Jenn (Client)
I started working with Leanne as I and my two young children physically separated from my husband. She helped me step out of the usual pattern of fawning and instead take time to process my thoughts and emotions before responding or making snap decisions that would back me into a corner. I’ve been able to practice that over the last few months on my own and it has kept me out of a lot of trouble, while also being an empowering shift in mindset. Since coaching with Leanne, I’ve become much more self-aware and have started to recognize the patterns that kept me in that viscous cycle of abuse. Working with Leanne is like rocket fuel for taking ownership of the traits that got me into toxic relationships and transforming my life. If I could go back in time, I would have started working with her before leaving – I know I’d have avoided some of the mistakes I made and would have felt safer and stronger taking that step.” – Ann
The investment of working with Leanne and REGAINING MY LIFE is worth every single penny. – A.H
“I came Leanne’s coaching at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn’t make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne. Thank you so, so much.” J.P
Ann came to work with me as a private client right after she exited her marriage. We got to work on her emotional embodiment, and learning how to be assertive, stand in her conviction against manipulation, and take a necessary stand for herself and her children in the process of her separation. Toward the end of our work, she was just beginning to explore dating after she described having a sexual awakening and desire for fulfilling her sexual needs without wanting a committed relationship. In this interview she shares how she has used dating as a path to awaken, speak her truth and enjoy the company of men in a new way, while juggling a high-power career in New York as an investment banker on Wall Street, being a full time single mom and rebuilding her new life.
Autumn first came to work with me inside my End The Cycle program and quickly realized she needed to make her move and leave her marriage midway through the program. She continued her work with me once she left her relationship, and in this interview she shares her journey through rewiring her old emotional patterns, what it’s been like experiencing a new relationship, publishing her book and more in this interview.
Katherine first consulted with me from her car parked in a parking lot. As she shared the fears she had about leaving her relationship she said something that I know all women feel as they reach the end point: “If I don’t leave, I will die”. She began working with me just as she was exiting her relationship inside my 6 month 1:1 private coaching.
*Save $1,500 vs buying 4 weeks twice
*Save $3,200 vs buying 4 weeks three times
*Includes Initial 60 minute session to clarify your goals, and a written holistic plan to implement with support. Subsequent calls are 45 minutes.
Leanne Oaten | Copyright 2025 She Rises Publishing INC.
This is mentorship for the woman finally ready to be free. You’ve raised the kids, you’ve made the sacrifices, you’ve held it all together… Now it’s time to come home to you.