đź’¸ Succeeds in her business, has the career, practice, degree, and is high earning – yet finds herself downplaying her intelligence within low-value relationship cycles that keep her from stepping fully into her next level of power, health, joy, and the soul level expansion she craves
🔥 Is exhausted from carrying the entire relationship and emotional weight of everything and everyone. All the therapy, personal growth, and self-work, have kept her repeating patterns that drain her energy, create chaos in her body and mind, and chip away at her inner peace. She’s ready to drop the weight and finally feel emotional relief that she is on the right path.
🔑 Is done fixing, waiting, or hoping he’ll change, she’s ready for the key to step into self-leadership so that she can get clarity, and make a plan to live in alignment with her highest level identity. She just wants the clear pathway to get there – without blowing up her life. She wants to act from power, not reactivity
✨ Wants certainty in her decisions, but she gets swept up in others’ expectations and emotions, so she often can’t feel her own truth. She’s ready to step into her inner wisdom and move in alignment with her standards
🏋🏻‍♀️ Done feeling the weight of responsibility on her shoulders, being everything to everyone, she craves space, peace, and relief from the constant pressure and tension to keep everything together – she wants her body to release the pressure so that she can relax into ease and femininityÂ
đź‘„ Is tired of having sex with a man that doesn’t cherish her needs and expects her body, no matter how he shows up or treats her – she wants to feel desired, chosen, and seen, where her body opens as a response to a man who is fully in his masculine power, rather than a performance to keep the peace
Let’s be honest, you aren’t confused about the signs anymore.
You’ve tried everything you can get your hands on:
therapy, EMDR, sharing your feelings, being more feminine, setting boundaries, willpower, journaling, self-help books…you know enough.
And yet, you still can’t leave.
And this isn’t because you’re weak (you’re f*cking powerful), it’s that something deep inside you is wired to stay.
This is an emotional addiction, a neurochemical bond that keeps you tied to a man who doesn’t meet you.
One that doesn’t lead you, cherish you, protect your peace, or honor your truth.
And until that bond is broken, nothing changes. This is why nothing has worked – despite your biggest efforts to improve your relationship.
” I now have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, and I’m learning how to protect my energy. “
“I was leaning toward leaving the relationship and that’s where I am now, except I feel much more “prepared” mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I’ve shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I’m showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me–and was one of several “aha” moments.”
 “I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money. Leanne gets it. Her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!”Â
“I feel like a completely different person. I am getting stronger everyday mentally, emotionally and physically. I just hired a personal trainer and I’m really excited about this. Since I’ve been doing the empower hour and making exercise part of my daily life it just felt like the next step in my progression.”
“If you are on the fence… just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program and listening to Leanne’s podcasts.
Leanne you are amazing. Thank you!!”
So, given this incredible alone time where I feel most grounded/in my space in my home without interruption, in this deep work and journaling, I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps – I am so excited, because it looks absolutely doable and does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm and joy. Absolutely the most empowering feeling and vision! 🔥 Thank you, Leanne! I feel such overwhelming support here!”
- this is unlike anything you have tried before -
We address the root of why you stay stuck in relationship patterns that cause you to self-abandon through education, emotional coaching tools, embodiment, and holistic lifestyle methods that change your patterns at the root so you stop repeating them - for good. Get access to my Transcending Love Addiction method that walks you through exactly how to do this work (without spending years in therapy)
Most other methods, like therapy, reading books, listening to podcasts, and watching YouTube videos deal with 'relationship issues', which are just a surface-level symptom. Therapy helps in the moment, but then leaves you hanging between sessions. The truth is these methods often completely miss treating the emotionally addictive cycle, and you are left to figure it out on your own during overwhelming moments. Here, there are multi-levels of support and guidance available every single day when you need it most
My methods have been helping women shift deep emotional patterns with men for over a decade. Women experience real emotional shifts within days of joining my programs - this is no exception
Listen in as I coach women experiencing breakthroughs as a result of this work during the 1 hour coaching call audio recording.
As soon as you join, you will have instant access to a step-by-step reset to break the patterns you've been repeating in your relationship - within 7 days
This is deep work, we don't do fluff around here. After you complete this bundle, you will not recognize yourself - it's THAT good. And, he will feel the shift in you which will give you an idea if he will rise to meet your new level
Leanne Oaten is a former Registered Counsellor with extensive, specialized training in Counselling Psychology and over 13 years of experience working at the intersection of mental health, holistic healing, and women’s personal transformation.
Since 2019, she has focused her work on supporting women who are caught in the emotional grip of unhealthy marriages and high-conflict relationships, particularly women who are capable, accomplished, and quietly exhausted from carrying too much for too long.
Leanne has worked with countless women through Awakening Women and has facilitated online groups with women from around the world. Her work is grounded, trauma-informed, and deeply attuned to the lived realities of women navigating complex emotional, relational, and life transitions.
She works closely with women as they face some of the most pivotal decisions of their lives: whether to stay or leave, how to disentangle from chaos with clarity, and how to move through separation and divorce with power, discernment, and self-respect.Â
She also supports women on the other side of these transitions as they rebuild stability while navigating single motherhood, legal and financial stress, and the demands of career or business.
Leanne’s work is not about fixing or rescuing. It is about guiding women back to themselves. Her goal is to help you come home to your deepest truths and live in alignment with your values, nervous system, and soul-level vision, whether you are still in a relationship that isn’t working or learning how to stand firmly in your own life again.
Through the work of becoming a Self-Sourced Woman, clarity emerges. You will see, without forcing, chasing, or abandoning yourself, whether a man can truly rise with you, or whether choosing yourself is the most powerful next step.
In order to make a clean decision about your relationship, you must know your highest value needs so that you can make a conscious decision from clarity instead of guilt and fear. You stop minimizing what you require to feel whole, safe, and alive
You have been believing that he is the source of your safety and good feelings, and his moods and behaviour dictate how you feel. Learn how to source your emotional mastery from within so you can regain your emotional power in as little as 7 days
When Nothing Emotionally Hooks You Anymore You Are in The Power Position
How to stay grounded, clear, and in your power by understanding your personal triggers and how to stop reacting in ways that you later regret (or that make things worse because it makes you look like the bad guy to your kids who are watching you)
Immediately Detach From The Pattern You’re Repeating In Your Relationship So That You Can Feel INSTANT Emotional Relief
Stop Waiting for Him to Change and Take Charge of Your Part in the Patterns
The real work that ends the cycle and helps you break the emotional pattern so that you can stop waiting for him to decide your future
“I discovered that I have the power to remove myself from the pattern by not reacting. It was instantly freeing when I realized this. It is challenging, but also very liberating. Through this process, I have come to the conclusion that if I leave, my life will still be OK. I’ve found a kind of acceptance, whatever the outcome may be. It is so freeing, Leanne. Just… thank you”
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