The Self-Centered Woman is the woman who has reclaimed her power to revolve her life around herself, not men, family, obligation, and her image.
She’s no longer outsourcing her self-worth, caretaking to earn love, or betraying her needs to keep the peace.
She’s learned that being self-centered isn’t being selfish or narcissistic; it’s where she comes back into her dark feminine power.
She centers her own emotions, body, truth, pleasure, and peace instead of being ‘convenient’ to others.
She knows that everyone around her benefits when she’s sourced from within, but that’s no longer the reason she does it. She does it because she knows she matters.
The Self-Centered, Self- Sourced Woman is inconvenient.
When a woman doesn’t know how to center herself, she’ll keep circling men who give her scraps of validation, waiting to be chosen, instead of being the conscious one who chooses.
She’ll tolerate mistreatment because she’s still chasing that deep need to be chosen, a need that’s only ever met when she chooses herself.
The Witch Wound says, “If I’m powerful, I’ll be alone.”
The Self-Centered Woman says, “If I’m not powerful, I’ll never be free.”
When she heals that wound, she stops mistaking pain for love and starts coming back home to herself. She starts calling her power back.
She stops begging for space in someone else’s life and becomes the center of her own self-made Universe – unapologetically.