What kind of woman do you need to become to build a life that a relationship can never take away?
A Conscious Community for Women
This is the deep awakening work. Not the something you do for a few weeks, but work that changes the entire trajectory of who you become
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You Are In The Right Place If...
You finally want to understand why you keep ending up in the same cycles with men, and to break the pattern so completely it never runs your life again.
You have spent so long minimising your needs, overriding your intuition, and keeping the peace that you've forgotten what your own truth feels like.
You are ready to move from victim energy to empowered as a lived, embodied reality every single day.
You want to feel whole, emotional relief, and to find the parts of yourself you gave away and reclaim them, knowing those pieces were never meant to be anyone else's responsibility.
You want to become so self-sourced that no man can dismantle your sense of worth- without living armoured and disconnected, but genuinely solid within yourself.
You're dating after divorce and want to make sure you don't repeat the same pattern with a different face. This is where you learn Self-Sourced Dating and my "Date Don't Blend" principles for divorced women with children still at home.
MY STORY
There was a moment when I knew an undeniable truth was settling in, and the relationship I had built a family and an identity around for almost 2 decades had reached its end. For the first time, I stopped trying to force it to work.
In that moment, I didn't feel empowerment. It was a deep, aching grief for the decades I had spent questioning what I knew, trying harder, hoping that if I just gave a little more, things would finally be different.
But in the middle of that grief, one question rose up and changed everything:
"What kind of woman do I need to become to build a life that no relationship can ever take away from me?"
That question became my compass. And it still is.
I had my highest revenue year in business. I incorporated my company and called it She Rises because I saw myself coming out of that fire, and I knew I was here to guide other women to do the same.
There is a myth so many women carry out of painful marriages, that freedom is just around the corner, that the next relationship will somehow be different. But what took me years to understand, even as someone who has immersed herself in this work for decades, is that we carry our unhealed patterns with us everywhere we go.
The most intelligent, successful women I know have done this because nobody taught them how to look inward before they leapt forward.
This deeper work is something else entirely. It's learning to relate to men from our awakened state and consciousness, rather than emotional addiction. From inner safety and discernment, rather than attachment hunger. It's becoming a woman who no longer gets into a relationship hoping someone else will finally complete her.
This is what I teach inside the Self-Sourced Collective, and it will change the entire trajectory of your life.
"I won't hand you a formula for finding the right man.
We do the work of becoming a woman who no longer loses herself trying to keep one."
— Leanne Oaten
“I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I’ve shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I’m showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me–and was one of several “aha” moments.”
“I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money. Leanne gets it. Her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!”
“This has given me hope, inspiration, and a renewed drive to improve in many areas of my life. It has reminded me that I do have choices that I am in control of my own happiness and direction. It has also re-grounded me and reconnected me with my inner self. Overall, it’s been incredibly inspirational, encouraging, and healing.”
“I feel like a completely different person. I am getting stronger everyday mentally, emotionally and physically. I just hired a personal trainer and I’m really excited about this. Since I’ve been doing the empower hour and making exercise part of my daily life it just felt like the next step in my progression.”
“If you are on the fence… just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program and listening to Leanne’s podcasts.
Leanne you are amazing. Thank you!!”
Given this incredible alone time where I feel most grounded/in my space in my home without interruption, in this deep work and journaling, I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps – I am so excited, because it looks absolutely doable and does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm and joy. Absolutely the most empowering feeling and vision! 🔥 Thank you, Leanne! I feel such overwhelming support here!”
“I really appreciate and relate to the way you communicate and teach. There isn’t any pretentious or overly “woo” language, fluff, or vague ideas. I feel like you speak very directly and honestly, and you’re willing to offer tough love rather than just telling people what they might want to hear.”
“The No More Self Betrayal shifted something fundamental in me. I didn’t realize how often I was abandoning myself (out of fear of him abandoning me). I would unconsciously minimize my needs, override my intuition, shape myself to keep the peace. This series work helped me see those patterns without shame and gave me the tools to choose differently. Instead of reacting from fear or scarcity, I’ve learned to pause, listen inward, and respond from self-trust. I feel more anchored, more honest, and more at peace. The biggest shift is that I no longer negotiate my worth. I can show up with clarity and compassion-without leaving myself behind.”
“The Clarity broadcasts are so so helpful! I am really seeing the negative patterns I have created and drawn into my life. Feeling hopeful!”
What Actually Shifts
Here is what they say happens.
This becomes the baseline of every decision, every conversation, every room you walk into.
"The biggest shift is that I no longer doubt my worth. I can show up with clarity and compassion without leaving myself behind."
Women who arrive convinced that something is fundamentally wrong with them discover they were simply operating from patterns they hadn't yet seen clearly.
"I am really seeing the negative patterns I have created and drawn into my life. I feel hopeful!"
The shifts don't stay contained to one relationship. The boundary work, pattern work, and identity work threads through everything.
"The way I've shown up in my relationship is often the way I'm showing up in other areas of my life. This was a powerful realisation and one of several aha moments."
Women come for relationship clarity and discover that reclaiming themselves extends to how they move, how they eat, how they treat the physical self they've been neglecting while managing everything else.
"I feel like a completely different person. Stronger every day mentally, emotionally, physically. I just hired a personal trainer. It felt like the natural next step."
The promise of this work, if you do the work: you will become so solid on the inside that whatever comes next, you will not lose yourself again.
"I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps. It looks absolutely doable and it does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm, and joy."
The Self Sourced Member Vault: Including the NEW Self-Sourced Codes, The Relationship Pattern Assessment + Strategy (That Works Better Than Therapy) to Guide you to Break the Cycle of Toxic Relationships and Become a Boundary Master, including recorded classes previously available only to private clients or those who paid thousands to get access to.
Six years of signature frameworks, processes, and programs all at your fingertips 24/7. The work on emotional addiction, boundaries, and identity, becoming self-sourced, and dating from wholeness rather than desperation. You don’t just binge the vault, you actively live inside it, returning to what you need as you move through each phase of your evolution. When you come in, your signature pathway is given to you based on your stage of awakening and where you are on the path.
The Sourced Community: Your Real-Time Inner Circle. Close-knit, personal, and intimate.
This is not a social media group with thousands of strangers and a weekly post. This is a curated high-trust community of conscious women who are doing the same courageous work to live an awakened life, and a direct line to Leanne each week when it matters most. “Being a part of the group keeps the intention to be self-sourced consistently at the forefront of my mind,” as one woman said. “It is helpful to hear other women’s stories, struggles, and wins…it makes me feel part of a powerful community and not alone in my own drama.” For the woman who has been carrying this alone, this is not a small thing.
Weekly Audio Drops, Prompts, and Teachings from my own lived experiences, and what the group is asking for. This space is a co-creation, you get to be part od the content I drop each week to support your next level. Body. Men. Purpose. Success. This is not just about a relationship with men, it’s creating a rock solid relationship with YOU.
As soon as you join, you unlock Leanne’s support community, weekly coaching in Telegram, and her entire program vault ($5k value on its own) so there is a minimum 3-month commitment
Consider what you have already spent trying to solve this, and the real cost of living in indecision for as long as you have.
The therapy sessions that have left you feeling more confused and trapped than when you walked in, all the books, courses, years of trying harder, understanding more, giving more, and still finding yourself here, in this same place, with this same emotional weight.
“Even after years of therapy, Leanne really gets to the root.”
“Working with Leanne got me further than years of therapy in just a few weeks of joining her program.”
“All my years of therapy didn’t get me close to where I am now, and that was after a few weeks.”
Women don’t say these things lightly, they say them because they have the contrast and comparison. They know what it cost them in time, money, and years of their lives to not have this clarity and decision-making power sooner.
One woman said it simply: “The investment of working with Leanne and regaining my life is worth every single penny.”
Another grabbed her credit card- balance and all- and said “alright, I am doing this.” At 53, she ended a 16-year relationship, moved to a new city, went back to school, and wrote: “It astounds me how far I have come in such a very short time.”
The question is not whether you can afford this; it is “what does the next year look like if I don’t do it?”
The women who work with her privately describe it as some of the most transformational work of their lives. The access, precision, directness of her coaching style move them forward quickly where they used to feel stagnant. There is nothing quite like having her read your specific situation in real time and tell you exactly what she sees and what you need to do to shift it.
Inside the Self-Sourced Collective, you have her in your pocket each week for a fraction of the investment.
What Actually Shifts
Here is what they say happens.
This isn't a mindset shift that fades. It becomes the baseline of every decision, every conversation, every room you walk into.
"The biggest shift is that I no longer doubt my worth. I can show up with clarity and compassion — without leaving myself behind."
Women who arrive convinced that something is fundamentally wrong with them discover they were simply operating from patterns they hadn't yet seen clearly.
"I am really seeing the negative patterns I have created and drawn into my life. I feel hopeful!"
The shifts don't stay contained to one relationship. The boundary work, the pattern work, the identity work — it threads through everything.
"The way I've shown up in my relationship is often the way I'm showing up in other areas of my life. This was a powerful realisation — and one of several aha moments."
Women come for relationship clarity and discover that reclaiming themselves extends to how they move, how they eat, how they treat the physical self they've been neglecting while managing everything else.
"I feel like a completely different person. Stronger every day — mentally, emotionally, physically. I just hired a personal trainer. It felt like the natural next step."
The promise of this work, if you do the work: you will become so solid on the inside that whatever comes next — you will not lose yourself again.
"I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps. It looks absolutely doable — and it does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm, and joy."
Shifting from lack to abundance and self trust
I get it…divorce proceedings can be expensive. And they are also finite with a beginning, a middle, and an end. What is not finite is the cost of entering that process or the next relationship, or the next decade of your life as a woman who still does not understand the patterns that brought her here.
The women who waited until after, who came to work with me on the other side consistently say the same thing: “If I could go back in time, I would have started before leaving. I know I’d have avoided some of the mistakes I made and would have felt stronger taking that step.”
Mistakes made from emotional dysregulation during separation are not cheap. Decisions made from fear during divorce proceedings are not cheap. Carrying unhealed patterns into the next chapter of your life and repeating this entire cycle with a different person is not cheap. This is the place you get to change the pattern.
This one deserves the most honesty because it is the most vulnerable thing a woman can admit, and it is also the most common thing women feel before they do the thing that finally works.
The loss of self-trust is not a character flaw. It is a direct consequence of the dynamic you have been living inside. Environments that gaslight, manipulate, and destabilise your reality are specifically designed to make you doubt your own perception and decisions.
Of course you don’t trust yourself. You have been living in a situation that required you not to.
But here is what is also true: you are here. You read this far. Something in you… the part that has not been entirely silenced is still unwilling to accept that this is all there is.
The women who say this work finally moved them after years of therapy, after programs that didn’t land, after failed attempts to leave don’t describe suddenly becoming more disciplined or more committed. They describe finally feeling seen. Finally having someone who spoke to what was actually happening, who didn’t offer vague reassurance, who gave them tools that worked in real life rather than in theory.
“I came across Leanne at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. There were moments where I felt like I wasn’t making any progress, and ones where I doubted I ever would. I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have.”
The follow-through doesn’t come before the support, it comes because of it.
You don’t need to trust yourself to be ready, you need to trust that this time, you won’t be doing it alone.
Good news! Because this was built for the woman who is busy.
The Clarity Broadcast audios are designed to be listened to from your car, kitchen, your morning walk or your lunch break. From your real life, in the middle of it, exactly as it is right now.
The Telegram community lives in your pocket, not in a platform you have to log into, not in a Zoom room you have to show up to at a specific time. Leanne’s answers to your questions are there when you open your phone, not when your schedule permits it.
The Q&As are answered in the app on your time. The vault is there at 11pm when the house is finally quiet and you have twenty minutes that belong to you.
And the quarterly mastermind calls four times a year are the only thing in this entire container that asks you to show up live. Four times. In twelve months.
The women inside this work are not women with empty calendars and spacious mornings. They are women holding careers, children, households, and a relationship in crisis – simultaneously. They are, in many cases, the busiest women in every room they walk into.
They found the time because this work met them where they were, not where they wished they could be.
The real question is not whether you have time.
The real question is whether you can afford to keep spending your time the way you have been spending it… managing, over-functioning, surviving without anything changing.
“It does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm and joy.”
She wasn’t waiting for a perfect window, she used what she had.
So can you.
I hear you, and I was once there too. Many women feel the same way who are in your shoes.
This is not a Facebook group with thousands of members, open feeds, and your face attached to your full name. The Telegram community is small, private, and accessed under whatever name you choose. Your first name. A name you choose for this season. Nothing that connects back to your life outside this container. No one in your world will find this unless they get into your phone, so I suggest always having extra security in place.
And that is where something unexpected happens.
You receive something you didn’t even know you needed from hearing another woman’s question get answered.
“Being part of the group keeps the intention to be self-sourced consistently at the forefront of my mind. It is helpful to hear other women’s stories, struggles, and wins — it makes me feel part of a powerful community and not alone in my own drama.”
The intimate group setting means Leanne sees you, so your questions don’t disappear into a feed of hundreds. It means when you share something, it lands, and it is held by other women who get you.
In fact, for most women who have been carrying this alone, finally not being alone with it for the first time is the thing that changes everything.
You can be completely private from the world outside this space.
Inside, you get to finally seen and heard.
This is the perfect place to jump in! Many women come in with this same question: “Should I go back? He said he’s changed”…this is where you have the power to make a real Self-Sourced choice with support. One woman came in unsure, and within 3 weeks, she had left and gone to another country. This is the power of this work: women experience Quantum Leaps inside.
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