THE SELF SOURCED RECLAMATION COLLECTIVE is NOW OPEN
Step into your new identity. Reclaim your health, take charge of your money, and move on after divorce
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A COMMUNITY FOR SUCCESS-DRIVEN WOMEN WHO ARE READY TO BREAK THE PATTERNS OF EMOTIONAL CHAOS WITH MEN AND FINALLY MAKE A CLEAR PLAN TO MOVE FORWARD IN HEALTH, CAREER, MONEY, PURPOSE AND BODY
THE RECLAMATION COLLECTIVE IS A MENTORSHIP SPACE FOR THE WOMAN WHO:
Is going through a separation and divorce after relationship betrayal and emotionally chaotic dynamics, and she wants to truly move forward instead of letting what happened define her
Is successful in her career, and wants to take back her power around money and feel confident in providing for herself and her kids (without relying on a man)
Wants to reclaim her relationship with her body and how she takes care of herself in a whole new way
Has stubborn hormone-related issues she wants to heal at the emotional and lifestyle level
Is a high earner, has access to money for all of her needs, but has a chaotic relationship with managing her financial life – she wants to create calm and stability with her finances and feel good about money and spending (instead of wondering where all the money goes each month). Or she wants to uplevel and create more abundance.
Is navigating co-parenting with a difficult ex, and wants to provide stability for her kids, or maintain a relationship with her adult kids
Thought she’d feel relieved after leaving, but instead finds herself feeling numb, bored, unsettled, and uncertain where to go from here to rebuild her life
Wants to prepare herself for dating and exploring new relationships and avoid getting hooked into the wrong relationship again. She also wants to avoid impacting her kids with her dating life, or is unsure how to go about dating as a single Mom.
Wants to learn how to trust herself again after a lifetime of self-betrayal and overriding her intuition
” I now have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, and I’m learning how to protect my energy. “
“I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money. Leanne gets it. Her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!”
“The Collective has given me hope, inspiration, and a renewed drive to improve in many areas of my life. It has reminded me that I do have choices that I am in control of my own happiness and direction. It has also re-grounded me and reconnected me with my inner self. Overall, it’s been incredibly inspirational, encouraging, and healing.”
“I feel like a completely different person. I am getting stronger everyday mentally, emotionally and physically. I just hired a personal trainer and I’m really excited about this. Since I’ve been doing the empower hour and making exercise part of my daily life it just felt like the next step in my progression.”
“If you are on the fence… just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program and listening to Leanne’s podcasts.
Leanne you are amazing. Thank you!!”
So, given this incredible alone time where I feel most grounded/in my space in my home without interruption, in this deep work and journaling, I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps – I am so excited, because it looks absolutely doable and does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm and joy. Absolutely the most empowering feeling and vision! 🔥 Thank you, Leanne! I feel such overwhelming support here!”
Introducing Relationship Clarity Collective, where successful women do the inner self leadership work to shed decades of over-functioning in their relationships, build emotional resilience, and reclaim their power, one day at a time. Here's the process you will go through over the next 12 months, and delve into with support and coaching with Leanne:
6. dating as the self sourced woman
There will come a point when you feel the desire to put yourself out there and go on some dates. Learn how to know if you’re ready, or if it might be best to wait, how to set your dating boundaries, and explore this new terrain with confidence and your standards high, so that you don’t end up with another person with the same patterns you just left
5. become your own soul mate
Create your foundation for rebuilding your life in a whole new way without second-guessing yourself or looking outside for permission. Stop seeking happiness in men, and find it within yourself first, so that you won’t be tempted to settle just to avoid being alone
4. uplevel your identity from wife to the self sourced woman
You’ve been in a pattern of self betrayal and have lost yourself in the process. You will learn how to uplevel your identity and break your patterns of self betrayal so that you never repeat them again in future relationships
3. Staying in your power while co-parenting with a difficult ex
Kids need one stable parent as you go through this transition, and that is going to be you. Learn how to handle the most difficult parenting situations with dignity, and manage the intense emotions that come with it so that you don’t react in ways that make things worse for your kids (and yourself) as you go through the divorce process
2. putting yourself first and caring for yourself as you go no contact
Even if you have reasons that you must communicate with your ex, there are precautions, boundaries, and limits you can place on communications to protect your healing and detox phase. Learn how to self-source your own validation, soothe your intense emotions, and feel your way through the transition (and ask the group of women when you need a lift) so that you don’t feel tempted to entangle yourself in another cycle by reaching out to him (or rebound date the wrong men).
1. detox from the emotional rollercoaster
After leaving a rollercoaster relationship, many women experience a ‘crash’ and emotional withdrawal that includes intense emotional volatility, physical symptoms, and struggle to move from the initial phase of leaving and going no contact. Learn the symptoms of the emotional detox, and how to move through them without going back into old patterns (or looking to your ex to relieve the discomfort in the moment) so that you can truly stand in your independence in a whole new way.
- this is unlike anything you have tried before -
Why The Reclamation Collective Works When Everything Else Has Failed
We Addresses The Emotional Roots
We address the root of why you stay stuck in relationship patterns that cause you to self-abandon through education, emotional coaching tools, embodiment, and holistic lifestyle methods that change your patterns at the root so you stop repeating them - for good. (Without spending years in therapy talkign about your ex)
We Break The Emotional Patterns That Lead You to Choose The Wrong Man- One Day at a Time
Most other methods, like therapy, reading books, listening to podcasts, and watching YouTube videos deal with 'relationship issues', which are just a surface-level symptom. Therapy helps in the moment, but then leaves you hanging between sessions. The truth is these methods often completely miss treating the emotionally addictive cycle, and you are left to figure it out on your own during overwhelming moments. Here, there are multi-levels of support and guidance available every single day when you need it most
24/7 Community Access When You Need it Most
The biggest factor in being able to break patterns is who you surround yourself with, and who you have in your corner during moments you are experiencing self doubt. Having a space to go in those difficult moments allows you to feel less alone, and supported as you navigate the new addiction-breaking behaviours that are new to you so you can keep the momentum going
The Consistent Support Dissolves The Panic and Emotional Withdrawal
You always have women around you who understand the unique challenges you're facing, and a mentor who has specialized in guiding women in these relationships and divorce for over 6 years.
Continuity Develops Emotional Self Mastery
What is missing from all other things you've tried is consistency, community, and accountability. You go to therapy just to get over a hump, the self help books sound good, but don't lead to actual change. Although women rapidly experience profound shifts within weeks, this program is not a quick fix. Leaving is just the beginning, healing and transending emotionally addictive patterns can take years; this is a long-term process that requires commitment and devotion to your recovery
Helps You Feel Confident Because You Have a Pathway
Many women get stuck at a certain stage of recovery and believe that it's as good as it gets. What is really happening is they haven't addressed the emotional root cause that is causing them to feel trapped in a certain emotional pattern after leaving. You will be guided through the stages of healing, and learn how to hold yourself during difficult moments with confidence so you can continue to move forward
This deep work requires time, continuity, and ongoing touchpoints of support.
The women who come into this space are not looking for surface-level advice or temporary relief.
They are navigating one of the most complex transitions a woman can experience: disentangling emotionally, psychologically, and practically from a relationship that has shaped her nervous system, identity, and sense of self.
This is not a “quick fix” container, because quick fixes don’t create lasting change.
This is why the Reclamation Collective is a 12 month process.
While many women experience rapid shifts once they enter this space, greater clarity, emotional stabilization, and stronger self-trust – true integration takes time.
For some women, the transition unfolds quickly.
For others, it unfolds more slowly and deliberately.
Both are valid.
What matters is that you are supported all the way through, without being rushed, abandoned, or patched up and sent back into the same patterns.
It is no longer within my integrity to offer band-aid solutions that help you survive a moment but don’t support your long-term evolution as a woman.
This work is about whole-woman transformation: emotional mastery, nervous system care, self-trust, boundaries, identity recalibration, and the capacity to build a life that is stable, self-sourced, and aligned.
That kind of transformation doesn’t happen in a few weeks; it happens through sustained guidance, reflection, and embodiment.
To support women at every stage, there are dedicated group spaces and support threads for women who are actively exiting relationships, as well as for women who are post-exit and rebuilding their lives.
This container exists to walk with you through change, not rush you through it.
If you are looking for clarity, real depth, and a long-term pathway that honors the complexity of your life and the woman you are becoming, this work was designed for you.
About Your Mentor
Leanne Oaten is a former Registered Counsellor with extensive, specialized training in Counselling Psychology and over 13 years of experience working at the intersection of mental health, holistic healing, and women’s personal transformation.
Since 2019, she has focused her work on supporting women who are caught in the emotional grip of unhealthy marriages and high-conflict relationships, particularly women who are capable, accomplished, and quietly exhausted from carrying too much for too long.
Leanne has worked with countless women through Awakening Women and has facilitated online groups with women from around the world. Her work is grounded, trauma-informed, and deeply attuned to the lived realities of women navigating complex emotional, relational, and life transitions.
She works closely with women as they face some of the most pivotal decisions of their lives: whether to stay or leave, how to disentangle from chaos with clarity, and how to move through separation and divorce with power, discernment, and self-respect.
She also supports women on the other side of these transitions as they rebuild stability while navigating single motherhood, legal and financial stress, and the demands of career or business.
Leanne’s work is not about fixing or rescuing. It is about guiding women back to themselves. Her goal is to help you come home to your deepest truths and live in alignment with your values, nervous system, and soul-level vision, whether you are still in a relationship that isn’t working or learning how to stand firmly in your own life again.
Through the work of becoming a Self-Sourced Woman, clarity emerges. You will see, without forcing, chasing, or abandoning yourself, whether a man can truly rise with you, or whether choosing yourself is the most powerful next step.
The Proven Pathway to Emotional Freedom (And Reclaiming Your Life)
Reclamation daily: quick no BS audio activations to keep you moving forward
Monday – Thursday audio drops inside the Telegram channel focused on the areas of relationship to money, holistic healing, success mindset, and rebuilding on the other side of divorce
Friday Q &A with Leanne
Post your questions throughout the week, and Leanne answers them in a recorded video format every Friday (no live calls to attend).
Monday - Friday telegram group Support
A support group open 24/7 to connect with other women going through similar changes and experiences.
She's moving on signature program
24/7 access to my signature program (detailed above)
The Reclamation Collective 1-Year membership
$997/month
There is a 12-month minimum commitment to join. You may stay on monthly after that time, and lock in the current rate as long as you are a member
✔️ Exclusive Intimate Group Telegram Community to connect and discuss the work with other women, get support, and share your growth moments. Light level support from Leanne each day in the group ($6,000 value)
✔️ Tuesday – Friday Activation Broadcasts (Typically around 5-10 minutes each, in audio format inside Telegram, $6,000 value). Topics range from: emotional shifting, empowerment, energetics, mindset, body and wellness, relationship empowerment, standards, and breaking patterns
✔️ All-Access to The Entire Program Vault: She’s Moving On, Aligned Women, and new classes released over the 12 month period. ($5,000 + value)
✔️Weekly Q&A with Leanne inside Telegram ($24,000 value)
✔️ Private DM each month: Get same-day 1:1 advice, and next steps inside the Telegram private DM ($3,000 value)
$44k Value for 12 Months
Pay In Full for 12 Months, get a 60-minute private intensive call with me on WhatsApp to plan your post-exit reclamation pathway, personalized to your specific situation. ($1,000 value)
Results Disclaimer
- We believe in transparency and want to set clear expectations regarding the potential outcomes of this transformation course. While our program provides tools and strategies to support your journey in relationships, parenting, marriage, and general wellness practices, individual results will vary.
- Your success with this program depends on various factors, including your personal effort, commitment, self integrity, background, and unique circumstances. We cannot guarantee specific results such as mental health, emotional balance, or an improved mindset. Past participant experiences do not guarantee future success.
- This program includes self-care practices, movement guidance, legal tips, and health-related insights. However, it is not a substitute for professional therapy, trauma treatment, legal counsel, or medical advice. Any legal or health-related information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
- Our program is designed to provide guidance and support, but your progress depends on your willingness to apply the concepts and take action. We encourage you to take full responsibility for your personal growth and well-being.
- Seek Professional Advice Before making any decisions related to your mental, emotional, legal, financial or physical health, we strongly recommend consulting with a qualified professional, such as a licensed therapist, attorney, or healthcare provider, if you are unsure about applying any advice given to you in this program or in consulting with Leanne Oaten.
- We make no guarantees, representations, or warranties regarding specific results from participating in this program. By enrolling, you acknowledge that your outcomes are influenced by multiple factors beyond our control.
REFUND POLICY: There are no refunds or cancellations. Cancel anytime on the monthly membership with 30 days notice by emailing hello@leanneoaten.com. Your purchase includes unlimited past broadcast replay access, including updates or new additions.
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