I WORK WITH HIGH-ACHIEVING ENTREPRENURIAL WOMEN WHO ARE READY TO TAKE THEIR HEALTH, SUCCESS, + LIFE TO THE NEXT LEVEL AFTER SEPARATION AND DIVORCE

“Coaching with Leanne helped me to know that for 90 days I would have her support as I took the leap to leave, and that wherever my leap took me she would be there. Coaching and having access to her on daily when I needed it really helped me to know what to expect, and what crazy making actions I experienced from him were to be expected. While my experience leaving was difficult, I never doubted my decision and I had clarity that what I did was the right thing. This is because of Leanne. I had failed at many prior attempts to leave because I would doubt myself or get sucked back in. Coaching helped me to have clarity on who I was dealing with, that I was indeed saving my life and Leanne helped me to come back to these truths.” — Katherine

If you’ve recently left a destructive relationship and you’re wondering why you can’t get ‘back to yourself, it’s not your fault.  It’s easy to believe that leaving is the hardest part, and everything will fall into place once you’re free, but often, this isn’t the case for most women.

 

 

Many high-achieving, success-driven women think they should just be able to move on and get over it, and they can get away with this for a while as they immerse themselves in motherhood, career and business amidst the legal aspects of divorce, it distracts for a while, but then, the emotional storm can take them by surprise. 

 

 

There are many reasons for this from my personal experience and that of working with so many women over the past 13 years who are in and coming out of painful relationships, but here are the most common places women get stuck in the healing process:

  

 

Avoiding the Emotional Work: You expected you’d be happy after getting out, but what you’ve missed is that the emotional work is essential for clearing the past and getting to a place of peace, contentment and loving your life again. What I have found is the phase of the first 2-4 years of re-stabilizing can be the most difficult. The work I do with women is on an emotional embodiment level, embracing their feminine nature and bringing in more ease, surrender, letting go, detachment – NOT Doing more but learning how to BE more present and connected to themselves.

 

Letting Time Pass By: You think time passing should heal you. This isn’t the case. What I have seen is women allow time to pass, get busy, and DO more, without tending to their internal world, emotional mastery, and unearthing the deeper reasons they tend toward getting into toxic and manipulative relationships. Years can pass by before meeting someone new, only to find they are with the same type of guy who can’t meet their deepest needs. 

 

Your Strong Woman Identity: Their strong nature while it is an asset and has gotten them where they are, can lead them to want to just ‘get over it already’ and get on with life convincing themselves they shouldn’t feel what they feel because they chose to end the relationship or that they shouldn’t feel as they do because he was a bad partner anyway. They try to get on with business as usual, and this can work for a time, but the unfinished business is still lurking within. Wherever you go there you are.

 

Getting Locked into Anger: They stay in anger and resentment rather than feel what they need to feel to experience  emotional healing, and even being able to see the gifts from painful and destructive relationships. While anger has a purpose to propel us into action, many high achieving women stay stuck, emotionally blocked, continuing in their masculine energy with doing more, achieving more, and trying to increase their self-confidence by being more successful. They eventually hit a wall.

Getting hooked into a toxic rebound relationship: It’s easy after spending decades feeling invisible in a relationship to jump on the emotional high of new relationship. And, I’m not one to say ‘wait for X years before dating’. I say, go for it, but do it with clear standards, boundaries and your non-negotionble needs already established. Dating and new love can be a fertile ground for your healing, self-awareness and practicing your boundaries. Healing happens in a relationship, not in isolation.

 

If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behaviour and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Thank you for lifting me up”.

“Even after years of therapy Leanne really gets to the root.” – Ashley

What I Help Women Move Through:

Getting Your Financial Sh*t Together: Protecting Your Assets & Future – Avoid costly legal mistakes, take control of the process, and secure your financial independence. How to approach the divorce process from a CEO perspective and handle all that is coming your way without sinking into massive debts in the legal process. Become a powerhouse woman who is in charge of her financial future! 

Navigating Divorce – Prepare for unexpected emotions, grief, self-blame, and stress hormone withdrawal and break free. As a high achieving woman, you’re busy and you can easily sink yourself into work and clients, and with all you will have on your plate, it is easy to deny your emotional experience, let’s make sure while you’re getting life back on track, that you are also tending to your emotional world – so that it doesn’t come out in physical health issues later on.

Children First Approach to Managing Co-Parenting with Integrity and Values in Tact – Stay in your power, protect your children, and rise above the chaos. Align with your vision, highest values, and personal integrity so that you can be proud of who you have become, and your children can have the best possible outcome because you are the solid emotionally resilient mom they need 

Master Your Communication Boundaries – Keep your calm with powerful text scripts and boundary-setting strategies. Learn how to practice intentional communication (with emotional boundaries) and you get to keep your personal integrity intact the entire way. No more letting what he (or others) are doing derail you from your values and what truly matters to you (building a new life while being the best mom you can be)

Feminine Embodiment and Stepping Into Your Feminine Power – Embody your inner high-value woman, learn how to set boundaries from a feminine perspective, to protect your peace now and ensure you choose wisely from a new level of consciousness in future dating and relationship experiences. As high achievers we are often operating from our masculine energy, and learning how to come back into your true feminine essence as a powerful woman is one of the most healing and empowering things you can do!

Move Through Grief, Regret, Anger and Own Your Part in the Destruction of the Relationship  – Identify the personality traits and unhealed patterns that drew you to toxic relationships and kept you in them for too long—and break the cycle for good. Learn how you participated, and brought some of your own unhealthy behaviours into the previous relationship, and heal the parts of you that continued to stay when you knew something wasn’t right. Having this depth of self-knowledge will prevent you from ever falling into an unhealthy relationship in the future that you can’t easily get out of. It may not mean you avoid it altogether, but with your new values, boundaries and feminine power in tact, you will be able to hit eject at the first sign of toxic behaviour. 

Develop Emotional Mastery – Learn your attachment style, heal past wounds, and become emotionally secure within yourself before considering dating, or entering a new relationship. Even if you can’t imagine dating right now, this is the work to be doing in the meantime, because most women do want to begin dating again, and it’s too common to take years off of dating only to find you’re back in another toxic cycle – time doesn’t heal the wounds that got you in the relationship in the first place, this work is all about becoming immune to manipulators and users down the road

Stepping in to Your Next Level: Creating your new vision for your life, career, income, and relationships by getting clear on what you want at this point in your life – this is a time for reassessing how you are living, and what you want to change to live a more aligned life that matches your highest values and needs

Dating Again, The Right Way – Learn how to create your personal dating boundaries. Set yourself up for success using my conscious dating principles. Learn how to date with intention, and have new experiences without compromising your children or getting entangled in something you are not ready for, or that isn’t right for you. Learn my less common approach to dating and new relationships after divorce that includes avoiding cohabitation and remarriage when minor children are involved-especialy when you haven’t taken the time to do the inner work to ensure the person is properly vetted. Getting clear on what you want out of dating is critical; clarity is power.

It’s not just about leaving and allowing time to pass; it’s consciously choosing a new way, rising, healing, and intentionally creating the future you truly desire!

PRIVATE MENTORSHIP OPTIONS

MONTHLY PRIVATE INTENSIVE SUBSCRIPTION

$1,111 per Month Recurring (3 Month Minimum Commitment) 

For the woman who knows she’s meant for more, and is already meeting goals in some areas of her life, but wants to refine, curate, and simplify life to feel more ease and flow, wants monthly direction, momentum and alignment to keep moving toward her goals in love, relationships, body, and success.

Includes: Monthly 45 Minute Private Session + 5 days of Telegram follow up coaching

Each month, we meet for a laser-focused session (either on WhatsApp calling or in Telegram. No need to feel pressure to get on video, just focus on the work and how you will keep moving forward. We will curate your strategies, habits, and actions to make sure they are aligned with your vision and the identity of the woman who has what you desire in a relationship, your health and wellness, and success. We will also dive into all things emotional and energetic that you’re experiencing so that you can shift it and keep the momentum going. 

Integration is so important to lock in new behaviour and habits, ways of being and breaking past patterns. Get powerful follow up support with the strategies and work we completed in the session. Bring whatever is coming up for you and we will move you through it so you can keep the flow and momentum going!

12 MONTH IMMERSIVE EXPERIENCE

Includes All-Access to The School of Self-Reclamation (10,000 value)

36k in full — $12 x $3,333/ month

For the woman who wants a deeper level of support and whole life transformation within the next year. Get unlimited daily Telegram voice note/text support as you navigate life reinvention after relationship endings. You want an intimate experience where you feel supported daily, rather than once monthly. Get my personal expertise and guidance on the areas of holistic health, midlife changes, perimenopause support, empty nest grief and navigating relationships with adult children, divorce healing, dating, business, and purpose, and how to live as the self-sourced woman in all areas of your life and relationships. 

Includes: 2 x 45 Minute Sessions Per Month + Tuesday – Friday Telegram Coaching Support

 via WhatsApp voice calling or Telegram Voice Notes 

Message me 24/7, I respond within my coaching hours Tuesday -Friday 10 am PT – 3 pm PT.

I started working with Leanne as I and my two young children physically separated from my husband. She helped me step out of the usual patterns and instead take time to process my thoughts and emotions before responding or making snap decisions that would back me into a corner. I’ve been able to practice that over the last few months on my own and it has kept me out of a lot of trouble, while also being an empowering shift in mindset. Since coaching with Leanne, I’ve become much more self-aware and have started to recognize the patterns that kept me in that viscous cycle of abuse. Working with Leanne is like rocket fuel for taking ownership of the traits that got me into toxic relationships and transforming my life. If I could go back in time, I would have started working with her before leaving – I know I’d have avoided some of the mistakes I made and would have felt stronger taking that step.” – Ann

The investment of working with Leanne and REGAINING MY LIFE is worth every single penny. – A.H

 

“I came across this program at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn’t make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would.  I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne. Thank you so, so much.” J.P

Client Success Transformation Interviews


Ann's Story:

Ann came to work with me as a private client right after she exited her marriage. We got to work on her emotional embodiment, and learning how to be assertive, stand in her conviction against manipulation, and take a necessary stand for herself and her children in the process of her separation. Toward the end of our work, she was just beginning to explore dating after she described having a sexual awakening and desire for fulfilling her sexual needs without wanting a committed relationship. In this interview she shares how she has used dating as a path to awaken, speak her truth and enjoy the company of men in a new way, while juggling a high-power career in New York as an investment banker on Wall Street, being a full time single mom and rebuilding her new life.

LISTEN TO HER FULL STORY ON SPOTIFY

Autumn's Story

Autumn first came to work with me inside my End The Cycle group coaching program and quickly realized she needed to make her move and leave her marriage midway through the program. She shares her journey through rewiring her old patterns, experiencing her first new relationship, publishing a book, and more in this interview.

 

LISTEN TO HER FULL STORY ON SPOTIFY

Katherine's Story

Katherine first consulted with in her car parked in a parking lot. As she shared the fears she had about leaving her relationship she said something that I know all women feel as they reach the end point: “If I don’t leave, I will die”.  She began working with me just as she was exiting her relationship inside my 6 month 1:1 private coaching. She shares her low and high points of navigating single motherhood, a high level career, and the aftermath of leaving a destrictive relationship, and where she has grown in the process of finding herself again.

 

LISTEN TO HER FULL STORY HERE

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