I work with high level entrepreneur and career women who are ready to shift into their next level of income, health, and success on the other side of leaving a destructive relationship

If you’ve recently left a narcissistic relationship (I describe as emotionally void, that included destructive conflict cycles, betrayal, gaslighting and manipulation) it’s easy to believe that leaving is the hardest part.

 

Many high achieving, success driven women think it should all be rainbows and butterflies when they finally get out of the relationship, but the truth is, this is often not the case.

 

 

There are many reasons for this from my personal experience and that of working with so many women over the past 6 years who are in and coming out of these relationships but here are the most common places women get stuck in the healing process.

 

 Here are some of the ways women hit healing roadblocks after toxic relationships:

  

 

❌ Avoiding the Emotional Work: You expected the problems would magically disappear after getting out, but what you’ve missed is that you still have deep grief, regret and the emotional fallout to move through while you work/run a business and parent your children – this phase of the first 2 years of re-stabilizing can be the most difficult – and the work high achievers I work with really need to be doing is on an emotional embodiment level, embracing their feminine nature and bringing in more ease, surrender, letting go, detachment – NOT Doing more but BEing more

 

❌ Letting Time Passively Pass By: You think time passing should heal you. This isn’t the case. What I have seen is women allow time to pass, get busy and DO more, without working on their internal world, emotional mastery, unearthing the deeper reasons they tend toward getting into toxic and manipulative relationships. Years can pass by before meeting someone new, only to find they are with the same guy, different face. This was my experience, because I didn’t do the necessary work to heal my inner patterns.

 

❌ Your Strong Woman Identity: Their strong nature while it is an asset and has gotten them where they are, can lead them to want to just ‘get over it already’ and get on with life convincing themselves they shouldn’t feel what they feel because they chose to end the relationship or that they shouldn’t feel as they do because he was a bad partner anyway. They try to get on with business as usual, and this can work for a time, but the unfinished business is still lurking within. Wherever you go there you are.

 

❌ Getting Locked into Anger: They stay in anger and resentment rather than doing the emotional work to move up the emotional healing scale to acceptance, gratitude and self understanding, and even being able to see the gifts from even the most destructive relationships. While anger has a purpose to propel us into action, many high achieving women stay stuck and bitter, emotionally blocked continuing in their masculine energy with doing more, achieving more, and trying to increase their self confidence by being more successful. They eventually hit a wall with a health crisis.

 

If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behaviour and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Thank you for lifting me up”.

“Even after years of therapy this really gets to the root.” – Ashley

1:1 Coaching Includes my She's Moving On Program, Here's What You'll Be Doing During Our Work Together:

🔥 Getting Your Financial Sh*t Together: Protecting Your Assets & Future – Avoid costly legal mistakes, take control of the process, and secure your financial independence. How to approach the divorce process from a CEO perspective and handle all that is coming your way without sinking into massive debts in the legal process. Become a powerhouse woman who is in charge of her financial future! 

🔥 Navigating the Early Months After Leaving – Prepare for unexpected emotions, grief, self-blame, and stress hormone withdrawal—and break free from the toxic addiction for good. As a high achieving woman, you’re busy and you can easily sink yourself into work and clients, and with all you will have on your plate, it is easy to deny your emotional experience, let’s make sure while you’re getting life back on track, that you are also tending to your emotional world – so that it doesn’t come out in physical health issues later on.

🔥 Children First Approach to Managing Co-Parenting with Integrity and Values in Tact – Stay in your power, protect your children, and rise above the chaos—no matter what your ex tries to pull. Align with your vision, highest values and personal integrity so that you can be proud of who you have become in the mess of divorce and your children can have the best possible outcome because you are the solid emotionally resilient mom they need 

🔥 Master Your Communication Boundaries – Keep your calm with powerful text scripts and boundary-setting strategies (when going full no-contact isn’t an option). Learn how to practice intentional communication in a way that de-escalates manipulation attempts, and you get to keep your personal integrity in tact the entire way. No more letting what he (or others) are doing to derail you from your values and what truly matters to you (building a new life while being the best mom you can be)

🔥 Feminine Embodiment and Stepping Into Your Feminine Power – Embody your inner high-value woman, learn how to set boundaries from a feminine perspective, to protect your peace now and ensure you never attract a manipulative partner again. As high achievers we are often operating from our masculine energy, and learning how to come back into your true feminine essence as a powerful woman is one of the most healing and empowering things you can do!

🔥 Move Through Grief, Regret, Anger and Own Your Part in the Destruction of the Relationship  – Identify the personality traits and unhealed patterns that drew you to toxic relationships and kept you in them for too long—and break the cycle for good. Learn how you participated, and brought some of your own unhealthy behaviours into the previous relationship, and heal the parts of you that continued to stay when you knew something wasn’t right. Having this depth of self-knowledge will prevent you from ever falling into an unhealthy relationship in the future that you can’t easily get out of. It may not mean you avoid it altogether, but with your new values, boundaries and feminine power in tact, you will be able to hit eject at the first sign of toxic behaviour. 

🔥 Develop Emotional Mastery – Learn your attachment style, heal past wounds, and become emotionally secure within yourself before considering dating, or entering a new relationship. Even if you can’t imagine dating right now, this is the work to be doing in the meantime, because most women do want to begin dating again, and it’s too common to take years off of dating only to find you’re back in another toxic cycle – time doesn’t heal the wounds that got you in the relationship in the first place, this work is all about becoming immune to manipulators and users down the road

🔥 Stepping in to Your Next Level: Creating your new vision for your life, career, income, and relationships by getting clear on what you want at this point in your life – this is a time for reassessing how you are living, and what you want to change to live a more aligned life that matches your highest values and needs

🔥Dating Again—The Right Way – Avoid getting in to toxic patterns, people pleasing,  recognize red flags, and set your dating boundaries. Set yourself up for success using my conscious dating principles. Learn how to date with intention, and have new experiences without compromising your children or getting entangled into something you are not ready for, or that isn’t right for you. Learn my less common approach to dating and new relationships after divorce that includes avoiding cohabitation and remarriage when minor children are involved. Getting clear on what you want out of dating is critical, clarity is power.

👉 This isn’t just about leaving and allowing time to pass—it’s about rising, healing, and intentionally creating the future you truly desire!

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Client Success Stories:

I started working with Leanne as I and my two young children physically separated from my husband. She helped me step out of the usual pattern of fawning and instead take time to process my thoughts and emotions before responding or making snap decisions that would back me into a corner. I’ve been able to practice that over the last few months on my own and it has kept me out of a lot of trouble, while also being an empowering shift in mindset. Since coaching with Leanne, I’ve become much more self-aware and have started to recognize the patterns that kept me in that viscous cycle of abuse. Working with Leanne is like rocket fuel for taking ownership of the traits that got me into toxic relationships and transforming my life. If I could go back in time, I would have started working with her before leaving – I know I’d have avoided some of the mistakes I made and would have felt safer and stronger taking that step.” – Ann

The investment of working with Leanne and REGAINING MY LIFE is worth every single penny. – A.H

 

“I came across this program at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn’t make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would.  I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne. Thank you so, so much.” J.P

More Client Success Stories of Transformation


Ann's Story:

Ann came to work with me as a private client right after she exited her marriage. We got to work on her emotional embodiment, and learning how to be assertive, stand in her conviction against manipulation, and take a necessary stand for herself and her children in the process of her separation. Toward the end of our work, she was just beginning to explore dating after she described having a sexual awakening and desire for fulfilling her sexual needs without wanting a committed relationship. In this interview she shares how she has used dating as a path to awaken, speak her truth and enjoy the company of men in a new way, while juggling a high-power career in New York as an investment banker on Wall Street, being a full time single mom and rebuilding her new life.

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Autumn's Story

Autumn first came to work with me inside my End The Cycle group coaching program and quickly realized she needed to make her move and leave her marriage midway through the program. She then joined Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse (Now She’s Moving On Inner Circle.) She shares her journey through rewiring her old patterns, experiencing a new relationship, publishing her book and more in this interview.

 

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Katherine's Story

Katherine first consulted with me from her car parked in a parking lot. As she shared the fears she had about leaving her relationship she said something that I know all women feel as they reach the end point: “If I don’t leave, I will die”.  She began working with me just as she was exiting her relationship inside my 6 month 1:1 private coaching where she also took the She’s Moving On program.

 

LISTEN TO HER FULL STORY HERE

My 6 month private coaching is the highest level of proximity I offer and there are limited spaces, therefore I like to make sure the right women are selected. This is for women who are committed to creating deep and sustainable transformation, and are ready to commit to going all in.  I will spend about 20 minutes on this call to make sure you are the perfect fit and that I can help you achieve what you are desiring to create. This is ONLY for women who are motivated and ready to take massive action to reinvent their lives, and increase their income and success as a bi-product of elevating into their next level 

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