A POWERFUL TELEGRAM COMMUNITY FOR HIGH-ACHIEVING, CAREER WOMEN READY TO BREAK THE EMOTIONAL GRIP OF CHAOTIC LOVE FOR GOOD
GET RELATIONSHIP CLARITY AND YOUR POWER PLAN TO SHIFT YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC WITHIN 3 WEEKS (OR LESS)
YOU KNOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISN’T WORKING, YOU’VE KNOWN IT FOR YEARS…
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, gone to therapy, tried boundaries, and used “I” statements…
And you still feel stuck in the same emotional rollercoaster of ups and downs.
And, if you’re being truly honest, you’re exhausted from making excuses for a man you don’t even like anymore.
In most cases when you know you need to leave but keep getting hooked back in, even when you know better, there is a deeper, unconscious emotional pattern running your life.
And until you break that, and bring the pattern to consciousness, nothing changes.
THE COLLECTIVE IS A TELEGRAM MENTORSHIP SPACE FOR THE WOMAN WHO:
Is ambitious, successful, and respected in her life and work, yet can’t fully walk away from a relationship she knows is holding her back
Has built a powerful life and career or business, but can’t untangle herself from one man (or type of man) that is causing chaos in her body, mind, and destroying her peace
has tried for years to fix the relationship, but is still waiting to see if it gets better before choosing herself
Has already left… but still feels the pull toward the relationship and wonders if she made the right decision
Fears making the wrong decision and regretting it for the rest of her life
Worries about breaking up the family and having that burden weighing solely on her
Wonders if she will be happy alone or if she will ever find someone again (or find the same type of person)
What you really want is clarity and relief from the struggle, with yourself and with him.
To finally know the truth about whether to stay or go without fear, craving, guilt, or emotional chaos making the decision for you.
” I now have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, and I’m learning how to protect my energy. “
“I was leaning toward leaving the relationship and that’s where I am now, except I feel much more “prepared” mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I’ve shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I’m showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me–and was one of several “aha” moments.”
“I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money. Leanne gets it. Her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!”
“The Collective has given me hope, inspiration, and a renewed drive to improve in many areas of my life. It has reminded me that I do have choices that I am in control of my own happiness and direction. It has also re-grounded me and reconnected me with my inner self. Overall, it’s been incredibly inspirational, encouraging, and healing.”
“I feel like a completely different person. I am getting stronger everyday mentally, emotionally and physically. I just hired a personal trainer and I’m really excited about this. Since I’ve been doing the empower hour and making exercise part of my daily life it just felt like the next step in my progression.”
“If you are on the fence… just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program and listening to Leanne’s podcasts.
Leanne you are amazing. Thank you!!”
So, given this incredible alone time where I feel most grounded/in my space in my home without interruption, in this deep work and journaling, I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps – I am so excited, because it looks absolutely doable and does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm and joy. Absolutely the most empowering feeling and vision! 🔥 Thank you, Leanne! I feel such overwhelming support here!”
Introducing The Sourced Collective, where ambitious women do the inner self leadership work to shed over-functioning in their relationships, build emotional resilience, and reclaim their wholeness, one day at a time.
And then, from a place of clarity, you can finally see the relationship for what it is, not what your past wounds hope it will be…someday.
When women come together in elevating spaces, the collective consciousness rises as a result. You will experience fast, life-changing shifts just by being in the group, showing up daily, and following the process. Relationships become more aligned as you align with your higher self, and break emotionally addictive love patterns, which may include endings and new beginnings as a result of doing this work
This is for the woman who’s done settling for less than she is receiving, outsourcing her power, or living in emotional chaos. Inside The Collective, you get 4 x weekly potent activations and prompts, and a private library of pre-recorded transformational programs, self-coaching processes, classes, templates, and blueprints, plus access to me each week in Telegram- for a fraction of the investment of private mentorship
It’s intimacy, access, accountability, and activation in one powerful space.
What you're stepping into inside is not therapy, a course, or more information; it's a journey that meets you exactly where you're at and walks you to the next level. Here's what you get inside as a member:
Go From:
A woman second-guessing herself, self-betrayal, emotional withdrawal cycles, obsession, desire for clarity, fear of loss, and constant hypervigilance.
To a Woman Who Is:
Self-Sourced: calm, grounded, embodied, decisive, emotionally mastered, and fully in her power…
whether she stays, leaves, or never looks back.
5. Monday, Wednesday + Friday Q&A
Post your questions anytime throughout the week, and Leanne will personally answer them in the Telegram app via audio voice notes. You can listen to all recordings (past and current) around your schedule (all questions get answered). This is where I offer mind-shifting reframes, next steps, and integration so you can experience quick shifts that move the needle forward every single week. To get this level of private access to me starts at 18k for my private 6-month coaching and consulting.
4. break the emotional pattern in 30 days intensive
In order to break free from the dynamic, you first have to break the emotional patterns that keep you in the same reality. This is where you will begin your journey: Get INSTANT access to my Break the Emotional Pattern (in 30 days) Intensive. Through implementing effective boundary-setting using rules, power principles, practices, mindset, and energetic applications to apply in real-time, so that you can experience relief and a new sense of clarity when you need it most – IN the moment
3. telegram collective Community chat
Join our elevated community of women who understand what you’re experiencing as you navigate a difficult relationship, separation, and divorce journey. Discuss the broadcast topics, program work, and share your growth experiences and wins, as well as your challenges, so that you feel supported every day. This group is open 24/7 for those moments you need a reminder – you’re no longer doing this on your own.
2. Telegram Activations and Exclusive podcast episodes - members only
Tuesday – Friday Private members-only short and actionable power lessons, insights, behind the scenes, and member Q&A episodes – exclusive to members of the collective – all inside the Telegram app so you can literally have me in your ear while you’re on the go, on your walks, or in those moments you need a reminder- I’ll be guiding you every step of the way.
1. The 6 levels of Transcending emotionally addictive love
Get access to my signature self-paced, pre-recorded program to guide your transformation process of breaking emotionally addictive relationship patterns at your fingertips, 24/7 in your own password-protected portal. Start where you are on the 5 levels of freedom, and work your way up to the next level with my easy-to-follow self-coaching processes, exercises, and activation audios to help you create velocity and momentum when everything else has left you feeling more stuck.
what makes this different than everything you've tried
Why Joining The Collective Works When Everything Else Has Failed (Hint: It's Not Your Fault)
Addresses The Emotional Root
We address the root of why you stay stuck in relationships that cause you to self-abandon through education, emotional coaching tools, embodiment, and holistic lifestyle methods that change your patterns at the root so you stop repeating them - for good. Get access to my Transcending Love Addiction method that walks you through exactly how to do this work (without spending years in therapy)
Breaks The Emotional Pattern One Day at a Time
Most other methods, like therapy, reading books, listening to podcasts, and watching YouTube videos deal with 'relationship issues', which are just a surface-level symptom. Therapy helps in the moment, but then leaves you hanging between sessions. The truth is these methods often completely miss treating the emotionally addictive cycle, and you are left to figure it out on your own during overwhelming moments. Here, there are multi-levels of support and guidance available every single day when you need it most
24/7 Community Access When You Need it Most
The biggest factor in being able to break patterns is who you surround yourself with, and who you have in your corner during moments you are experiencing self doubt. Having a space to go in those difficult moments allows you to feel less alone, and supported as you navigate the new addiction-breaking behaviours that are new to you so you can keep the momentum going
Dissolves The Panic and Fears of Leaving
We tackle the biggest fears most women face head on around leaving with my Exposure Coaching Method™ to help you move the emotions under them so that they no longer feel so daunting and overwhelming, or have power over you any longer
Develops Emotional Self Mastery
What is missing from all other things you've tried is learning how to feel and process emotions that are underneath the addictive behaviours you are caught in within this relationship. Many ambitious women are cut off from this part of themselves and we AWAKEN it from within
Breaks The Emotional Withdrawal
This is often called breaking the 'trauma bond, ' but the trauma bond is just a symptom of what needs to be addressed before you can break a bond with a person. This phase comes with a range of mind-body symptoms, and we address this head-on so you know what to expect (and why you cling harder when you come close to leaving)
About Your Mentor
I’m Leanne Oaten, a former Registered Counsellor with training and a background in Counseling Psychology.
I have over 13 years of experience working in the mental health, holistic health, and women’s personal transformation fields, and specialized in helping women break free from the emotional grip of unhealthy marriages since 2019.
I have worked with countless clients inside Awakening Women and have been facilitating online groups all over the world.
I’ve worked closely with women as they are making difficult decisions and transitions out of chaotic relationships, as well as navigating the other side of separation and divorce with power and courage.
My goal is to guide you in coming home to your deepest truths, and living a life aligned with your values and soul level vision, whether you’re still in a relationship that isn’t working, or you’ve left and are managing recent single motherhood, the legal stress while maintaining a career or business, this space holds you all the way through the process.
Through this work of BEing the Self-Sourced Woman, you will see clearly if a man can rise with you, or if you need to walk away and choose yourself.
When You Step Inside, You Will Work Through My Proven Signature Method for Breaking The Cycle of Chaotic Love and Making a Clear Decision About Whether to Stay or Go (And Have a Solid Strategy Either Way to Move Foward in Power)
phase 6: stabilize and reclaim your new life after leaving
This is where you may experience intense emotional withdrawal from the patterns and find yourself pulled back into the fold. Along with the emotional chaos, logistical challenges, and legal process, it can become overwhelming fast. You are supported during this phase through the process I created, and the community for divorcing women inside the Collective.
phase 5: Plan Your Empowered Exit + Divorce
When you’re ready for this phase of the process, this is where you will begin to plan your separation without the overwhelm of wondering where to start, while avoiding costly mistakes that many women make that drag the legal process out, cause long-term chaos, and potential financial drains. You will be prepared with checklists, safety precautions, and everything organized in advance, knowing what to expect through the transition and into your first months post-separation.
phase 4: Discerning if your current Relationship Can Meet You at Your New Level
You want to know if he can change, he flips and flops from cruel to ‘best husband ever’ so fast, it gives you emotional whiplash – find out what is behind this pattern, and how to know if his sudden 180 is real change, or just more manipulation so you can star taking steps toward your future with clarity
phase 3: paradigm shifting + WORKING WITH YOUR THOUGHTS, emotions, and identity
Change the Mental-Emotional Patterns That Keep You Stuck in The Cycle so that you can feel excitement, relief, and joy in your life again as you align your mental patterns with new emotional states that keep you feeling in control of your future. This is where you become someone new, as you step into your new identity and leave the old one behind
PHASE 2: define your boundaries, dealbreakers, and standards
This is where you raise your standards and step into the self-sourced woman who respects herself. Having clarity on these 3 areas helps you feel more empowered and in charge of your daily experiences, and sets the tone for what you will and won’t tolerate in a relationship moving forward
PHASE 1: Identify Your patterns in the emotional cycle
Understand the emotionally addictive nature of the relationship cycle, and how to break the obsessive thought loops and emotional patterns so that you can start shifting your focus to experience more joy, peace, and emotional well-being right away
The Self Sourced Woman Collective membership
$888/mo
Monthly Collective Telegram Mentorship
6 Month Minimum Commitment, then month to month with 30 days cancellation notice
✔️ Exclusive Telegram Chat Community to connect and discuss the work with other women, get support, and share your growth moments. Light level support from Leanne each week in the group ($500 monthly value)
✔️ Tuesday – Friday Activation Broadcasts (Typically around 5-10 minutes each, in audio format inside Telegram, $3,000 monthly value). Topics range from: emotional shifting, empowerment, energetics, mindset, body and wellness, relationship empowerment, standards, and breaking patterns
✔️ Live Challenges: Access past and future live challenges, including the Emotional Detox Bootcamp (Priceless and ongoing as I decide to run them. Typical 30 Day Bootcamps with me are $997.)
✔️ BONUS: 6 Module Proven Relationship Clarity Method: Shift Your State and Relationship within 3 weeks (or less without talking about it). Processes, and Self Coaching Tools, Templates, Emotional Healing Processes to get clear on whether to stay or go, and create your path toward emotional freedom ($2,222 value on my website)
Get Direct Access to Leanne Each Week:
✔️Monday, Wednesday, and Friday Q&A in Telegram: Post your questions, get personal answers to keep moving forward ($3,000 monthly value)
$9,500 monthly value
*3-month minimum commitment required
Collective 6 Month Membership: $5,328
Results Disclaimer
- We believe in transparency and want to set clear expectations regarding the potential outcomes of this transformation course. While our program provides tools and strategies to support your journey in relationships, parenting, marriage, and general wellness practices, individual results will vary.
- Your success with this program depends on various factors, including your personal effort, commitment, self integrity, background, and unique circumstances. We cannot guarantee specific results such as mental health, emotional balance, or an improved mindset. Past participant experiences do not guarantee future success.
- This program includes self-care practices, movement guidance, legal tips, and health-related insights. However, it is not a substitute for professional therapy, trauma treatment, legal counsel, or medical advice. Any legal or health-related information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
- Our program is designed to provide guidance and support, but your progress depends on your willingness to apply the concepts and take action. We encourage you to take full responsibility for your personal growth and well-being.
- Seek Professional Advice Before making any decisions related to your mental, emotional, legal, financial or physical health, we strongly recommend consulting with a qualified professional, such as a licensed therapist, attorney, or healthcare provider, if you are unsure about applying any advice given to you in this program or in consulting with Leanne Oaten.
- We make no guarantees, representations, or warranties regarding specific results from participating in this program. By enrolling, you acknowledge that your outcomes are influenced by multiple factors beyond our control.
REFUND POLICY: There are no refunds or cancellations. Cancel anytime on the monthly membership with 30 days notice by emailing hello@leanneoaten.com. Your purchase includes unlimited past broadcast replay access, including updates or new additions.
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