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THE #1 ONLINE COMMUNITY FOR HIGH-ACHIEVING, CAREER WOMEN READY TO BREAK EMOTIONALLY ADDICTIVE LOVE PATTERNS AND NEVER REPEAT THEM AGAIN
YOU ALREADY KNOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISN’T WORKING
What You Don’t Know… Is Why You Still Can’t Leave, or why leaving didn’t deactivate the bond.
You’ve spent years trying to “fix it.”
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, tried therapy, tried boundaries, tried detachment…
And somehow you’re still stuck in the same emotional rollercoaster of ups and downs.
And the most confusing aspect of these relationships is the mix of emotions that can be present at one time:
Part of you feels disgusted.
Part of you feels guilty.
Part of you feels terrified.
Part of you still wishes he could be different
You’re exhausted from making excuses for a man you don’t even like anymore.
In most cases when you know you need to leave but keep getting hooked back in, it’s not a relationship problem, it’s an emotional addiction problem.
And until you break that, nothing changes.
WELCOME TO A SOLUTION YOU HAVEN'T TRIED YET
THE COLLECTIVE IS FOR THE WOMAN WHO:
is ambitious, successful, educated, respected, yet can’t walk away from a relationship she knows she needs to leave (but hasn’t been able to)
has built a powerful life, but can’t untangle herself from one man (or type of man) that is destroying her body, mind, and peace
feels stuck, confused, and ashamed, she “can’t just get over it.”
has tried for years to fix the relationship, but is still in limbo
has left… but still feels the pull toward the relationship
fears making the wrong decision and regretting it for the rest of her life
fears breaking the family and having that burden weighing soley on her
fears being alone and never finding someone again (or finding the same type of person)
fears she’ll never feel whole without the relationship
What she really wants is clarity and relief from the struggle. With herself and with him.
To finally know the truth about whether to stay or go without fear, craving, guilt, or emotional chaos making the decision for her.
THE REAL PROBLEM (THE ONE NOBODY TELLS YOU ABOUT)
You don’t stay because of:
the kids
the mortgage
the finances
the years invested
the history
the trauma
his potential
Those are surface-level reasons.
Underneath it all is emotional addiction, a neurochemical bond that keeps you tied to a man who cannot or will not meet you.
This addiction distorts your logic, sabotages your boundaries, and hooks into childhood wounds you didn’t know were running your love life.
You’re not ‘anxiously attached’, too much, or too broken; your brain is wired to stay, even while your soul is begging you to leave.
And breaking that pattern is exactly what we do inside the Collective.
” I now have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, and I’m learning how to protect my energy. “
“I was leaning toward leaving the relationship and that’s where I am now, except I feel much more “prepared” mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I’ve shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I’m showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me–and was one of several “aha” moments.”
“I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money. Leanne gets it. Her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!”
“The Collective has given me hope, inspiration, and a renewed drive to improve in many areas of my life. It has reminded me that I do have choices that I am in control of my own happiness and direction. It has also re-grounded me and reconnected me with my inner self. Overall, it’s been incredibly inspirational, encouraging, and healing.”
“I feel like a completely different person. I am getting stronger everyday mentally, emotionally and physically. I just hired a personal trainer and I’m really excited about this. Since I’ve been doing the empower hour and making exercise part of my daily life it just felt like the next step in my progression.”
“If you are on the fence… just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program and listening to Leanne’s podcasts.
Leanne you are amazing. Thank you!!”
So, given this incredible alone time where I feel most grounded/in my space in my home without interruption, in this deep work and journaling, I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps – I am so excited, because it looks absolutely doable and does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm and joy. Absolutely the most empowering feeling and vision! 🔥 Thank you, Leanne! I feel such overwhelming support here!”
Introducing The Sourced Collective, where ambitious women do the Inner Self Mastery work to shed over-functioning in their relationships, break emotional addiction to chaos, and reclaim their wholeness, one day at a time.
And then, from a place of clarity, you can finally see the relationship for what it is, not what your wounds hope it will be.
When women come together in elevating spaces, the collective consciousness rises as a result. You will experience fast, life-changing shifts just by being in the group, showing up daily, and following the process. Relationships become more aligned as you align with your higher self, and break emotionally addictive love patterns, which may include endings and new beginnings as a result of doing this work
This is for the woman who’s done settling for less than she is receiving, outsourcing her power, or living in emotional chaos. Inside The Collective, you get 4 x weekly potent activations and prompts, and a private library of pre-recorded transformational programs, classes, and blueprints, plus access to me each week in Telegram- for a fraction of the investment of private mentorship
It’s intimacy, access, accountability, and activation in one powerful space.
What you're stepping into inside is not a course or more information; it's a journey that meets you exactly where you're at and walks you to the next level. Here's what you get inside as a member:
Go From:
A woman drowning in second-guessing, self-betrayal, emotional withdrawal cycles, obsession, desire for clarity, fear of loss, and constant hypervigilance.
To a Woman Who Is:
Self-Sourced: calm, clear, embodied, decisive, emotionally grounded, and fully in her power…
whether she stays, leaves, or never looks back.
5. Monday, Wednesday + Friday Q&A Coaching (VIP ONLY)
Post your questions anytime throughout the week, and Leanne will personally answer them in the Telegram app via audio voice notes. You can listen to all recordings (past and current) around your schedule (all questions get answered). This is where I offer mind-shifting reframes, next steps, and integration so you can experience quick shifts that move the needle forward every single week. To get daily private access to me starts at 10k for my private coaching and consulting.
4. The 30 day break the emotional addiction intensive
Get INSTANT access to my Break the Cycle of Emotional Addiction Intensive. Through implementing effective boundary-setting using rules, power principles, practices, mindset, and energetic applications to apply in real-time, so that you can experience relief and a new sense of clarity when you need it most – IN the moment
3. telegram collective Community chat
Join our elevated community of women who understand what you’re experiencing as you navigate a difficult relationship, separation, and divorce journey. Discuss the broadcast topics, program work, and share your growth experiences and wins, as well as your challenges, so that you feel supported every day. This group is open 24/7 for those moments you need a reminder – you’re no longer doing this on your own.
2. Telegram broadcasts and Exclusive podcast episodes - members only
Private members-only short and actionable power lessons, insights, behind the scenes, and member Q&A episodes – exclusive to members of the collective – all inside the Telegram app so you can literally have me in your ear while you’re on the go, on your walks, or in those moments you need a reminder- I’ll be guiding you every step of the way.
1. The 6 levels of Transcending Love addiction method
Get access to my pre-recorded program to guide your transformation process of breaking emotionally addictive relationship patterns at your fingertips, study at your own pace, 24/7.
what makes this different
Why The Collective Works When Everything Else Has Failed (Hint: It's Not Your Fault, it's Your Wiring).
Addresses The Emotional Root
We address the root of why you stay stuck in relationships that cause you to self-abandon through education, emotional coaching tools, embodiment, and holistic lifestyle methods that change your patterns at the root so you stop repeating them - for good. Get access to my Transcending Love Addiction method that walks you through exactly how to do this work (without spending years in therapy)
Breaks The Addiction One Day at a Time
Most other methods, like therapy, reading books, listening to podcasts, and watching YouTube videos deal with 'relationship issues', which are just a surface-level symptom. Therapy helps in the moment, but then leaves you hanging between sessions. The truth is these methods often completely miss treating the emotionally addictive cycle, and you are left to figure it out on your own during overwhelming moments. Here, there are multi-levels of support and guidance available every single day when you need it most
24/7 Community Access When You Need it Most
The biggest factor in being able to break patterns is who you surround yourself with, and who you have in your corner during moments you are experiencing self doubt. Having a space to go in those difficult moments allows you to feel less alone, and supported as you navigate the new addiction-breaking behaviours that are new to you so you can keep the momentum going
Dissolves The Panic and Fears of Leaving
We tackle the biggest fears most women face head on around leaving with my Exposure Coaching Method™ to help you move the emotions under them so that they no longer feel so daunting and overwhelming, or have power over you any longer
Develops Emotional Self Mastery
What is missing from all other things you've tried is learning how to feel and process emotions that are underneath the addictive behaviours you are caught in within this relationship. Many ambitious women are cut off from this part of themselves and we AWAKEN it from within
Breaks The Withdrawal
This is often called breaking the 'trauma bond', but the trauma bond is just a symptom of a deeper emotional addiction; this is what needs to be addressed before you can break a bond with a person. This phase comes with a range of mind-body symptoms, we deal with this head-on on so you know what to expect (and why you cling harder when you come close to leaving)
About Your Mentor
I’m a former therapist with a background in Counseling Psychology with over 13 years of experience in the mental health, holistic health, and women’s personal transformation field.
I have worked with countless clients inside Awakening Women and have been facilitating online groups all over the world since 2019.
I’ve worked closely with women as they are making difficult decisions and transitions out of chaotic relationships, as well as navigating the other side of separation and divorce from their highest power.
My goal is to guide you in coming home to your deepest truths, and living a life aligned with your values and soul level vision, whether you’re still in a relationship that isn’t working, or you’ve left and are managing single motherhood, the legal stress while maintaining a career or business, this space holds you all the way through the process.
Through this work of BEing the Self-Sourced Woman, you will see clearly if a man can rise with you, or if you need to walk away and choose yourself.
phase 6: stabilize and reclaim your new life after leaving
This is where you may experience intense emotional withdrawal from the patterns and find yourself pulled back into the fold. Along with the emotional chaos, logistical challenges, and legal process, it can become overwhelming fast. You are supported during this phase through the process I created, and the community for divorcing women inside the Collective.
phase 5: Plan Your Empowered Exit + Divorce
When you’re ready for this phase of the process, this is where you will begin to plan your separation without the overwhelm of wondering where to start, while avoiding costly mistakes that many women make that drag the legal process out, cause long-term chaos, and potential financial drains. You will be prepared with checklists, safety precautions, and everything organized in advance, knowing what to expect through the transition and into your first months post-separation.
phase 4: Discerning if This Relationship Can Meet You at Your New Level
You want to know if he can change, he flips and flops from cruel to ‘best husband ever’ so fast, it gives you emotional whiplash – find out what is behind this pattern, and how to know if his sudden 180 is real change, or just more manipulation so you can star taking steps toward your future with clarity
phase 3: paradigm shifting + WORKING WITH YOUR THOUGHTS
Change the Mental – Emotional Patterns That Keep You Stuck in The Cycle so that you can feel excitement, relief, and joy in your life again as you align your mental patterns with new emotional states that keep you feeling in control of your future
PHASE 2: define your boundaries, dealbreakers and ultimatums
This is where you raise your standards and step into the self-sourced woman who respects herself. Having clarity on these 3 areas helps you feel more empowered and in charge of your daily experiences, and sets the tone for what you will and won’t tolerate in a relationship moving forward
PHASE 1: Identify Your patterns in the emotional addiction cycle
Understand the addictive nature of the relationship cycle, and how to break the obsessive thought loops and emotional patterns so that you can start shifting your focus to experience more joy, peace, and emotional well-being right away
Classic membership
$555/mo
Classic Monthly Telegram Membership
✔️ 6 Module Transcending Addictive Love Patterns Healing Method Processes, and Self Coaching Tools *New module released monthly. $3,000 value
✔️ Telegram Community Support Group to connect and discuss the work with other women, ask for support, and share your growth moments ($333 monthly value)
✔️ Tuesday – Friday mind-shifting broadcasts (mini-power lessons in audio format inside Telegram, $888 monthly value)
✔️ Live Challenges: Access past and future live challenges, bootcamps (Priceless!)
❌ 6 Module Emotional Addiction Healing Method Processes, and Self Coaching Tools *All 6 modules released, $3,000 value
❌ VIP ONLY Q&A Thread: Post your questions Leanne personally answers them Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays in Telegram ($999/month value)
❌ Telegram Themed Community Chats to connect and discuss the work with other women based on the phase of the journey you are on in the course, including Exit Planning, Divorce, and beyond ($555/month value)
Essentials membership value: $3,555/monthly value
*6-month minimum commitment required
Classic 6 Month Pay in Advance $3,333 (Get 6 Months FREE)
- Access to Everything in Monthly
- BONUS: 1 x 30 Minute Private Assessment + Personal Strategy Session in Telegram ($500 value)
Get 6 Months Free When You Pay in Full ($3,333 value)
VIP membership
$999/mo
*Limited Spots Available for VIP. 6 Month Minimum Commitment
VIP Monthly Telegram Membership
✔️ 6 Module Transcending Addictive Love Patterns Healing Method Processes, and Self Coaching Tools *All 6 modules released, $3,000 value
✔️ Telegram Community Support Group to connect and discuss the work with other women, ask for support, and share your growth moments ($333 monthly value)
✔️ Tuesday – Friday mind-shifting broadcasts (mini-power lessons in audio format inside Telegram, $888 monthly value)
✔️ Live Challenges: Access past and future live challenges, bootcamps (Priceless!)
✔️ VIP ONLY Q&A Thread: Post your questions, Leanne personally answers them Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays in Telegram ($999/month value)
✔️ Telegram Themed Community Chats to connect and discuss the work with other women based on the phase of the journey you are on in the course, including Exit Planning, Divorce, and beyond ($555 month value)
VIP membership value: $2,054/month (PLUS $3,000 Emotional Addiction Healing Method = $5,054 monthly value)
*6-month minimum commitment required
VIP 6 Month Pay in Advance $5,995 (Get 6 Months Free)
- Access Everything in Monthly
- BONUS: 2 x 30-minute Private Assessment + Personalized Strategy session in Telegram ($500 value)
Get 6 Months Free When You Pay in Full ($5,995 value)
Results Disclaimer
- We believe in transparency and want to set clear expectations regarding the potential outcomes of this transformation course. While our program provides tools and strategies to support your journey in relationships, parenting, marriage, and general wellness practices, individual results will vary.
- Your success with this program depends on various factors, including your personal effort, commitment, self integrity, background, and unique circumstances. We cannot guarantee specific results such as mental health, emotional balance, or an improved mindset. Past participant experiences do not guarantee future success.
- This program includes self-care practices, movement guidance, legal tips, and health-related insights. However, it is not a substitute for professional therapy, trauma treatment, legal counsel, or medical advice. Any legal or health-related information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
- Our program is designed to provide guidance and support, but your progress depends on your willingness to apply the concepts and take action. We encourage you to take full responsibility for your personal growth and well-being.
- Seek Professional Advice Before making any decisions related to your mental, emotional, legal, financial or physical health, we strongly recommend consulting with a qualified professional, such as a licensed therapist, attorney, or healthcare provider, if you are unsure about applying any advice given to you in this program or in consulting with Leanne Oaten.
- We make no guarantees, representations, or warranties regarding specific results from participating in this program. By enrolling, you acknowledge that your outcomes are influenced by multiple factors beyond our control.
REFUND POLICY: There are no refunds or cancellations. Cancel anytime on the monthly membership with 30 days notice by emailing hello@leanneoaten.com. Your purchase includes unlimited past broadcast replay access, including updates or new additions.
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