THE vip INNER CIRCLE is NOW OPEN
For the woman who has decided and refuses to repeat the pattern.
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Why Nothing Else Has Worked- and Why It Feels Impossible to Leave
You can understand the logic of leaving.
You can explain why the relationship doesn’t work.
But you can’t act because your nervous system is still addicted to the hope, familiarity, and chaotic bond that keeps pulling you back.
That’s emotional addiction, and most support misses it completely.
This is not:
A coping strategy
A journaling problem
A “boundary willpower” issue
A lack of information or knowledge
This is emotional wiring that runs deeper than your thoughts and self-education, and that’s where The Collective meets you.
” I now have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, and I’m learning how to protect my energy. “
“I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I’ve shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I’m showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me–and was one of several “aha” moments.”
“I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money. Leanne gets it. Her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!”
“The Collective has given me hope, inspiration, and a renewed drive to improve in many areas of my life. It has reminded me that I do have choices that I am in control of my own happiness and direction. It has also re-grounded me and reconnected me with my inner self. Overall, it’s been incredibly inspirational, encouraging, and healing.”
“I feel like a completely different person. I am getting stronger everyday mentally, emotionally and physically. I just hired a personal trainer and I’m really excited about this. Since I’ve been doing the empower hour and making exercise part of my daily life it just felt like the next step in my progression.”
“If you are on the fence… just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program and listening to Leanne’s podcasts.
Leanne you are amazing. Thank you!!”
So, given this incredible alone time where I feel most grounded/in my space in my home without interruption, in this deep work and journaling, I wrote the most beautiful journal entry, with action steps – I am so excited, because it looks absolutely doable and does not require anyone but me to reach that point of peace, calm and joy. Absolutely the most empowering feeling and vision! 🔥 Thank you, Leanne! I feel such overwhelming support here!”
Welcome to Your Transformation Space
The Self Sourced Woman Collective is a different kind of mentorship –
one created specifically for professional, accomplished, high-achieving women who:
Know the relationship they are in isn’t right…
Have tried everything and still feel stuck…
Fear leaving and regret staying…
Know they deserve better than self-betrayal every day…
Are done repeating the same patterns in every relationship.
This space is not for the confused.
It’s for the overthinker with clarity who can’t yet feel safe enough in themselves to act.
What You're Really Here For: The Shift That Nothing Else Has Given You:
Inside The Collective, you don’t try to fix him or the relationship anymore… and it’s not just about leaving.
Inside, you become a woman who no longer tolerates self-abandonment or emotional chaos as love.
This is where:
- Emotional addiction dissolves, and your energy elevates – instantly
- Deep self-trust is rebuilt
- Your identity shifts into unshakeable clarity
- Lingering unhealthy attachment loses its pull
- Fear of the future or what others might think no longer dictates your next move
Not someday… now.
Here's What you Get When You Enter the Collective:
VIP-Level Q&A With Leanne
No generic responses here. Get audio mentorship and deep dive videos that address your questions – directly from Leanne every week.
This is where your real and raw questions get answered, and momentum actually sticks
Real Support Through Real Fear
Leaving isn’t just a logistics problem; it’s emotional exposure, vulnerability, and identity loss.
Inside The Collective, we walk that edge together so you never regress back into the old pattern.
Daily Power Broadcasts & Exclusive Content
Receive short, potent tools that:
Break emotional patterns each week
Strengthen new neural pathways toward self-trust
Interrupt self-abandonment before it takes over
Delivered right in Telegram so you can integrate this work into your daily rhythm.
Community That Supports the Transformation
You’ll never do this alone again.
Inside the Collective’s Telegram Community, women just like you:
Share breakthroughs
Get support through moments of fear
Reinforce thier clarity + conviction
Model the identity they are cultivating
Because you cannot change deep emotional patterns in isolation.
6 levels to Transcend emotionally addictive love patterns
Get instant access to my proven methodical process that rewires your patterns from the inside out:
Identify the addiction cycle
Shift the mental patterns that keep you stuck
Redefine boundaries from emotional embodiment and your highest values
Build embodied clarity, not just intellectual insight
Stop spinning in confusion, self-judgment, and hesitation
Study it on your own time and integrate deeply into who you are.
About Your Mentor
Leanne Oaten is a former Registered Counsellor with extensive, specialized training in Counselling Psychology and over 13 years of experience working at the intersection of mental health, holistic healing, and women’s personal transformation.
Since 2019, she has focused her work on supporting women who are caught in the emotional grip of unhealthy marriages and high-conflict relationships, particularly women who are capable, accomplished, and quietly exhausted from carrying too much for too long.
Leanne has worked with countless women through Awakening Women and has facilitated online groups with women from around the world. Her work is grounded, trauma-informed, and deeply attuned to the lived realities of women navigating complex emotional, relational, and life transitions.
She works closely with women as they face some of the most pivotal decisions of their lives: whether to stay or leave, how to disentangle from chaos with clarity, and how to move through separation and divorce with power, discernment, and self-respect.
She also supports women on the other side of these transitions as they rebuild stability while navigating single motherhood, legal and financial stress, and the demands of career or business.
Leanne’s work is not about fixing or rescuing. It is about guiding women back to themselves. Her goal is to help you come home to your deepest truths and live in alignment with your values, nervous system, and soul-level vision, whether you are still in a relationship that isn’t working or learning how to stand firmly in your own life again.
Through the work of becoming a Self-Sourced Woman, clarity emerges. You will see, without forcing, chasing, or abandoning yourself, whether a man can truly rise with you, or whether choosing yourself is the most powerful next step.
Inside The Inner Circle You Get:
✔️ Instant and Lifetime Access to the Self Mastery Curriculum
Deep, identity-level work designed to:
Break emotional addiction patterns that are sabotaging your relationships with men, money, health, and success at the root
Rewire attachment patterns so that you never repeat them again in future relationships
Build a nervous system and life that no longer bonds to chaos, so that you are attracted to men who match your inner peace and calm
Establish discernment, boundaries, and relational power so that you know who to keep in your inner circle, and who you might need to distance from as you evolve your own life
✔️ Weekly Live Support (Telegram)
Consistent, grounded support as you:
Leave, go no-contact, and stabilize after leaving – how to coparent and manage relationships you shared as a couple as you reinvent your life
Move through fear, grief, relief, and the inevitable emotional lows that come with this transition in a way that you integrate instead of getting caught in the triggers and chaos
Anchor new standards, needs, and non-negotiables for intimacy and safety in dating and future relationships
Learn to trust yourself without going back into old patterns (or the relationship)
This is about emotional and energetic containment, not rescuing or staying stuck in processing the past.
✔️ Daily Identity Transmissions
Advanced daily broadcasts focused on:
Post-relationship recalibration -emotional, energetic, physical, and logistical (so that you don’t collapse under the pressure of divorce and post-divorce challenges)
Creating your new identity stabilization as a single woman (and mother)
Building self-trust under the real daily pressures of transition (and dealing with a manipulative and difficult ex in a way that keeps you in charge of your own self-mastery)
Embodying the woman who does not go back into self betrayal and emotionally addictive patterns
✔️ Private Mastery Community
A high-level container of women who:Have recently left an emotionally chaotic relationship and want to reinvent their lives on their own terms
Are committed to not repeating the pattern now, and in the future
This is not a venting space; it is a standard-holding environment.
✔️Ongoing Themed Conversations & Integration Threads
Focused discussions that deepen embodiment and prevent regression without overexposure or emotional flooding.
The Self Mastery Inner Circle
$1,111/mo
The Self Mastery Inner Circle Membership is a 6-month minimum commitment to your transformation, because breaking a lifetime of patterns requires continuity and ongoing accountability. You may stay on monthly after that time, and lock in the current rate as long as you are a member.
Includes:
All access to the signature program vault ($5,000 + Value including updates and new classes)
Emotional Interruption Library & audio activations ($3,000 value)
Identity-level transformation work (Priceless)
Curated Identity Coaching Archives ($10,000 value)
Weekly Q&A with Leanne – without live calls to attend ($12,000 value)
Themed VIP threads ($3,000 value)
Curated Mastery Community of High Level Women ($3,000 value)
*Based on a 6 month membership
$36,000 Value
Results Disclaimer
- We believe in transparency and want to set clear expectations regarding the potential outcomes of this transformation course. While our program provides tools and strategies to support your journey in relationships, parenting, marriage, and general wellness practices, individual results will vary.
- Your success with this program depends on various factors, including your personal effort, commitment, self integrity, background, and unique circumstances. We cannot guarantee specific results such as mental health, emotional balance, or an improved mindset. Past participant experiences do not guarantee future success.
- This program includes self-care practices, movement guidance, legal tips, and health-related insights. However, it is not a substitute for professional therapy, trauma treatment, legal counsel, or medical advice. Any legal or health-related information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
- Our program is designed to provide guidance and support, but your progress depends on your willingness to apply the concepts and take action. We encourage you to take full responsibility for your personal growth and well-being.
- Seek Professional Advice Before making any decisions related to your mental, emotional, legal, financial or physical health, we strongly recommend consulting with a qualified professional, such as a licensed therapist, attorney, or healthcare provider, if you are unsure about applying any advice given to you in this program or in consulting with Leanne Oaten.
- We make no guarantees, representations, or warranties regarding specific results from participating in this program. By enrolling, you acknowledge that your outcomes are influenced by multiple factors beyond our control.
REFUND POLICY: There are no refunds or cancellations. Cancel anytime on the monthly membership with 30 days notice by emailing hello@leanneoaten.com. Your purchase includes unlimited past broadcast replay access, including updates or new additions.
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