Break the Cycle
Gain a deeper understanding of the root causes of your relationship conflict. Learn how covert abuse tactics, manipulation, and control keep you stuck in a confusing and toxic cycle, and discover how to break free.
Recognize Hidden Abuse
Explore the hidden dynamics of covert abuse, and learn why it’s so hard to spot and even harder to explain. Once you understand these tactics, you’ll feel more empowered and less confused by your partner’s behavior.
Regain Control of Your Emotions
Learn how to identify and manage your emotional triggers. Stop feeling reactive and controlled by your partner’s moods or manipulations, and start responding from a place of strength and emotional clarity.
Create an Exit Plan
Even if you’re unsure about leaving, begin developing your exit strategy. This proactive process will give you clarity and peace of mind, helping you save time, money, and emotional energy, while preparing you for whatever decision you make.
“Before joining the End The Cycle program I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me to see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, know that yes I do play a part in the dance and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn’t work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward.” L.G
For starters, I have an 11+ year background in Counselling Psychology, and Mindfulness Based Coaching which I obtained at the time of my counsellor training. I combine coaching methodologies with holistic principles, spirituality and psychology, to bring you a powerful combination of modalities that women have told me have been more effective in moving the needle forward than decades of therapy alone.
I have also lived my own experiences with relationship violence and narcissistic abuse, so I have the advantage of understanding exactly what you’re going through. I combine this learned wisdom with my professional training, and 11+ years experience working with clients.
My approach comes from the foundational aspects of getting clarity on what you’re experiencing, and empowering you with the tool and mindsets to walk away from destructive relationships that are no longer serving you.
I do not come at this with a ‘you are the victim he is the abuser’ approach. You will be pushed to see your own role in the dynamics, and be invited to flip the power dynamic around so that you are the one in the drivers seat.
I created this program so women could study and implement the modules around their busy lives, without having to leave their homes, and I guarantee, there is no other program like this out there.
My promise: If the only thing you do right now is dive in and commit to doing the work in this program, and follow it step by step, you will not recognize yourself by the end. Whether you stay or leave your marriage, you will not be the same woman at the end. This program radically and permanently changes women’s lives in ways years of therapy and self-help alone cannot accomplish.
This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world!
While not a substitute for clinical therapy, ETC will provide you with in-depth transformation, community support, responsive answers to your questions as they arise, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in therapy. I have had women take their new insights from the program into therapy sessions to work it out with their therapist, and many of them ask who I am, and start listening to my podcast. Therapy along with ETC can be a powerful combination, but committing to the process I outline is crucial to getting results.
There are no refunds or cancellations on digital products purchased.
Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file.
The ETC Method is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. This method will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.
Many women leave a relationship like this and return, statistics say 7 times, before leaving for good. It is also common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in this program will help you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good.
While I will never encourage anyone to purchase anything that will be detrimental to their financial situation, I have seen many women who have the money to invest, but the fear of actually taking this step is the real reason they hesitate. The excuse “I’m saving up to leave” with no solid plan for how you will do so could carry on for many years to come while things continue to worsen in your relationship. Fear around not having enough money and feeling unsafe around money is a block that can hinder our growth. Not investing in the right support could cost you down the road whether in dragging the process on, causing more harm to yourself and any children as well as the legal ramifications of acting hastily without a solid exit plan in place, which you will be guided though inside the program.
This program is designed to get you out of overwhelm by taking very specific and focused ACTIONS. Right – action is the cure to overwhelm.
I am no longer practicing as a counsellor, and the ETC program is not counselling, it is a mentoring program. Therefore, this service is not covered by insurance.
You get community access with your program. You can post any questions in the group.