A Proven, Solution-Focused Method for Powerful, High Achieving Women

Wake Up and Emotionally Detach From The Frustrating Cycles of Gaslighting, Silent Treatment and Circular Arguments and Get Clarity and Conviction About Whether to Stay or Leave

“I have learned a lot so far. I’m in a phase where I really just want to power through this course and get to the next steps… I’m so over feeling like crap and want to start NOW on feeling better and getting out of this relationship. It’s feeling hard for me to continue pretending to be “normal” with him, when he can tell what’s up and he even called me out last night asking: “Did someone tell you to act like this?” so I have definitely improved my boundaries since taking this course, but he isn’t falling for it and I know I have to act really quick with my next steps.” 

“Even after years of therapy. It really gets to the root.” 

You’re a smart woman. Like many of the women I’ve worked with, you have a high-level career and make your own money. On the surface, everything seems great—but inside, you feel like you’re living a double life.

When you’re at home, the emptiness in your relationship is painful. You know you want more, but you’re not sure where to go from here.

If you could have it your way, you’d want to make it work with your husband. You long for him to realize the hurt he has caused and continues to cause you, but nothing you say seems to get through to him.

You’ve tried it all: self-care, therapy, meditation, prayer, yoga, workouts—everything. Yet, your relationship remains the weight that holds you down from reaching the higher levels you know you desire.

This program is not about giving you tips and tricks to change him or fix your relationship. It's about your inner work—the journey to becoming healthier within yourself. Imagine reaching a place where you can make new decisions rooted in a new level of growth and awakening. Can you picture the empowerment that comes from doing this inner work? It’s not just about managing the relationship; it’s about transforming your own life.

Your Personal Transformation Path:

🔥 Stop Questioning What You Are Experiencing and Take Back Your Power

Decode the Manipulation – Understand the cyclic patterns of narcissistic abuse and stop falling into their mental traps. Defy daily manipulation and regain control for good.

Spot Hidden Abuse Tactics – Identify covert strategies narcissists use to wear you down and put an end to exhausting circular arguments before they drain your energy.

Clear the Confusion – Detangle the mental chaos, trust your instincts, and stay grounded instead of feeling like you’re losing your mind.

Become Gaslight-Proof – Strengthen your confidence, trust your reality, and shut down his mind games—he won’t know what hit him!

Detach & Shift Your Focus – Discover the most transformational hour you can spend on yourself daily to detach from his moods and tantrums—become unbothered and empowered.

Journal Your Awakening – Use my proven 30-day method to document the cycle, gain radical clarity, and heal mentally like never before.

Master Your Emotions – Stop reacting on impulse and falling for the “look who’s crazy now” trap. Take control and break free—especially for the sake of your children.

👉 It’s time to reclaim your mind, your emotions, and your life. Let’s do this together!

🔥 Master Your Boundaries, and Reclaim Your Power

Why Boundaries Matter – Prioritize your self-care, happiness, and health by learning to enforce boundaries—even with a crazymaking partner.

Identify & Strengthen Your Boundaries – Pinpoint the areas  where change is needed and assess where to focus first.

Recognize When a Boundary Is Crossed – Most women miss the warning signs—learn to spot them instantly and take action.

Create Fear-Proof Boundary Scripts – Set boundaries with confidence, even when you’re full of anxiety at the thought of standing up for yourself —this is a game changer!

Protect Your Energy – Stop letting him drain you. Discover how to seal energy leaks and keep your power for yourself.

Align Boundaries with Your Core Values – Stay true to yourself by creating boundaries that reflect what truly matters to you.

Practice Boundary Embodiment – Stand firm in your truth, even when your throat tightens and your knees shake.

Stop Suppressing Your Pain – Process what’s happening now to prevent emotional stress from turning into serious health issues.

Defend Your Space from Negativity – Shield yourself from his moods and protect your peace.

Uncover Your High-Value Needs – Identify what you truly need in a relationship and start fulfilling yourself when he won’t.

👉 Boundaries are your key to freedom. It’s time to take back your life!

🔥Paradigm Shifting | Change Your Unhealthy Patterns and Identify What You Can No Longer Tolerate in Your Relationship

Break Free from Tolerating Toxicity – Identify what you can no longer accept and step into your most empowered self.

Break the Codependent Cycle – Recognize your role in the ‘dance’ of abuse and change your steps for good.

Prioritize Your Well-Being – Meet your own needs and stop relying on him for emotional fulfillment.

Stop Self-Abandonment – Spot the patterns of giving yourself away and reclaim your power.

Tap Into Your Inner Strength – Listen to your body’s signals, trust your intuition, and create inner calm—he won’t know what hit him.

Mindset Shifts for Transformation – Use powerful journal exercises to awaken to your truth and rewrite your story.

Master Your Attachment Triggers – Understand your attachment style and learn to self-soothe instead of spiraling.

Stop Emotional Freefall – Shift out of negativity with my proven self-coaching method—without suppressing your feelings.

Change the Narrative – Dismantle limiting beliefs keeping you stuck in toxic cycles and redefine what love should feel like.

Set Realistic Relationship Expectations – Get clarity on where your needs are (and aren’t) being met—and what to do about it.

👉 No more tolerating, no more spiraling. It’s time to reclaim YOU!

🔥 Now What? How To Get to Conviction About Whether to Stay Or Leave Your Relationship and Plan Your Next Empowered Steps

Now that you have determined whether or not you are experiencing narcissistic abuse, have defined the boundaries and behaviours you can no longer tolerate, and identified your highest value needs and ultimatums, this is where you dig in to do the inner work to come to conviction – whether to stay and live with the dynamic as it is, or begin the process of leaving the relationship. 

Get Clarity on Your Next Moves – If you know you’re experiencing narcissistic abuse but feel unsure of where to go from here, here’s where to start.

Protect Your Finances – Take control of your financial future and weigh the financial realities of staying vs. leaving.

Plan Your Exit (If You Choose to Leave) – Understand your options for housing, co-parenting, and securing the best future for you and your children. You must make your plan in secret, and do THESE things before you tell him you are ending the relationship

Survive the ‘In-Between’ Phase – Avoid slipping back into old patterns while deciding whether to stay or go or while planning your exit behind the scenes.

Set Boundaries & Ultimatums (If You Stay) – How to communicate your needs and the risks of bringing him into your process.

Face Your Deepest Fears – Navigate fears of leaving (being alone, co-parenting) and the long-term consequences of staying.

The Final ‘Test’ – This is the way to confirm whether or not he will ever change.

The Reality Check – Real talk considerations about staying, even if he has good qualities.

Facing the Fear, Self Doubt and Inevitable Challenges of Leaving – Prepare for the emotional, legal, and financial realities—especially with kids involved.

👉 It’s time to take your power back. No more second-guessing.

How End The Cycle is Different Than Anything You've Tried So Far

With over 11 years of experience in Counselling Psychology and as a Certified Mindfulness-Based Coach, I’ve developed a method that uniquely blends psychology, spirituality, and practical coaching techniques—something you won’t find anywhere else. This isn’t just theory; it’s a personal, hands-on approach that delivers real results.

For the past 6 years, I’ve been passionate about helping women break free from the devastating cycle of narcissistic abuse. Through my Awakening Women Podcast, courses, private coaching, and the End the Cycle program, I’ve supported thousands of women who felt stuck, overwhelmed, and drained by unhealthy relationships—many of whom had been in therapy for years without seeing the progress they longed for.

I’m not here to offer you more of the same.

My approach is specifically designed for high-achieving career women who have navigated challenging relationships and tried everything to improve communication and connection with their spouses, yet still feel trapped in endless arguments that go nowhere.

In my work with countless women experiencing cycles of narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, and emotional turmoil, I’ve created a unique blend of Counselling Psychology, holistic principles, and spiritual guidance that rapidly shifts women from self-doubt to clarity and empowerment. In fact, many women tell me that my program moves the needle forward in ways years of traditional therapy never could.

Here’s what sets my End The Cycle method apart:

While many focus on labeling you as a victim, my approach is about helping you understand why you’ve remained stuck, without any shame. I don’t believe in the “you’re the victim, they’re the abuser” narrative. Instead, I empower you to reclaim your personal power by recognizing your role in the dynamic—which is the key to lasting change.

I’ve designed a method that has transformed the lives of women in toxic, combative, and narcissistic relationships for over a decade.

It’s not about more therapy or talking. It’s about creating rapid transformation—shifting your mindset, boundaries, and behaviors so that you regain control. Within just 30 days, you can experience a full circle shift—gaining the tools, mindset, and clarity to walk away from relationships that no longer serve you.

I’m not just an outsider looking in. I’ve personally faced the confusion, pain, and complexity of covert abuse. I understand in a way few others can.

Combining my lived wisdom with over a decade of professional expertise, I offer you a roadmap that is both compassionate and powerful.

In 2020, amidst the lockdown, I created this program to allow women to heal on their own terms—without the need for more in-person therapy or intimidating community support groups. You can implement the modules privately, at your own pace, around your life. No judgment. No pressure. Just the tools you need to transform your life from the comfort of your home.

And I guarantee: there is no other program like this one.

So, what do you have to lose?

If you’re ready to end the cycle, break free from toxic patterns, and reclaim your power, this is where it starts.

Don't Take My Word for it...

"Leanne dives deep in to narcissism and the personality traits that go along with it. She taught me how to let go of the "victim mentality"; provided me with awareness of being accountable to myself."
"ETC offered specific guidance that helped me understand not only the spectrum of narcissistic behavior but also my own role in the relationship dynamic."
"I'm so over feeling like crap and want to start NOW on feeling better and getting out of this relationship. It's feeling hard for me to continue pretending to be "normal" with him, when he can tell what's up and he even called me out last night asking: "Someone tell you to act like this?" so I have definitely improved my boundaries since taking this course. I know I have to act really quick with my next steps."
"Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and didn't even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne], I have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I'm learning how to protect my energy. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I've changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C
"The ETC program has kept me awake to the things I am experiencing. Leanne describes everything as if she’s taking your experiences out of your mind and translating them into words and tools to help you discover what is happening and more importantly what to do about it all!I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money.I was shocked when I discovered how interactive Leanne was and that her program is for real.. She.gets.it. She’s been through so much, her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!"

This program offers you a step-by-step roadmap to create rapid shifts and build momentum toward a future that feels right—fast. No more wasted years in therapy or ineffective strategies. Countless women have transformed their lives within challenging relationships in a fraction of the time, even when everything else seemed to fail.

I know you’re busy juggling all the things. You want a clear, time-saving solution-focused answer that delivers genuine results—and provides the clarity necessary to make the ultimate decision about your relationship. This is it.

BONUS: The Coaching Call Vault

 Your Personal Transformation Library ($10,000 Value)

Imagine having direct access to the most intimate, powerful coaching conversations that have helped countless women navigate their most challenging relationship struggles.

This isn’t just a collection of recordings – it’s your lifeline to wisdom, insights, and breakthrough moments from women who have walked exactly the path you’re on.

✅ 24/7 MP3 Recording Access – Listen anytime, anywhere – while driving, doing chores, or seeking latenight clarity

✅ Real-World Coaching Insights – Hear live coaching sessions addressing your deepest relationship challenges 

✅ Diverse Perspectives – Learn from multiple women’s experiences and transformational journeys

✅ Portable Wisdom – Download and listen on any device, making support available at your fingertips

✅ Validation – Feel connected and understood, even in your most challenging moments by hearing women put into words what you have not been able to articulate 

Total program Value: $12,000

Choose Your Payment Plan

End The Cycle - Pay in Full

$ 888 USD
  • 8 Weeks inside Leanne's Breakthrough Step by Step 'End The Cycle in 30 Days' Bootcamp ($2,000 value)
  • BONUS: 30+ Hours of Coaching Call Archives ($10,000 value)
  • Empowered Exit Planning Printable PDF Checklist + Instructional Audio: What to Do Before You Decide to Formally End The Relationship ($197 value)

3 Installment Plan

$ 3 x $362 USD
  • 8 Weeks inside Leanne's Breakthrough Step by Step 'End The Cycle in 30 Days' Bootcamp ($2,000 value)
  • BONUS: 30+ Hours of Coaching Call Archives ($10,000 value)
  • Empowered Exit Planning Printable PDF Checklist + Instructional Audio: What to Do Before You Decide to Formally End The Relationship ($197 value)

Absolutely! This program is designed to be a powerful complement to your therapeutic journey. While therapy provides crucial emotional support and healing, our program offers specific, actionable strategies for navigating narcissistic relationships. Think of this as your tactical guide to understanding manipulation, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your power. Many of our students find that the insights from this program enhance their therapy, giving them concrete tools to apply the emotional work they’re doing. You’re not replacing therapy – you’re supercharging your healing process.

There are no refunds or cancellations on personal coaching or digital course purchases.

The ETC Method is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. This method will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.

This program is for you exactly where you are right now. Not everyone is immediately ready to leave, and that’s completely okay. Our modules are designed to support you through every stage of your journey. Module 01 helps you decode manipulation, Module 02 focuses on strengthening boundaries, and Module 03 breaks the cycle of codependency – all without forcing you to make an immediate exit. You’ll gain the confidence, clarity, and tools to make the right decision for yourself, whether that means staying and setting stronger boundaries or ultimately choosing to leave. This isn’t about making a quick decision; it’s about empowering you to create a healthier life on your terms.

This program is designed to be potent, and get you out of overwhelm by taking very specific and focused ACTIONS.  A clear plan and right – action is the cure to overwhelm. You will get out of this what you put into it, but a good place to start is committing to your transformation journey by dedicating 1 hour daily to go through the course materials,  do your daily self care practices, journaling and implementing the exercises. This is about changing who you are BEing, and this requires forming new self-supportive habits you can take with you long term

Implementing the process laid out in this program will give you clarity on whether you are experiencing narcissistic abuse. Module 1 covers in depth the hidden manipulation, cycles and patterns present in narcissistic abuse. I have never had a woman join ETC who discovered at the end she was not experiencing abuse, but rather if they were unsure when they came it, they gained the relief and conviction by getting the confirmation. In fact, many come in knowing the relationship is toxic, but after going through module 1 they are often shocked at how bad it really is. This program is designed to give you that clarity and a plan forward whichever way you decide to go. 

We hear this concern often, and it’s important. Module 04 specifically addresses “The Final ‘Test'” – helping you assess whether your partner is truly capable of meaningful change. Many women hope for transformation, but real change requires more than just promises. This program will equip you with the clarity to distinguish between genuine effort and manipulation. You’ll learn to recognize authentic change versus temporary performance, empowering you to make decisions from a place of strength, not fear. Remember, your wellbeing comes first, and this program will help you trust your intuition and set realistic expectations

Results Disclaimer for End The Cycle ©

  1. We believe in transparency and want to set clear expectations regarding the potential outcomes of this transformation course. While our program provides tools and strategies to support your journey in relationships, parenting, marriage, and general wellness practices, individual results will vary. 
  2. Your success with this program depends on various factors, including your personal effort, commitment, self integrity, background, and unique circumstances. We cannot guarantee specific results such as mental health, emotional balance, or an improved mindset. Past participant experiences do not guarantee future success. 
  3. This program includes self-care practices, movement guidance, legal tips, and health-related insights. However, it is not a substitute for professional therapy, trauma treatment, legal counsel, or medical advice. Any legal or health-related information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. 
  4. Our program is designed to provide guidance and support, but your progress depends on your willingness to apply the concepts and take action. We encourage you to take full responsibility for your personal growth and well-being. 
  5. Seek Professional Advice Before making any decisions related to your mental, emotional, legal, or physical health, we strongly recommend consulting with a qualified professional, such as a licensed therapist, attorney, or healthcare provider if you are unsure about applying any advice given to you in this program or in consulting with Leanne Oaten. 
  6. We make no guarantees, representations, or warranties regarding specific results from participating in this program. By enrolling, you acknowledge that your outcomes are influenced by multiple factors beyond our control. 

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