“Even after years of therapy, this really gets to the root.” – Sharon
Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and didn’t even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne], I have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I’m learning how to protect my energy. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I’ve changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C
Leanne describes everything as if she’s taking your experiences out of your mind and translating them into words and tools to help you discover what is happening and more importantly what to do about it all!I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money.I was shocked when I discovered how interactive Leanne was and that her program is for real.. She.gets.it. She’s been through so much, her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!” P.W
“I couldn’t have said this 30 days ago… but I’m excited about my future.”
“I finally feel sane again, knowing my emotions and expectations are normal.”
“This work gave me the clarity, strength, and language I didn’t even know I was missing.”
“I used to second-guess everything. Now I have a non-negotiables list and I’m finally holding my boundaries.”
“I’m a therapist and even I couldn’t see the control and toxicity in my own marriage until this program.”
“This program gave me permission to prioritize me for the first time in decades.”
“It’s the first thing that’s made sense after trying everything else.”
“Leanne nailed it. I finally stopped asking ‘what’s wrong with me?’ and started asking ‘what’s right for me?’”
“This wasn’t anything. like therapy. It was direct, clear, and exactly what I needed when I was drowning.”
“Leanne’s the only one who gets the nuances of what causes unhealthy conflict cycles for high-functioning women.”
“Leanne made me feel like she was talking directly to my life.”
“I’ve read the books, I’ve done the therapy. This is what made the difference.”
“I’m a smart woman. I’ve built a life, and a career. But I couldn’t get free until this program handed me the truth and the tools”
*ETCE was the original program name that is now part of the RCM.
Break Free from manipulation and control tactics emotionally dismissive men use: Pinpoint what is really going on at the root of your relationship highs and lows so that you can get clear on what’s your side of the street, and what is his
Clarity and set clear boundaries and discover if he can rise to your level: learn how to clear anger and resentment, and become an UNtriggered woman by developing your emotional and inner self mastery so that you can clearly discern if this is a man who will rise and grow with you (or if he is the common denominator that is holding you back from your greatness)
Shift your nervous system from over-functioning mode to calm in minutes using emotional and energetic tools and relaxation guided practices when you need it most so that you can feel in control of your state and how you’re showing up in your relationship and with your kids, no matter what is going on around you (or what he’s doing)
Implement a step-by-step separation or rebuild plan: Follow my step-by-step exit mapping to clarity the process so that you can either make your plan to grow together within the relationship, or begin planning your exit strategy if he can’t meet you where you’re at
~Leanne Marie
You get access to all my teachings, principles, methods, processes, and guidance – everything I have ever created on the topics of breaking unhealthy love patterns, relationship conflict, and self-betrayal – all inside your member portal to study and implement in your own time, at your own pace.
and Finally Get Clarity On Whether Your Relationship Can (or Should) Be Saved
This program is taught by a former counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology with over 13 years of experience guiding women into their most empowered selves
RCM is a step by step program and method for women experiencing emotional abuse with a partner who exhibits narcissistic behaviors and traits.
If you’ve already spent years researching narcissism at length, or wonder if he’s just an avoidant or emotionally immature man, and perhaps find your partner doesn’t fit all of the mainstream criteria and behaviors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) this can leave you questioning.
And if your partner shows both positive and negative behaviors, and doesn’t fit the DSM criteria for NPD, you’re unsure if you’re just making this up or overthinking things.
You swing back and forth between being ready to leave and wondering if maybe there is hope for change to occur when he suddenly changes his behavior.
Or, maybe you’re separated and hoping for a reunion once he’s worked on himself
If you’re wondering if change is possible, or know that it isn’t and want a pathway out of the relationship, read on..
Going to friends, family, and uninformed therapists who minimize what you’re going through and offer no pathway to get empowered and actually change your life only leads to further traumatization and feelings of emotional stuckness.
You need a proven strategy and plan to follow to actually move toward real change – from the inside out
A holistic path that integrates your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical dimensions, that merges psychology, counselling, coaching, and solution focused mentorship.
PHASE 1: The Relationship Reset
Get rid of any doubts lingering about what you’re experiencing and stop blaming yourself for the relationship issues. This is where all the weight you’ve been carrying disappears, and clarity comes from understanding what is really going on (and if it is more than just ‘normal relationship fights’)
PHASE 2:
Learn how to set boundaries in your relationship (even when you’ve tried before and it hasn’t worked) from a place of self love and empowerment
Phase 3:
Learn the most important areas to shift within yourself to feel more powerful and in charge of your emotions and life, including breaking codependent patterns
phase 4:
In this module:
phase 5:
This phase is dedicated to planning your empowered exit, and it walks you step by step so you don’t skip important aspects many women overlook, and avoid blowing up your life without a plan
In this module:
Once you register, you’ll have instant access to the entire program education area. You can dive it right away and get started! You have 90 days to complete the program with 24/7 access.
You will participate in the initial 30 Day Relationship Reset, and once you do this you will have the opportunity to deepen your growth, healing, and transformation over the additional sections in the program.
All content is pre-recorded, which means you can take in the modules at your pace.
Once you register, you’ll receive an email from me with your next steps, instructions for how to get started, and strategies for how to set yourself up for success.
You get INSTANT access to start on your transformation journey.
If you’re like the ambitious, high-achieving women I work with, you’re carrying it all: your career/business, your family, your goals, and yet there’s a part of your life holding you back.
You feel torn between choosing yourself and honoring your children, wondering if stepping away from your relationship will make you “selfish,” or if staying is somehow protecting your family.
And while you juggle it all, your body is sending you urgent signals you can’t ignore.
Your adrenals are exhausted. Sleep is elusive. Your hormones are out of balance, or new health issues keep cropping up. Maybe it’s thyroid, adrenal fatigue, period disruptions, or unexplained aches and pains, all stress-induced signs that your body is under pressure it was never meant to endure.
Decisions that once came easily now feel impossible.
It’s not your fault. You’ve been trying to figure it out on your own, or relying on advice that doesn’t account for your unique circumstances. The truth is, without strategic, expert guidance, the weight of this imbalance keeps growing.
Left unchecked, the tension seeps into every part of your life:
Your health deteriorates.
Your mental resilience erodes.
The children in your life feel the strain of the environment.
Your career, your relationships, and your sense of self start to feel like they’re on hold.
If you’ve been spinning in circles, questioning whether to stay or leave, if you feel the pressure of responsibility weighing on you, know this: there’s a path forward.
The solution is you coming back to yourself.
It’s about:
Putting your needs, clarity, and wellbeing back at the center of your life.
Setting rock-solid boundaries and protecting your energy.
Taking steps to safeguard yourself and your children.
Reclaiming the freedom to live life on your terms with excitement, confidence, and peace, rather than fear and exhaustion.
No more walking on eggshells.
You deserve to wake up energized, empowered, and fully present — for yourself, your children, and the life you’ve built.
It’s time to stop surviving and start thriving.
You have been focused on him, now it’s time to focus on YOU.
Need more convincing RCM is for you?
Women Answer:
I asked women who took the program
what makes this different than everything you've tried
We address the root of why you stay stuck in relationships that cause you to self-abandon through education, emotional coaching tools, embodiment, and holistic lifestyle methods that change your patterns at the root so you stop repeating them - for good. Get access to my Transcending Love Addiction method that walks you through exactly how to do this work (without spending years in therapy)
Most other methods, like therapy, reading books, listening to podcasts, and watching YouTube videos deal with 'relationship issues', which are just a surface-level symptom. Therapy helps in the moment, but then leaves you hanging between sessions. The truth is these methods often completely miss treating the emotionally addictive cycle, and you are left to figure it out on your own during overwhelming moments. Here, there are multi-levels of support and guidance available every single day when you need it most
Unlike therapy and self help books, podcasts and Youtube videos, Leanne has put her 13 years of experience as a counsellor and coach into a system that walks you through step by step - from ready to make a decision, to finally having a plan to move you forward
We tackle the biggest fears most women face head on around leaving with my Exposure Coaching Method™ to help you move the emotions under them so that they no longer feel so daunting and overwhelming, or have power over you any longer
What is missing from all other things you've tried is learning how to feel and process emotions that are underneath the addictive behaviours you are caught in within this relationship. Many ambitious women are cut off from this part of themselves and we AWAKEN it from within
This is often called breaking the 'trauma bond, ' but the trauma bond is just a symptom of what needs to be addressed before you can break a bond with a person. This phase comes with a range of mind-body symptoms, and we address this head-on so you know what to expect (and why you cling harder when you come close to leaving)
I’m Leanne Oaten, a former Registered Counsellor with training and a background in Counseling Psychology.
I have over 13 years of experience working in the mental health, holistic health, and women’s personal transformation fields, and specialized in helping women break free from the emotional grip of unhealthy marriages since 2019.
I have worked with countless clients inside Awakening Women and have been facilitating online groups all over the world.
I’ve worked closely with women as they are making difficult decisions and transitions out of chaotic relationships, as well as navigating the other side of separation and divorce with power and courage.
My goal is to guide you in coming home to your deepest truths, and living a life aligned with your values and soul level vision, whether you’re still in a relationship that isn’t working, or you’ve left and are managing recent single motherhood, the legal stress while maintaining a career or business, this space holds you all the way through the process.
Through this work of BEing the Self-Sourced Woman, you will see clearly if a man can rise with you, or if you need to walk away and choose yourself.
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