The Path To Breaking Old Love Cycles And Rebuilding a Life of Authenticity, Power & Truth From The Inside Out

“Even after years of therapy, this really gets to the root.” – Sharon

Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and didn’t even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne], I have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I’m learning how to protect my energy. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I’ve changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C

 

 Leanne describes everything as if she’s taking your experiences out of your mind and translating them into words and tools to help you discover what is happening and more importantly what to do about it all!I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money.I was shocked when I discovered how interactive Leanne was and that her program is for real.. She.gets.it. She’s been through so much, her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!” P.W

Since joining this program… 

 

  • “I couldn’t have said this 30 days ago… but I’m excited about my future.”

  • “I finally feel sane again, knowing my emotions and expectations are normal.”

  • “This work gave me the clarity, strength, and language I didn’t even know I was missing.”

  • “I used to second-guess everything. Now I have a non-negotiables list and I’m finally holding my boundaries.”

  • “I’m a therapist and even I couldn’t see the control and toxicity in my own marriage until this program.”

  • “This program gave me permission to prioritize me for the first time in decades.”

  • “It’s the first thing that’s made sense after trying everything else.”

  • “Leanne nailed it. I finally stopped asking ‘what’s wrong with me?’ and started asking ‘what’s right for me?’”

Why this program works for smart, ambitious women – and will work for you too!

 

  • “This wasn’t anything. like therapy. It was direct, clear, and exactly what I needed when I was drowning.”

  • “Leanne’s the only one who gets the nuances of what causes unhealthy conflict cycles for high-functioning women.”

  • “Leanne made me feel like she was talking directly to my life.”

  • “I’ve read the books, I’ve done the therapy. This is what made the difference.”

  • “I’m a smart woman. I’ve built a life, and a career. But I couldn’t get free until this program handed me the truth and the tools”

Key Shifts You'll Have Inside:

  • Break Free from manipulation and control tactics emotionally dismissive men use: Pinpoint what is really going on at the root of your relationship highs and lows so that you can get clear on what’s your side of the street, and what is his

  • Clarity and set clear boundaries and discover if he can rise to your level: learn how to clear anger and resentment, and become an UNtriggered woman by developing your emotional and inner self mastery so that you can clearly discern if this is a man who will rise and grow with you (or if he is the common denominator that is holding you back from your greatness)

  • Shift your nervous system from over-functioning mode to calm in minutes using emotional and energetic tools and relaxation guided practices when you need it most so that you can feel in control of your state and how you’re showing up in your relationship and with your kids, no matter what is going on around you (or what he’s doing)

  • Implement a step-by-step separation or rebuild plan:  Follow my step-by-step exit mapping to clarity the process so that you can either make your plan to grow together within the relationship, or begin planning your exit strategy if he can’t meet you where you’re at

  • Know what to expect on the other side of leaving emotionally, physically, legally, logistically, with parenting, and how to powerfully move through the process while keeping your self integrity and confidence intact the entire way. This includes dating and keeping yourself safe from entering another misaligned relationship from vulnerability 

"YOU CAN CHANGE THE DYNAMIC QUICKLY THROUGH EMOTIONAL & ENERGETIC SHIFTS- WITHOUT NEEDING HIM TO DO ANYTHING DIFFERENT (AT FIRST)"

~Leanne Marie

WHEN YOU JOIN THE COURSE, GET OVER $10,000 VALUE IN MENTORSHIP

Coaching Playlist for On-The-Go Listening

30+ Hours Coaching Replay Vault. Private coaching with me is $1k per session. Tap into real coaching sessions on anxiety, boundaries, navigating difficult relationship transitions, handling self-doubt, and whether a relationship can be saved, and so much more

Compared to weekly couples therapy at $175+ per hour, the Reclamation Method saves you thousands (and potentially years) while giving you strategic planning, a simple process to follow, and relationship-shifting tools to get clarity about your future

Get 1 year of access to everything you need to discover if your relationship is past the point of healing, and make your next moves from clarity and power for one payment of $2,222

I AM READY TO RECLAIM MY POWER

You might be thinking… “$2,222 feels like a lot.”

 

And I get it. Investing in yourself at this level might feel uncomfortable, maybe even scary. But let’s put it in perspective:

  • How much have you already spent on therapy sessions, books, courses, or “trying harder” while still finding yourself in the same situation feeling the exact same way?

  • How many years have you lost to overthinking, second-guessing, and staying stuck in a relationship that drains your energy and confidence?

  • How much income has been lost from not being able to focus at work, or show up in your business with a clear head?

  • What’s the real cost of another year of exhaustion, confusion, and emotional self-abandonment?

Here’s the truth: $2,222 is a fraction of what staying stuck will cost you.

This program doesn’t just give you information, it gives you a clear step-by-step process to break the patterns you’ve been living once and for all, with tools, strategies, and guidance you’ll use for the rest of your life. 

The women who join me in my coaching and support spaces don’t see this as an expense. They see it as the best investment they’ll ever make, because it saves them time, energy, health, and years of repeating painful patterns.

The real question isn’t, “Can I afford this?”
The real question is, “What’s the cost if I don’t do this?”

This isn't just a program about how to fix your relationship; it's a clear transformation process that meets you exactly where you're at, that you will feel within days of implementing the inner self mastery processes waiting for you inside

Join the movement

You get access to all my teachings, principles, methods, processes, and guidance – everything I have ever created on the topics of breaking unhealthy love patterns, relationship conflict, and self-betrayal –  all inside your member portal to study and implement in your own time, at your own pace. 

Access The Proven Pathway That Changes Everything for $2,222

DIY Course-12 Months Access

Pay in Full (Save $442)
$2,222
  • Expanded End the Cycle Method® ($1,111 value)
  • Become a Boundary badass Course ($497)
  • Empowered Exit Planning Course ($497)
  • She's Moving On (Navigating the early days of separation) ($888)
  • Coaching Call Vault Podcast (10k value)
  • Guided Integration and implementation touch points as you complete each module
  • 1 Month inside the Collective on Telegram
I'm READY, LET's DO THIS!

DIY Course -12 Months Access

12 Installment Plan
$222
  • Expanded End the Cycle Method® ($1,111 value)
  • Become a Boundary badass Course ($497)
  • Empowered Exit Planning Course ($497)
  • She's Moving On (Navigating the early days of separation) ($888)
  • Coaching Call Vault Podcast (10k value)
  • Guided Integration and implementation touch points as you complete each module
  • 1 Month inside the collective on telegram
I'm READY, LET's DO THIS!

Transform Your Pain Into Power

and Finally Get Clarity On Whether Your Relationship Can (or Should) Be Saved

This program is taught by a former counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology with over 13 years of experience guiding women into their most empowered selves

RCM is a step by step program and method for women experiencing emotional abuse with a partner who exhibits narcissistic behaviors and traits. 

If you’ve already spent years researching narcissism at length, or wonder if he’s just an avoidant or emotionally immature man, and perhaps find your partner doesn’t fit all of the mainstream criteria and behaviors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) this can leave you questioning.

And if your partner shows both positive and negative behaviors, and doesn’t fit the DSM criteria for NPD, you’re unsure if you’re just making this up or overthinking things.

You swing back and forth between being ready to leave and wondering if maybe there is hope for change to occur when he suddenly changes his behavior. 

Or, maybe you’re separated and hoping for a reunion once he’s worked on himself

If you’re wondering if change is possible, or know that it isn’t and want a pathway out of the relationship, read on..

Nothing changes until YOU change your emotional-energetic set point

Other programs, therapists, and experts tell you that leaving a relationship and going “no contact” is the only option, or they only offer guidance on healing after you’ve left.  And, many think leaving is the magic fix, and life will fall into place.

For most women, these are not effective strategies.

This program was created for successful, high-achieving women who are experiencing problematic and stressful relationships conflict, who aren’t sure if they should give the relationship more time, or if leaving is the only way toward a whole and healed life.

The program supports you the entire way through the first months after leaving – you can plug in and implement all of my processes wherever you may find yourself right now.

Most women who come in at first believe the benefits of staying outweigh the cost of leaving, and even fear the impact on the children if they leave.

And, through the process, the highest-level choice becomes clear.

This is a no-judgment zone! My goal is to get you to a clear decision that is aligned with your highest level of evolution, and to guide you in walking away from misaligned relationships from true power (without guilt)

The Path to self-reclamation and Changing your part
in the dance

Going to friends, family, and uninformed therapists who minimize what you’re going through only leads to further traumatization.

You need a proven strategy and plan to follow to actually move toward real change – from the inside out

A holistic path that integrates your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical dimensions, that merges psychology, counselling, coaching, and solution focused mentorship.

The Reclamation Method is The Program for you if you're experiencing 1 or more of these patterns in your relationship...

  • Your partner turns everything your address with him around on you (which leaves you questioning if your concerns are valid), and it goes from calm to explosive conflict out of nowhere fast
  • Your partner regularly tells you you're crazy, irrational, sensitive, always complaining, or too negative when you share your feelings about something he did or said
  • You repeat yourself over and over again, and when you think he finally gets it this time, nothing actually changes long-term. The same patterns and behaviors keep coming up
  • You feel like you're always talking, trying to articulate and explain perfectly how you feel, but your partner is never actually listening to you
  • You consistently feel invalidated, dismissed, and you get the feeling like your partner doesn't care about you or how you feel; he seems to have no concern, care, or empathy for your experiences and emotions
  • You feel to blame for all the problems in the relationship, because every issue you raise gets twisted or turned around onto you
  • Your partner constantly minimizes and makes excuses for his bad behavior (which is always somehow your fault)
  • You find yourself swinging from wanting to leave when things become intolerable, to feeling hope when he’s suddenly “being nice” and promising to change, to wondering if you've tried hard enough, back to self-blame,
  • You often feel confused after interactions with your partner, or by his strange and odd behaviors that leave you questioning yourself, and wondering if you really are going crazy

Here's What You'll Be Doing Inside

PHASE 1: The Relationship Reset 

Diagnosing and Identifying the Root of the Conflict in Your Relationship

Get rid of any doubts lingering about what you’re experiencing and stop blaming yourself for the relationship issues. This is where all the weight you’ve been carrying disappears, and clarity comes from understanding what is really going on (and if it is more than just ‘normal relationship fights’)

  • Learn specific patterns of behavior to be aware of, and how to respond differently to shift the dynamic
  • Develop emotional self-mastery so you stop reacting in ways that leak your personal power and energy
  • Learn how you're participating in the dynamic, how to regain your inner peace, and redirect your focus toward creating real changes
  • Discover how to use boundaries in proactive ways in preparation for problematic situations to set yourself up for success
  • Unhook yourself from the emotionally addictive patterns and develop inner-self mastery over your life

PHASE 2:

Own Your Boundaries, Needs, Dealbreakers and Ultimatums

Learn how to set boundaries in your relationship (even when you’ve tried before and it hasn’t worked) from a place of self love and empowerment  

  • Embody your boundaries by getting clear on what they are, how to set and enforce them, and ways to respond when they are not respected
  • Avoiding the most common misakes of setting boundaries (with people who don't respect them)
  • Handling difficult situations using boundaries
  • The types of boundaries and 8 areas you can set them (and how to word them so you don't feel guilty)
  • Boundaries and unhealthy helping in relationships (and the final test to see if he will grow with you)

Phase 3:

Paradigm Shifting | How to Change the Mental - Emotional Patterns That Keep You Stuck

Learn the most important areas to shift within yourself to feel more powerful and in charge of your emotions and life, including breaking codependent patterns 

  • Discover Your Emotional Triggers, How to Transform Them (And Stop Reacting) so that you can develop the confidence to know what is yours to heal, and what is problematic behaviour in the relationship
  • Create your life vision based on your values, non-negotiable needs, and new standards so that you can start changing your life now (instead of waiting for him to change)
  • Break emotionally addictive patterns within yourself so you can learn how to emotionally detach, and step into the Self Sourced identity
  • Shift your emotional state by learning how to move through emotions powerfully (without needing to vent, or have your therapist on speed dial)
  • Learn how to become more embodied, calm, and grounded, so that you stop giving your power away to his behaviour and become emotionally mastered

phase 4:

Clarity to Freedom | Getting Clear on Whether or Not Your Relationship is Aligned with the Woman You Are Becoming

In this module:

  • Discover whether your partner can/will change and what he’d actually need to do (or if you have passed the point of no return)
  • Learn how to deal with his sudden improvements, and know if they are genuine (or temporary)
  • Empower yourself by working toward your exit plan, just in case
  • Shift the mindset and belief patterns that keep you in the same place using my Clarity to Freedom process
  • What to do right away to get control over your money before you tell him you want a divorce
  • Steps to doing an in-house separation if leaving right away isn’t an option or you need more time to sort things out
  • The Strong Enough process to exit planning from power (not panic)

phase 5:

Continuing Your Transformation Journey | Navigating the Early Phase of Separation

This phase is all about focusing on the work that you’ve done in the program, and most importantly, integrating it into your life so you can turn it into tangible solution-focused action and change. You will be setting your goals and plans and ensure you don’t fall back into old patterns. You’ll also have access to everything you need to plan your separation and to navigate the other side should you decide to leave.

In this module:

  • Navigating the Physical, Emotional, Parental and Financial Aspects of Life After Leaving
  • Navigating the Early Days of Separation: Taking Care of Yourself Emotionally As You Stabilize Your New Life After Leaving
  • How to Practice Self-Soothing and Calming Your Nervous System During the Divorce ProcessBecome Your Own Soulmate: Create Your New Foundation for Healing and Rebuilding Your Life in a New Way After Leaving
  • Handling Your Biggest Parenting Challenges as The Self Sourced Woman
  • Upleveling Your Identity and Breaking Your Patterns of Self Betrayal So That You Are a Match for a Healthy Future Partner
  • Dating as a Self Sourced Woman: Preparing to Date with Boundaries and Self Worth

You always have choice.

want you to come to your own conclusions and decisions as a result of doing the inner work to get real and honest with yourself about what you’ve been experiencing, and how you’ve been allowing, even enabling, your partner’s abusive and disrespectful behavior.

Here's What You Get Instant Access To:

  • My Signature program delivered via videos, audios, workbooks, PDF guides, recorded classes. All self-paced and pre-recorded - you study on your own time ($5,000 value)
  • Weekly accountability emails for the initial 30 day Relationship Reset to keep you on track and focused on the work (it's like having a coach guiding you every step of the way)
  • Coaching at Your Fingertips: 30+ hours of recorded coaching calls with Leanne (MP3 audio format to listen to on the go) (private coaching with Leanne is $1,000 per session; you pay nothing extra to get access to these powerful sessions!)
  • 1 Month Free Inside the Self Sourced Collective ($222 value)

How it Works

Once you register you’ll have instant access to the entire program education area. You can dive it right away and get started! 

You will participate in the initial 30 Day Relationship Reset, and once you do this you will have the opportunity to deepen your growth, healing, and transformation over the additional sections in the program.

All content is pre-recorded, which means you can take in the modules at your pace.

Once you register, you’ll receive an email from me with your next steps, instructions for how to get started, and strategies for how to set yourself up for success.

You get INSTANT access to start on your transformation journey.

*Lifetime access with your enrollment.

“I felt I wasn’t worth “that much money”. My transformation and mental health is worth way more than that money!!! If you are on the fence... just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program.”
Marie

This program rapidly and permanently changes women's lives in a way that years of therapy could not.

RCM is a specifically designed system, step-by-step method, and process that goes beyond what traditional 1:1 therapy can provide.

Let me clarify: I’m not knocking good quality therapy, there is definitely a place for it, however for the majority of my clients and students, therapy alone was not enough to move them toward meaningful change because the root cause of the relationship issues wasn’t being addressed.

You have a choice. Because life is about choice.

You can invest in getting specific support and guidance to move you forward (in much less time) toward having a real plan and your next steps already figured out

Or

You can keep doing what you’ve been doing and try to figure it out on your own with books, online research, YouTube, free groups, and podcasts… and be in this exact same place in 6 months, 12 months, or sadly even longer

Each choice we make holds a consequence. A cause and an effect. Right now, you can make a decision:

Keep going in the same direction, or plug into a solution that will move your forward much faster than doing it alone

It's time to get real about what staying where you are is costing you.

If you choose to do nothing new, nothing changes.

A Message To Moms

If you’re like the ambitious, high-achieving women I work with, you’re carrying it all: your career/business, your family, your goals, and yet there’s a part of your life holding you back.

You feel torn between choosing yourself and honoring your children, wondering if stepping away from your relationship will make you “selfish,” or if staying is somehow protecting your family.

And while you juggle it all, your body is sending you urgent signals you can’t ignore.

Your adrenals are exhausted. Sleep is elusive. Your hormones are out of balance, or new health issues keep cropping up. Maybe it’s thyroid, adrenal fatigue, period disruptions, or unexplained aches and pains, all stress-induced signs that your body is under pressure it was never meant to endure.

 Decisions that once came easily now feel impossible.

It’s not your fault. You’ve been trying to figure it out on your own, or relying on advice that doesn’t account for your unique circumstances. The truth is, without strategic, expert guidance, the weight of this imbalance keeps growing.

Left unchecked, the tension seeps into every part of your life:

  • Your health deteriorates.

  • Your mental resilience erodes.

  • The children in your life feel the strain of the environment.

  • Your career, your relationships, and your sense of self start to feel like they’re on hold.

If you’ve been spinning in circles, questioning whether to stay or leave, if you feel the pressure of responsibility weighing on you, know this: there’s a path forward.

The solution is you coming back to yourself.

It’s about:

  • Putting your needs, clarity, and wellbeing back at the center of your life.

  • Setting rock-solid boundaries and protecting your energy.

  • Taking steps to safeguard yourself and your children.

  • Reclaiming the freedom to live life on your terms with excitement, confidence, and peace, rather than fear and exhaustion.

No more walking on eggshells. 

You deserve to wake up energized, empowered, and fully present — for yourself, your children, and the life you’ve built.

It’s time to stop surviving and start thriving.

You have been focused on him, now it’s time to focus on YOU.

Need more convincing RCM is for you?

Women Answer:

"How did the program most help you?"

(Identity is omitted to protect confidentiality)
"RCM helped me recognize the cycle and learn not to emotionally react. Having online support for insight into personal situations so I could relate it to the material".
Learning how not to react has honestly changed my life. Shifting the focus on myself has giving me so much power, freedom and relief. It’s a game changer."
"RCM lifted the veil on what is going on in my marriage. I have been unhappy almost my whole marriage and I felt so much guilt and shame that I was unhappy. Seeing behind the scenes and understanding covert abuse dramatically elevated the feeling that I was a “bad wife” for not liking my husband. RCM radically opened my eyes to MY POWER. I am SO much stronger than I thought. I am SO much more divinely powerful than I EVER thought. Radically shifting my view from victim to empowered! THANK YOU! RCM helped me see that I am not alone!! For years I felt confused and believed the illusion that I was the only one living this way. I thought I was broken, I believed my marriage was bad because I was too sensitive. I am WORTHY of healthy love and connection".
"Receiving validation, support, and the tools that I need to move forward in whichever way I decide".
"I love that this is fluid. I hold onto everything too tightly. I try to make everything permanent. Permission for this to be fluid is helpful."
"I really resonated with the Rewiring Your Nervous System audio/video. I loved how you spelled out the Fear vs Love responses and examples to go along with it."
"I'm in the RCM program and learning so much I wish I knew prior to leaving my ex!" K.R
"I have learned self care/self love/boundaries how to use and practice them. In setting myself routines, and learning about abuse cycles. Knowledge is power and I have learned so much through Leanne's RCM program."
"RCM has helped me to be empowered and know that I am not alone, crazy, or asking for much, learn ways to communicate effectively to not allow myself to self sacrifice all the time and keep boundaries in place, and helped me connect with other women in similar situations and find ways to break the cycle".

I asked women who took the program

How is the Relationship Clarity Method (formerly End The Cycle) More Beneficial Than Going to Therapy?

"The journaling prompts and having some type of “homework” was very helpful. It gave me things to take action on instead of just talking about things."
"RCM made me realize my codependency and my "role" with some of my past relationships with men, and dives deep into narcissism and personality traits that go along with it. I am learning how to let go of the "victim mentality,"; providing me with new awareness and accountability for myself. I matter."
"RCM offered specific information that helped me understand not only the spectrum of narcissistic behavior but also my own role in the relationship. RCM also hammered home the importance of self-care as a means to place the focus on myself as well as highlight how self-care practices are essential to staying well physically and emotionally."
"The accountability and an outlined directives for self soothing and regulating emotions have been most helpful once aware of codependency patterns."
"In RCM there is time to digest and reflect on the content and how it applies to my situation, while the twice weekly video calls kept me accountable. It's one thing to read/listen to the modules and entirely another to do the self reflection and work. I was motivated to stay on top of it all so that I could get as much as possible out of the video calls. I have done therapy on my own and with my partner and often find that the sessions themselves are packed full of information and emotion, with too much time between sessions to ensure that personal or relationship progress remains a top priority. RCM almost feels like a month-long therapy session where I was actually able to relate to the content and truly learn about myself and what I need. I am in a much better position to make real plans and initiate real change in my life."
"RCM is way more actionable and future-focused than therapy."

What Women Like You Are Saying About The Program:

"Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused and didn't know where my relationship was headed. I didn't even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne and the RCM program], I empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I'm learning about energy and I am motivated to protect mine. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I've changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C
"I came across this program at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn't make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. Suddenly my needs and the beginnings of some real boundaries were right in front of me, in my own handwriting! I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne, and this incredible program. Thank you so, so much."
“If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behavior and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Leanne taught me to set boundaries and take care of me. Thank you for lifting me up”. J.P
"Before the RCM program, I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, that I do play a part in the dance, and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn't work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward." L.G
"RCM has radically shifted my reality. It has transformed my beliefs that I was powerless, unworthy, unseen and unheard. For so long I felt stuck. RCM is a bright beacon of light shining light on the TRUTH. The truth is I am powerful, worthy, seen and heard! I matter! I am deserving of a healthy relationship and I no longer accept disrespect in place of love. Thanks Leanne!" A.T
"Before I found Leanne, I had spent a year reading and watching everything I could get my hands on about narcissistic abuse. I went from simply being educated about it to being supported and coached in such a caring and understanding way that gave me the strength and validation to leave. If I wanted to stay, she would have certainly helped me with that too. That’s what is different with Leanne. She supports you with whatever you decide to do."
" I was still trying to figure out both me and my husband. RCM helped me to focus solely on me and what I need and want in a relationship. I was able to let go of some things that were not helping me and had actually been hurting me. I gained a lot of confidence about myself and my own abilities. I feel like a capable and empowered woman now. I don’t know exactly what my future looks like but I know I can handle it."
"Before RCM, I was leaning toward leaving the relationship--and that's where I am now, except I feel much more "prepared" mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life -- and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I've shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I'm showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me--and was one of several "aha" moments."
"Before joining RCM, I knew my relationship was toxic but my coping was not getting me the change or feeling of stability and inner calm I desperately was seeking from others (friends, doctor, therapist.) Two plus years of personal therapy seemed lacking in the understanding of emotional abuse and how to help myself. An attempt to leave without support was unsuccessful. RCM has given me a clearer understanding on the cycle of abuse, tactics used to keep me in fear and under control in this relationship for years. I am now aware of how my silence, over-functioning, almost nonexistent boundaries and victim mentality contribute to abandonment of myself, codependency, reactive behaviours and avoidance of conflict. Unresolved childhood trauma and buried emotions added to my inner turmoil and inability to self regulate my moods. Learning to detach from negative interactions and conversation has been a huge positive shift in my self healing. The many layers of trauma need my attention for ongoing healing. Increasing selfcare, keeping routine while reinforcing my boundaries and SPEAKING my truth (and improving what and how I say it and positive self talk)is building my self confidence. Although I know I no longer wish to remain in this relationship, I am staying, for now, to work on myself in preparation. I feel prepared with a self care routine for my emotional and physical health; along with an exit strategy. Being aware of old ways of avoidance and fear; how to return to myself and seek support when taking the next steps is crucial for my success and growth. With divine gratitude, S.R."
"My partner and I have been inching toward separating for years, but we have a young daughter and separation would likely mean she and I moving to another town to be near my family. Over the past few months the discussions were getting more serious and there were a number of times where we decided to move forward with separating. My partner would have an overnight change of heart and the pattern would begin again. I was burned out, completely dissociated from myself and at a loss about how to proceed. Now I have taken ownership of my decision to stay in this relationship for now. I have always felt like I wouldn't leave without knowing I had tried everything, but couldn't accept that the thing I needed to try was prioritizing myself and my needs. I understand that, while I was not the cause of it, my codependency and lack of boundaries were enabling his behaviour. Working on myself has given me clarity on what my boundaries are and I find myself setting them more consistently every day. I'm learning to trust myself more and worry about the future less."
"I was lost in the fog because I had not been true to myself. I learned that I need to practice self care. I understood that setting boundaries and enforcing them is a skill - it needs to be practiced consistently. And most importantly, I learned to take radical self responsibility and own my power. I am not a victim."
Have questions?

Frequently asked questions

This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world! 

While not a substitute for therapy, RCM will provide you with in-depth transformation, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in regular therapy. Most women who join this program (including other therapists) tell me this program did more for them than anything else (including years of therapy). That said, if you find therapy helpful to moving things forward, some women take this along with therapy and bring the work they’re doing to their sessions. It’s your choice.

There are no cancellations or refunds.

Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file. 

RCM is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. RCM will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take RCM first.

It is common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in RCM as you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good. Based on my work with hundreds of women in this program, having support as you leave and after you exit is invaluable. Leaving and staying no contact is the hardest thing you will have to do. 

You get out of anything that you put into it. Allocate about 5 hours per week for watching/listening to the material, study and notes/journalling, or any homework you have to do. Also, keep in mind, clients report ETCE did more for them in 30 days than months spent in therapy getting nowhere. If you focus and stay in the work you will experience profound transformation.

We do not make currency adjustments. Adjusting the currency for every person that requests it would be extremely time consuming, and an admin nightmare. USD is a standard and universal currency for global businesses, and 90% of our business expenses, including software and tools to house our online programs, are paid for in US dollars

 Devoting even 1 hour per week to the materials will start to change your energy. Set yourself up to complete it in 30 days, then revisit any of the modules as many times as you need to go deeper. 

This program is currently offered as a self-study option and doesn’t include support. If you’d like direct consultation, you can book a 1:1 session, depending on current availability. 

Many women purchase programs and never finish them. I want you to get in, dive deep and get it done so that you can change your life. You should easlily get through this within 30 days if you stay focused, so 6 months is more than enough time. You can then revisit the course as many times as you need during your access period (which I recommend) because patterns are always right there waiting to be picked back up again, unless we stay awake to the work.

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Results Disclaimer 

  • We believe in transparency and want to set clear expectations regarding the potential outcomes of this transformation course. While our program provides tools and strategies to support your journey in relationships, parenting, marriage, and general wellness practices, individual results will vary. 
  • Your success with this program depends on various factors, including your personal effort, commitment, self integrity, background, and unique circumstances. We cannot guarantee specific results such as mental health, emotional balance, or an improved mindset. Past participant experiences do not guarantee future success. 
  • This program includes self-care practices, movement guidance, legal tips, and health-related insights. However, it is not a substitute for professional therapy, trauma treatment, legal counsel, or medical advice. Any legal or health-related information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. 
  • Our program is designed to provide guidance and support, but your progress depends on your willingness to apply the concepts and take action. We encourage you to take full responsibility for your personal growth and well-being. 
  • Seek Professional Advice Before making any decisions related to your mental, emotional, legal, financial or physical health, we strongly recommend consulting with a qualified professional, such as a licensed therapist, attorney, or healthcare provider if you are unsure about applying any advice given to you in this program or in consulting with Leanne Oaten. This program is not a substitute for crisis intervention or for women in physically violent relationships. Please seek help in your local area if you are in danger or experiencing physical violence or fear for your – or your children’s safety 
  • We make no guarantees, representations, or warranties regarding specific results from participating in this program. By enrolling, you acknowledge that your outcomes are influenced by multiple factors beyond our control. 

No Refunds or cancellations. Your purchase includes unlimited course access to the program materials, including updates or new additions. If you select the installment plan you are committing to pay your payments and are responsible for ensuring the card we have on file is active. This course includes lifetime access to the materials. If you choose the installment plan you are responsible for fulfilling all payments even if you do not complete the program. 

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