Break the Emotional Grip of Toxic Love

BTC is a 30 day mentorship space where ambitious women navigating emotionally invalidating, disconnected, high-conflict relationships begin to break the emotional grip of toxic love and find emotional freedom to see the truth and take healthier steps toward their future

The cycle ends when you stop outsourcing your power and start taking 100% responsibility for your own patterns, choices, and energy.

“Even after years of therapy, this really gets to the root.” – Sharon

Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and didn’t even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne], I have the tools to empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I’m learning how to protect my energy. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I’ve changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C

 

 Leanne describes everything as if she’s taking your experiences out of your mind and translating them into words and tools to help you discover what is happening and more importantly what to do about it all!I have seen two therapists in person and I have left every time thinking, that was a waste of money.I was shocked when I discovered how interactive Leanne was and that her program is for real.. She.gets.it. She’s been through so much, her personal experience coupled with her professional experience is exactly what I needed to wake up, stay awake and empower myself!!” P.W

Since joining my 30 day bootcamp… 

 

  • “I couldn’t have said this 30 days ago… but I’m excited about my future.”

  • “I finally feel sane again, knowing my emotions and expectations are normal.”

  • “This work gave me the clarity, strength, and language I didn’t even know I was missing.”

  • “I used to second-guess everything. Now I have a non-negotiables list and I’m finally holding my boundaries.”

  • “I’m a therapist and even I couldn’t see the control and toxicity in my own marriage until this program.”

  • “This program gave me permission to prioritize me for the first time in decades.”

  • “It’s the first thing that’s made sense after trying everything else.”

  • “Leanne nailed it. I finally stopped asking ‘what’s wrong with me?’ and started asking ‘what’s right for me?’”

Why this program works for smart, ambitious women – and will work for you too!

 

  • “This wasn’t anything like therapy. It was direct, clear, and exactly what I needed when I was drowning.”

  • “Leanne’s the only one who gets the nuances of what causes unhealthy conflict cycles for high-functioning women.”

  • “Leanne made me feel like she was talking directly to my life.”

  • “I’ve read the books, I’ve done the therapy. This is what made the difference.”

  • “I’m a smart woman. I’ve built a life, and a career. But I couldn’t get free until this program handed me the truth and the tools”

Key Shifts You'll Have Inside:

  • Decode manipulation and control tactics emotionally dismissive men use: Pinpoint what is really going on at the root of your relationship highs and lows so that you can get clear on what’s your side of the street, and what is his

  • Get clarity and set boundaries to discover if he will rise to your level: learn how to clear anger and resentment, and become an UNtriggered woman by developing your emotional and inner self mastery so that you can clearly discern if this is a man who will rise and grow with you (or if he is the common denominator that is holding you back from your greatness)

  • Shift your nervous system from over-functioning mode to calm in minutes using emotional and energetic tools and relaxation guided practices when you need it most so that you can feel in control of your state and how you’re showing up in your relationship and with your kids, no matter what is going on around you (or what he’s doing)

  • Implement a step-by-step separation or rebuild plan:  Decide whether you will give it more time so that you can either make your plan to grow within the relationship, or begin planning your exit strategy if he can’t meet you where you’re at. Either way, you will have a clear path forward. 

"YOU CAN SHIFT THE DYNAMIC QUICKLY THROUGH EMOTIONAL & ENERGETIC SHIFTS- WITHOUT NEEDING HIM TO DO ANYTHING DIFFERENT (AT FIRST)"

~Leanne Marie

Compared to weekly couples therapy at $175+ per hour, the Break The Cycle 30 Day Intensive saves you thousands while giving you strategic planning, a simple process to follow, and relationship-shifting tools, to get clarity about your future

Get access to everything you need to discover if your relationship is past the point of healing, and make your next moves from clarity and power. This intensive is happening inside a private Telegram group.

$997 for 30 Days of Mentorship

JOIN THE BOOTCAMP

You might be thinking… “This isn’t cheap, is it worth it?”

 

And I get it. It’s important to be discerning with our money decisions. And, if you’re new to investing in yourself and hiring a mentor to support you, this might feel uncomfortable.  

But let’s put it in perspective:

  • How much have you already spent on therapy sessions, books, and courses,  while still finding yourself in the same situation, feeling the exact same way?

  • How many years have you lost to overthinking, second-guessing, and staying stuck in a relationship that drains your energy and confidence?

  • How much income has been lost from not being able to focus at work, or show up in your business with a clear head?

  • What’s the real cost of another year of exhaustion, confusion, and emotional self-abandonment?

  • Private mentorship with me starts at 10k (this is the next best thing to get direct access to me)

$997 is a fraction of what staying stuck will cost you.

This doesn’t just give you information, it gives you a clear step-by-step process to break the patterns you’ve been living once and for all, with tools, strategies, and guidance you’ll use for the rest of your life. 

The women who join me in my coaching and support spaces don’t see this as an expense. They see it as the best investment they’ll ever make, because it saves them time, energy, health, and years of repeating painful patterns.

The real question to ask yourself is, “What’s the cost if I don’t do this?”

This isn't just a program about how to fix your relationship; it's an AWAKENING & transformation process that meets you exactly where you're at, that you will feel within days of implementing my proven process

Join the movement!

During the 30-day intensive, you will get a 4 part audio course (1 lesson each Sunday with homework and inner-shifts), plus Q&A, a group chat, Tuesday-Friday access to me, and additional audio broadcasts in the channel to keep your momentum – all housed inside one convenient place in the Telegram app.

This is The Decision That Changes Everything

Transform Your Pain Into Power

and Finally Get Clarity On Whether Your Relationship Can (or Should) Be Saved

This program is taught by a former counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology with over 13 years of experience guiding women into their most empowered selves

BTC is a step-by-step 30-day method for women experiencing cycles of emotional highs and lows, patterns of kindness and anger outbursts, tension and love, that leaves them feeling confused, unsure of what they’re going to get moment by moment  asking “what is he?”, and “what is going on here?”

If you’ve already spent years researching your partner’s behavior at length, or wonder if he’s an avoidant or emotionally immature man, and perhaps find your partner doesn’t fit all of the mainstream criteria and behaviors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) this can leave you questioning what is really at the root of the confusing dynamic.

And if your partner shows both positive and negative behaviors, it leaves you unsure if you’re just making this up or overthinking things.

You swing back and forth between being ready to leave and wondering if maybe there is hope for change to occur when he suddenly does a 180 and changes his behavior. 

Or, maybe you’re separated and are hoping for a reunion once he’s worked on himself

If you’re wondering if change is possible, or know that it isn’t and want a pathway out of the relationship, read on..

Nothing changes until YOU change your emotional-energetic set point

Other programs, therapists, and experts tell you that leaving a relationship and going “no contact” is the only option, or they only offer guidance on healing after you’ve left.  And, many think leaving is the magic fix, and life will fall into place.

For most women, these are not effective strategies.

BTC is specifically created for successful, high-achieving women who are experiencing problematic and stressful relationship cycles, who aren’t sure if they should give the relationship more time, or if leaving is the only way toward a whole and healed life.

I started teaching this 30-day process back in 2019, and the results women reported in a few weeks of joining were astounding.

 In this revised 2.0 addition, you get all of what was so powerful in the 1.0 version PLUS updated elements to weave in feminine energy, guided audio activations, meditations, and affirmations to anchor in your new identity.

Many women who come in at first believe the benefits of staying outweigh the cost of leaving, and even fear the impact on the children if they leave.

And, through the process, the highest-level choice becomes clear.

This is a no-judgment zone! My goal is to get you to a clear decision that is aligned with your highest level of evolution, and to guide you in walking away from misaligned relationships from true power (without guilt).

The Path to self-reclamation and Changing your part
in the dance

Going to friends, family, and uninformed therapists who minimize what you’re going through only leads to further traumatization.

You need a proven strategy and plan to follow to actually move toward real change – from the inside out

A holistic path that integrates your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical dimensions, that merges psychology, counselling, coaching, and solution focused mentorship.

This 30-day Intensive is for you If You're Experiencing One or More of the following signs...

  • Everything is ‘fine’ only until you have an issue, express a need, or try to talk about something they did. Then things blow up fast into intense conflict.
  • You can’t express yourself without your spouse getting defensive. All issues you raise end up in a circular argument, and he deflects the issue you brought up back onto you, somehow making it your fault
  • You’re not seen or heard -you feel invisible. There is no asking about your day, or how you are. No making special plans on his initiative, and you feel you have to beg for the smallest things. He often doesn’t care about your ideas or desires and ignores your needs.
  • Nothing is ever resolved. There’s no sitting down and talking through issues calmly. You never feel heard, and it always ends up in a bad argument that leaves you feeling emotionally shattered. There is no resolution, and you feel like all the problems are your fault, he takes no ownership of his behavior.
  • There’s no affection, reciprocity, or deep emotional connection. The only affection you get is when they want sex. Many women develop an aversion to intimacy with their spouse and don’t want to have sex at all.
  • You're often feeling on edge, tense and anxious about his reactions, or what he will complain about next, what mood he will be in when he gets home, and what criticism you will receive next. You brace yourself, even when he is not around.
  • He takes true accountability. He has a ‘perfect persona’ and can do no wrong (according to him). You’ll hear: I’m sorry you feel that way” “I’m sorry that you think I did that”,” I said I’m sorry, what more do you want?”, or “I’m sorry that hurt your feelings”, I’m sorry if I did that”.
  • When you express your feelings about his behaviour, you’re met with sighs, eye-rolling, and then stonewalling. This is not an occasional thing; this is every single time. There’s never a good time to talk and you can never do it how they think you should

Here's What You'll Be Doing Inside

PHASE 1: The Relationship Reset 

Diagnosing and Identifying the Root of the Conflict in Your Relationship

Get rid of any doubts lingering about what you’re experiencing. This is where all the weight you’ve been carrying disappears, and clarity comes from understanding what is really going on (and if it is more than just ‘normal relationship fights’)

  • Learn specific patterns of behavior to be aware of, and how to respond differently to shift the dynamic
  • Develop emotional self-mastery so you stop reacting in ways that leak your personal power and energy
  • Learn how you're participating in the dynamic, how to regain your inner peace, and redirect your focus toward creating real changes
  • Discover how to use boundaries in proactive ways in preparation for problematic situations to set yourself up for success
  • Unhook yourself from the emotionally addictive patterns and develop inner-self mastery over your life

PHASE 2:

Own Your Boundaries, Needs, Dealbreakers and Ultimatums

Learn how to set boundaries in your relationship (even when you’ve tried before and it hasn’t worked) from a place of self love and empowerment  

  • Embody your boundaries by getting clear on what they are, how to set and enforce them, and ways to respond when they are not respected
  • Avoiding the most common misakes of setting boundaries (with people who don't respect them)
  • Handling difficult situations using boundaries
  • The types of boundaries and 8 areas you can set them (and how to word them so you don't feel guilty)
  • Boundaries and unhealthy helping in relationships (and the final test to see if he will grow with you)

Phase 3:

Paradigm Shifting | How to Change YOUR Mental - Emotional Patterns That Keep You Stuck

Learn the most important areas to shift within yourself to feel more powerful and in charge of your emotions and life, including breaking codependent patterns 

  • Discover Your Emotional Triggers, How to Transform Them (And Stop Reacting) so that you can develop the confidence to know what is yours to heal, and what is problematic behaviour in the relationship
  • Create your life vision based on your values, non-negotiable needs, and new standards so that you can start changing your life now (instead of waiting for him to change)
  • Tap into feminine 'receptive surrender' energy, learn how to become more embodied, calm, and grounded, so that you stop giving your emotional power away

phase 4:

Clarity to Emotional Freedom | Getting Clear on Whether or Not This Relationship is Aligned with the Woman You Are Becoming


  • Discover whether your partner can/will change and what he’d actually need to do (or if you have passed the point of no return)
  • Learn how to deal with his sudden improvements, and know if they are genuine (or temporary)
  • Shift the mindset and belief patterns that keep you in the same place using my Clarity to Freedom process
  • What to do before you tell him you want a divorce
  • Steps to initiate an in-house separation if leaving right away isn’t an option, or you need more time to sort things out

You always have choice.

I want you to come to your own conclusions and decisions as a result of doing the inner work to get real and honest with yourself about what you’ve been tolerating, and how you’ve been allowing, even enabling, the patterns. 

Here's What You Get Access To in the Break The Cycle 30 Day Intensive:

  • The 4-Weekly lessons: delivered via, audio. All self-paced and pre-recorded - you listen on your own time ($500 value)
  • Weekly accountability and integration emails to keep you on track and focused on the work (it's like having me guiding you every step of the way)

    ($200 value)
  • Telegram Mentorship, Q & A, and Community: Post your questions, connect with other women in the group, plus short and power-packed broadcasts to keep the momentum going ($3,500 value)

The 30 Day Bootcamp Value: $4,200
Starts November 9th

Join for $997

JOIN THE BOOTCAMP

How it Works

Once you register, you’ll get a welcome email with the secret links to join the Telegram chats and Broadcast Channel.

We kick off officially on November 9th with the first module release, and a new module is released every Sunday for 4 total weeks. 

This is designed to be an easy-to-follow process, with plenty of time to integrate, take in the lessons, and do the integration and self-reflection exercises each week. No login to remember, no live calls to navigate, just exactly what you need to finally create some changes and take time to reflect on what you truly desire next. 

All content is pre-recorded, which means you can take in the lessons at your own pace.

Once you register, you’ll receive an email from me with your next steps, instructions for how to get started, and strategies for how to set yourself up for success.

The 30 day BTC intensive is happening in my new mentorship space, The Self-Sourced Collective. Stay month to month after your initial 3 month transformation commitment – cancel with 30 days notice.

THIS IS WHERE EVERYTHING CHANGES. IT STARTS WITH A CHOICE.

“I felt I wasn’t worth “that much money”. My transformation and mental health is worth way more than that money!!! If you are on the fence... just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program.”
Marie

This program rapidly and permanently changes women's lives in a way that years of therapy could not.

RCM is a specifically designed system, step-by-step method, and process that goes beyond what traditional 1:1 therapy can provide.

Let me clarify: I’m not knocking good quality therapy, there is definitely a place for it, however for the majority of my clients and students, therapy alone was not enough to move them toward meaningful change because the root cause of the relationship issues wasn’t being addressed.

You have a choice. Because life is about choice.

You can invest in getting specific support and guidance to move you forward (in much less time) toward having a real plan and your next steps already figured out

Or

You can keep doing what you’ve been doing and try to figure it out on your own with books, online research, YouTube, free groups, and podcasts… and be in this exact same place in 6 months, 12 months, or sadly even longer

Each choice we make holds a consequence. A cause and an effect. Right now, you can make a decision:

Keep going in the same direction, or plug into a solution that will move your forward much faster than doing it alone

It's time to get real about what staying where you are is costing you.

If you choose to do nothing new, nothing changes.

A Message To Moms

If you’re like the ambitious, high-achieving women I work with, you’re carrying it all: your career/business, your family, your goals, and yet there’s a part of your life holding you back.

You feel torn between choosing yourself and honoring your children, wondering if stepping away from your relationship will make you “selfish,” or if staying is somehow protecting your family.

And while you juggle it all, your body is sending you urgent signals you can’t ignore.

Your adrenals are exhausted. Sleep is elusive. Your hormones are out of balance, or new health issues keep cropping up. Maybe it’s thyroid, adrenal fatigue, period disruptions, or unexplained aches and pains, all stress-induced signs that your body is under pressure it was never meant to endure.

 Decisions that once came easily now feel impossible.

It’s not your fault. You’ve been trying to figure it out on your own, or relying on advice that doesn’t account for your unique circumstances. The truth is, without strategic, expert guidance, the weight of this imbalance keeps growing.

Left unchecked, the tension seeps into every part of your life:

  • Your health deteriorates.

  • Your mental resilience erodes.

  • The children in your life feel the strain of the environment.

  • Your career, your relationships, and your sense of self start to feel like they’re on hold.

If you’ve been spinning in circles, questioning whether to stay or leave, if you feel the pressure of responsibility weighing on you, know this: there’s a path forward.

The solution is you coming back to yourself.

It’s about:

  • Putting your needs, clarity, and wellbeing back at the center of your life.

  • Setting rock-solid boundaries and protecting your energy.

  • Taking steps to safeguard yourself and your children.

  • Reclaiming the freedom to live life on your terms with excitement, confidence, and peace, rather than fear and exhaustion.

No more walking on eggshells. 

You deserve to wake up energized, empowered, and fully present — for yourself, your children, and the life you’ve built.

It’s time to stop surviving and start thriving.

You have been focused on him, now it’s time to focus on YOU.

Need more convincing BTC is for you?

Women Answer:

"How did the program most help you?"

(Identity is omitted to protect confidentiality)
"It helped me recognize the cycle and learn not to emotionally react. Having online support for insight into personal situations so I could relate it to the material".
Learning how not to react has honestly changed my life. Shifting the focus on myself has giving me so much power, freedom and relief. It’s a game changer."
"It lifted the veil on what is going on in my marriage. I have been unhappy almost my whole marriage and I felt so much guilt and shame that I was unhappy. Seeing behind the scenes and understanding covert abuse dramatically elevated the feeling that I was a “bad wife” for not liking my husband. RCM radically opened my eyes to MY POWER. I am SO much stronger than I thought. I am SO much more divinely powerful than I EVER thought. Radically shifting my view from victim to empowered! THANK YOU! It really helped me see that I am not alone!! For years I felt confused and believed the illusion that I was the only one living this way. I thought I was broken, I believed my marriage was bad because I was too sensitive. I am WORTHY of healthy love and connection".
"Receiving validation, support, and the tools that I need to move forward in whichever way I decide".
"I'm in the program and learning so much I wish I knew prior to leaving my ex!" K.R
"I have learned self care/self love/boundaries how to use and practice them. In setting myself routines, and learning about abuse cycles. Knowledge is power and I have learned so much through Leanne's program."
"It has helped me to be empowered and know that I am not alone, crazy, or asking for much, learn ways to communicate effectively to not allow myself to self sacrifice all the time and keep boundaries in place, and helped me connect with other women in similar situations and find ways to break the cycle".

I asked women who took the 30 DAY program

How is the Break The Cycle Intensive (formerly End The Cycle) More Beneficial Than Going to Therapy?

"The journaling prompts and having some type of “homework” was very helpful. It gave me things to take action on instead of just talking about things."
"It made me realize my codependency and my "role" with some of my past relationships with men, and dives deep into narcissism and personality traits that go along with it. I am learning how to let go of the "victim mentality,"; providing me with new awareness and accountability for myself. I matter."
"It offered specific information that helped me understand not only the spectrum of narcissistic behavior but also my own role in the relationship. It also hammered home the importance of self-care as a means to place the focus on myself as well as highlight how self-care practices are essential to staying well physically and emotionally."
"The accountability and an outlined directives for self soothing and regulating emotions have been most helpful once aware of codependency patterns."
"There is time to digest and reflect on the content and how it applies to my situation, while the twice weekly video calls kept me accountable. It's one thing to read/listen to the modules and entirely another to do the self reflection and work. I was motivated to stay on top of it all so that I could get as much as possible out of the video calls. I have done therapy on my own and with my partner and often find that the sessions themselves are packed full of information and emotion, with too much time between sessions to ensure that personal or relationship progress remains a top priority. It almost feels like a month-long therapy session where I was actually able to relate to the content and truly learn about myself and what I need. I am in a much better position to make real plans and initiate real change in my life."
"Leanne's 30 day intensive is way more actionable and future-focused than therapy."

What Women Like You Are Saying About The Program:

"Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused and didn't know where my relationship was headed. I didn't even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne in her program], I empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I'm learning about energy and I am motivated to protect mine. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I've changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C
"I came across this program at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn't make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. Suddenly my needs and the beginnings of some real boundaries were right in front of me, in my own handwriting! I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne, and this incredible program. Thank you so, so much."
“If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behavior and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Leanne taught me to set boundaries and take care of me. Thank you for lifting me up”. J.P
"Before the this program, I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, that I do play a part in the dance, and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn't work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward." L.G
"This has radically shifted my reality. It has transformed my beliefs that I was powerless, unworthy, unseen and unheard. For so long I felt stuck. Leanne is a bright beacon of light shining light on the TRUTH. The truth is I am powerful, worthy, seen and heard! I matter! I am deserving of a healthy relationship and I no longer accept disrespect in place of love. Thanks Leanne!" A.T
"Before I found Leanne, I had spent a year reading and watching everything I could get my hands on about narcissistic abuse. I went from simply being educated about it to being supported and coached in such a caring and understanding way that gave me the strength and validation to leave. If I wanted to stay, she would have certainly helped me with that too. That’s what is different with Leanne. She supports you with whatever you decide to do."
" I was still trying to figure out both me and my husband. Leanne's program helped me to focus solely on me and what I need and want in a relationship. I was able to let go of some things that were not helping me and had actually been hurting me. I gained a lot of confidence about myself and my own abilities. I feel like a capable and empowered woman now. I don’t know exactly what my future looks like but I know I can handle it."
"Before the program, I was leaning toward leaving the relationship--and that's where I am now, except I feel much more "prepared" mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life -- and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I've shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I'm showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me--and was one of several "aha" moments."
"Before joining, I knew my relationship was toxic but my coping was not getting me the change or feeling of stability and inner calm I desperately was seeking from others (friends, doctor, therapist.) Two plus years of personal therapy seemed lacking in the understanding of emotional abuse and how to help myself. An attempt to leave without support was unsuccessful. Leanne's program has given me a clearer understanding on the cycle of abuse, tactics used to keep me in fear and under control in this relationship for years. I am now aware of how my silence, over-functioning, almost nonexistent boundaries and victim mentality contribute to abandonment of myself, codependency, reactive behaviours and avoidance of conflict. Unresolved childhood trauma and buried emotions added to my inner turmoil and inability to self regulate my moods. Learning to detach from negative interactions and conversation has been a huge positive shift in my self healing. The many layers of trauma need my attention for ongoing healing. Increasing selfcare, keeping routine while reinforcing my boundaries and SPEAKING my truth (and improving what and how I say it and positive self talk)is building my self confidence. Although I know I no longer wish to remain in this relationship, I am staying, for now, to work on myself in preparation. I feel prepared with a self care routine for my emotional and physical health; along with an exit strategy. Being aware of old ways of avoidance and fear; how to return to myself and seek support when taking the next steps is crucial for my success and growth. With divine gratitude, S.R."
"My partner and I have been inching toward separating for years, but we have a young daughter and separation would likely mean she and I moving to another town to be near my family. Over the past few months the discussions were getting more serious and there were a number of times where we decided to move forward with separating. My partner would have an overnight change of heart and the pattern would begin again. I was burned out, completely dissociated from myself and at a loss about how to proceed. Now I have taken ownership of my decision to stay in this relationship for now. I have always felt like I wouldn't leave without knowing I had tried everything, but couldn't accept that the thing I needed to try was prioritizing myself and my needs. I understand that, while I was not the cause of it, my codependency and lack of boundaries were enabling his behaviour. Working on myself has given me clarity on what my boundaries are and I find myself setting them more consistently every day. I'm learning to trust myself more and worry about the future less."
"I was lost in the fog because I had not been true to myself. I learned that I need to practice self care. I understood that setting boundaries and enforcing them is a skill - it needs to be practiced consistently. And most importantly, I learned to take radical self responsibility and own my power. I am not a victim."
Have questions?

Frequently asked questions

This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world! 

While not a substitute for therapy, the intensive will provide you with in-depth transformation, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in regular therapy. Most women who join this program (including other therapists) tell me this program did more for them than anything else (including years of therapy). That said, if you find therapy helpful to moving things forward, some women take this along with therapy and bring the work they’re doing to their sessions. It’s your choice.

There are no cancellations or refunds.

Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file. 

This is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. The process will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take this intensive first.

It is common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in the intensive as you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good. Based on my work with hundreds of women in this program, having support as you plan to leave and after you exit is invaluable. Leaving and staying no contact is the hardest thing you will have to do. We don’t go in depth about your exit plan and divorce in this intensive; this is covered at length inside the Relationship Clarity Method (My extensive program inside the Collective)

You get out of anything that you put into it. Allocate about 5 hours per week for watching/listening to the material, study and notes/journalling, or any homework you have to do. Also, keep in mind, clients report ETCE did more for them in 30 days than months spent in therapy getting nowhere. If you focus and stay in the work you will experience profound transformation.

We do not make currency adjustments. Adjusting the currency for every person that requests it would be extremely time consuming, and an admin nightmare. USD is a standard and universal currency for global businesses, and 90% of our business expenses, including software and tools to house our online programs, are paid for in US dollars

 Devoting even 1 hour per week to the materials will start to change your energy. Set yourself up to complete it in 30 days, then revisit any of the modules as many times as you need to go deeper. 

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Results Disclaimer 

  • We believe in transparency and want to set clear expectations regarding the potential outcomes of this transformation course. While our program provides tools and strategies to support your journey in relationships, parenting, marriage, and general wellness practices, individual results will vary. 
  • Your success with this program depends on various factors, including your personal effort, commitment, self integrity, background, and unique circumstances. We cannot guarantee specific results such as mental health, emotional balance, or an improved mindset. Past participant experiences do not guarantee future success. 
  • This program includes self-care practices, movement guidance, legal tips, and health-related insights. However, it is not a substitute for professional therapy, trauma treatment, legal counsel, or medical advice. Any legal or health-related information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. 
  • Our program is designed to provide guidance and support, but your progress depends on your willingness to apply the concepts and take action. We encourage you to take full responsibility for your personal growth and well-being. 
  • Seek Professional Advice Before making any decisions related to your mental, emotional, legal, financial or physical health, we strongly recommend consulting with a qualified professional, such as a licensed therapist, attorney, or healthcare provider if you are unsure about applying any advice given to you in this program or in consulting with Leanne Oaten. This program is not a substitute for crisis intervention or for women in physically violent relationships. Please seek help in your local area if you are in danger or experiencing physical violence or fear for your – or your children’s safety 
  • We make no guarantees, representations, or warranties regarding specific results from participating in this program. By enrolling, you acknowledge that your outcomes are influenced by multiple factors beyond our control. 

No Refunds or cancellations. Your purchase includes unlimited course access to the program materials, including updates or new additions. If you select the installment plan you are committing to pay your payments and are responsible for ensuring the card we have on file is active. This course includes lifetime access to the materials. If you choose the installment plan you are responsible for fulfilling all payments even if you do not complete the program. 

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