Leanne Oaten's

END THE CYCLE PROGRAM

Shift Into Clarity, Confidence and Conviction So That You Can Create Momentum And Make a Decision About Your Relationship in 10 Weeks (Or Less)

This program isn’t right for every woman. To ensure this will be a fit for you, please book a Next Level call with Leanne

“Before joining the End The Cycle program I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me to see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, know that yes I do play a part in the dance and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn’t work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward.” L.G

If you're ready to take back your power and stop leaking your energy into the dynamic of the relationship, you're in the right place!

Inside, ETC you'll be walked through the specific and specialized process I have taken countless women though over the past 6 years, using my End The Cycle Method. By following the process and doing the work, you will get clarity on what you're experiencing in your relationship, find out if it can (or cannot) be changed, and start your exit planning so that you are prepared to make that ultimate decision when it is right for you

How End The Cycle is Different Than Anything You've Tried So Far

For starters, I have an 11+ year background in Counselling Psychology, and Mindfulness Based Coaching which I obtained at the time of my counsellor training. I combine coaching methodologies with holistic principles, spirituality and psychology, to bring you a powerful combination of modalities that women have told me have been more effective in moving the needle forward than decades of therapy alone.

I have also lived my own experiences with relationship violence and narcissistic abuse, so I have the advantage of understanding exactly what you’re going through. I combine this learned wisdom with my professional training, and 11+ years experience working with clients.

My approach comes from the foundational aspects of getting clarity on what you’re experiencing, and empowering you with the tool and mindsets to walk away from destructive relationships that are no longer serving you.

I do not come at this with a ‘you are the victim he is the abuser’ approach. You will be pushed to see your own role in the dynamics, and be invited to flip the power dynamic around so that you are the one in the drivers seat.

I created this program so women could study and implement the modules around their busy lives, without having to leave their homes, and I guarantee, there is no other program like this out there.

My promise: If the only thing you do right now is dive in and commit to doing the work in this program, and follow it step by step, you will not recognize yourself by the end. Whether you stay or leave your marriage, you will not be the same woman at the end. This program radically and permanently changes women’s lives in ways years of therapy and self-help alone cannot accomplish.

But don't just take my word for it...

The End The Cycle Method rapidly and permanently changes women's lives in a way that years of therapy alone could not

Women Answer:

"How did the ETC program most help you?"

(Identity is omitted to protect confidentiality)

"ETC helped me recognize the cycle and learn not to emotionally react. Having online support for insight into personal situations so I could relate it to the material".

"Receiving validation, support, and the tools that I need to move forward in whichever way I decide".

"I familiarized myself with gaslighting stone walling etc . Gaining clarity. And having a supportive group behind me".

"I'm in the ETC program and learning so much I wish I knew prior to leaving my ex!" K.R

"I have learned self care/self love/boundaries how to use and practice them. In setting new routines, and learning about abuse cycles. Knowledge is power and I have learned so much through Leanne's ETC program."

"ETC has helped me to be empowered and know that I am not alone, crazy, or asking for too much, learn ways to communicate effectively to not allow myself to self sacrifice all the time and keep boundaries in place, and helped me connect with other women in similar situations and find ways to break the cycle".

Imagine...

No longer feeling controlled by your partner and his moods or actions and having the clarity to keep moving forward no matter what he is doing or not doing
Unapologetically going after your goals and doing what YOU want to do without fear of your spouses reactions (because you are indifferent to his manipulation)
Your self confidence skyrocketing to new levels, and this allows you to take bold steps to create your new life - a new momentum is created, you start seeing signs and guidance falls in your lap because you are aligning your vision with new action
Making more money or excelling in your career because of your renewed energy and mental focus
Every aspect of you life getting better, clearer and more peaceful within. Even when your spouse is creating chaos it doesn't sway you from making changes to your own life
Being more self connected with who you are, and experiencing more joy, peace and freedom to reinvent your life
Feeling free to make your own decisions and not allowing anyone make you second guess yourself
Having more mastery over your emotions (rather than allowing them to control you and send you spiralling downward)

Have a coach (and former therapist) in your back pocket as you work through the changes you are making in the program

Imagine being able to get support, encouragement, and accountability at your fingertips Monday – Friday inside of a private chat group. No more trying to navigate this on your own or floundering in your old patterns. It’s time to move forward!

I Asked Women to Answer: How Did The End The Cycle Method Help You More Than Anything Else You've Tried So Far?

"The journaling prompts and having some type of homework was very helpful. It gave me things to take action on instead of just talking about things."

"ETC made me realize my codependency and my "role" with some of my past relationships with men. ETC dives deep in to narcissism and personality traits that go along with it. ETC reminds me to let go of the "victim mentality"; providing me with an awareness and accountability for myself. I matter."

"ETC offered specific information that helped me understand not only the spectrum of narcissistic behavior but also my own role in the relationship. ETC also hammered home the importance of self-care as a means to place the focus on myself as well as highlight how self-care practices are essential to staying well physically and emotionally."

"The accountability and an outlined directives for self soothing and regulating emotions have been most helpful once aware of codependency patterns."

"ETC is way more actionable and future-focused than therapy."

More Success Stories From Women in The End The Cycle Program:

"Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and emotionally abused, daily. I didn't even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne and the ETC program], I empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I'm learning about energy and I am motivated to protect mine. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I've changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C

“If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behavior and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Leanne taught me to set boundaries and take care of me. Thank you for lifting me up”. J.P

"ETC has radically shifted my reality. ETC has transformed my beliefs that I was powerless, unworthy, unseen and unheard. For so long I felt stuck and helpless. ETC is a bright beacon of light shining light on the TRUTH. The truth is I am powerful, worthy, seen and heard! I matter! I am deserving of a healthy relationship and I no longer accept mistreatment in place of love. Thanks Leanne!" A.T

"Before I found Leanne, I had spent a year reading and watching everything I could get my hands on about narcissistic abuse. I went from simply being educated about it to being supported and coached in such a caring and understanding way that gave me the strength and validation to leave. If I wanted to stay, she would have certainly helped me with that too. That’s what is different with Leanne. She supports you with whatever you decide to do."

"Before ETC I was still trying to figure out both me and my husband. ETC helped me to focus solely on me and what I need and want in a relationship. I was able to let go of some things that were not helping me and had actually been hurting me. I gained a lot of confidence about myself and my own abilities. I feel like a capable and empowered woman now. I don’t know exactly what my future looks like but I know I can handle it."

"Before ETC, I was leaning toward leaving the relationship--and that's where I am now, except I feel much more "prepared" mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life -- and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I've shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I'm showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me--and was one of several "aha" moments."

"Before joining ETC, I knew my relationship was toxic but my coping was not getting me the change or feeling of stability and inner calm I desperately was seeking from others (friends, doctor, therapist.) Two plus years of personal therapy seemed lacking in the understanding of emotional abuse and how to help myself. An attempt to leave without support was unsuccessful. ETC has given me a clearer understanding on the cycle of abuse, tactics used to keep me in fear and under control in this relationship for years. I am now aware of how my silence, over-functioning, almost nonexistent boundaries and victim mentality contribute to abandonment of myself, codependency, reactive behaviours and avoidance of conflict. Unresolved childhood trauma and buried emotions added to my inner turmoil and inability to self regulate my moods. Learning to detach from negative interactions and conversation has been a huge positive shift in my self healing. The many layers of trauma need my attention for ongoing healing. Increasing selfcare, keeping routine while reinforcing my boundaries and SPEAKING my truth (and improving what and how I say it and positive self talk)is building my self confidence. Although I know I no longer wish to remain in this relationship, I am staying, for now, to work on myself in preparation. I feel prepared with a self care routine for my emotional and physical health; along with an exit strategy. Being aware of old ways of avoidance and fear; how to return to myself and seek support when taking the next steps is crucial for my success and growth. With divine gratitude, S.R."

"My partner and I have been inching toward separating for years, but we have a young daughter and separation would likely mean she and I moving to another town to be near my family. Over the past few months the discussions were getting more serious and there were a number of times where we decided to move forward with separating. My partner would have an overnight change of heart and the pattern would begin again. I was burned out, completely dissociated from myself and at a loss about how to proceed. Now I have taken ownership of my decision to stay in this relationship for now. I have always felt like I wouldn't leave without knowing I had tried everything, but couldn't accept that the thing I needed to try was prioritizing myself and my needs. I understand that, while I was not the cause of it, my codependency and lack of boundaries were enabling his emotionally abusive behaviour. Working on myself has given me clarity on what my boundaries are and I find myself setting them more consistently every day. I'm learning to trust myself more and worry about the future less."

"I was lost in the fog because I had not been true to myself due to strong codependent patterns. I learned that I need to practice self care. I understood that setting boundaries and enforcing them is a skill - it needs to be practiced consistently. And most importantly, I learned to take radical self responsibility and own my power. I am not a victim." A.F

"I came across this program at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn't make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. Suddenly my needs and the beginnings of some real boundaries were right in front of me, in my own handwriting! I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne, and this incredible course. Thank you so, so much." J.P

Still not convinced the program will work for you?

>> Listen to past ETC member’s stories here<<

Frequently asked questions

This program has helped hundreds of women all over the world!

I'm already in counselling, will this help me?

While not a substitute for clinical therapy, ETC will provide you with in-depth transformation, community support, responsive answers to your questions as they arise, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in therapy. I have had women take their new insights from the program into therapy sessions to work it out with their therapist, and many of them ask who I am, and start listening to my podcast. Therapy along with ETC can be a powerful combination, but committing to the process I outline is crucial to getting results.

Can I cancel my registration if I change my mind?

There are no refunds or cancellations on digital products purchased.

Do I have to commit to making all of the payments on the installment plan?

Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file.

I'm not in the relationship anymore, or am separated and considering going back to my ex-partner, will this still help me?

The ETC Method is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. This method will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.

I've tried to leave many times, I've lost belief in myself. Will this program work for me?

Many women leave a relationship like this and return, statistics say 7 times, before leaving for good. It is also common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in this program will help you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good.

I am preparing to leave, should I save my money?

While I will never encourage anyone to purchase anything that will be detrimental to their financial situation, I have seen many women who have the money to invest, but the fear of actually taking this step is the real reason they hesitate. The excuse “I’m saving up to leave” with no solid plan for how you will do so could carry on for many years to come while things continue to worsen in your relationship. Fear around not having enough money and feeling unsafe around money is a block that can hinder our growth. Not investing in the right support could cost you down the road whether in dragging the process on, causing more harm to yourself and any children as well as the legal ramifications of acting hastily without a solid exit plan in place, which you will be guided though inside the program.

Can I pay in CAD if I'm in Canada?

We do not make currency adjustments. Adjusting the currency for every person that requests it would be extremely time consuming, and an admin nightmare. USD is a standard and universal currency for global businesses, and 90% of our business expenses, including software and tools to house our online programs, are paid for in US dollars

I'm overwhelmed with my relationship and the stress I'm under, can I REALLY do this program?

This program is designed to get you out of overwhelm by taking very specific and focused ACTIONS. Right – action is the cure to overwhelm.

Do You Have a License Number so I can try to get insurance coverage?

I am no longer practicing as a counsellor, and the ETC program is not counselling, it is a mentoring program. Therefore, this service is not covered by insurance.

Where can I ask questions in the program?

You get 8 weeks of community access with your program. You can post any questions in the group.